What time is it on?
pidj fwiw as a smoker your comment offended me too. I sometimes have a fag while my kids are at the park. I stand a good distance away too so that the smoke doesn't bother anyone. I have never felt judged before for smoking - in France people seem to have better things to worry about - but I feel that I am no better or worse a person for being a smoker. Quite frankly the thought that a fellow quichester would possibly judge me on smoking a fair distance away from others is upsetting.
Plenty of people who are overweight smoke (plenty don't). Those that do are often scared of giving up as smokers have a tendancy to replace fags with snacks. In fact many smokers report putting on 5-10kg when they stop.
I accept that she was not supervising her child perfectly, but we all make mistakes. Even skinny non smokers.