Sorry GT it's an obscure reference. Any RATM fans out there know what I'm talking about? Or am I just showing my age harking back to 90s music?
Well done on completing your breastfeeding journey GT. It hasn't always been easy but you persevered. 
I think you will rise to the challenge Persepolis. Okay you're going to have to pick something as cool as C's name but there are so many out there. Our problem with names was we would always veto each other's favourites. DH was adamant that DS2 would be called James and I just wouldn't have it which is how he ended up being named after a character on Neighbours in desperation when he was six weeks old. We called him Voldemort for the first six weeks. 
What can I say, he just looked like a Voldemort.
A fire pit is a brilliant idea Eliza. How are you going to wrap it up though? I always wanted to buy my DH a car for his birthday. It'll never happen obviously but wouldn't it be amazing? How on earth do people afford to do things like that?
for those that had bad nights. J was awake twice in the night but I have been sleeping like a log lately and find it very difficult to rouse so DH saw to him. I think my body is trying to catch up on 16 months of sleep at the moment. Wonders when the bags under her eyes will disappear, if ever.
DS2 has his educational psychologist assessment today. I'm torn between hoping for a straightforward diagnosis of dyslexia or similar, enabling him to access the help he needs, and hoping there isn't anything wrong with him.