Well done RU, here is a sticker for your chart for doing so well 
I'm like you about the coil Nom, however dh has had the all clear after his snip so I don't need to now.
Ds3 is potty trained and very reliable, he even asks to go. Ds2 was surprised about wee and poo coming out of him too Fizz.
I've been quite busy here which is the reason for being AWOL. I've been organising and helping with fundraisers and doing lots of sewing, so haven't spent much time online.
Ds3 is quite a character at pre-school, it's really lovely to see. When I go and pick him up he kisses all the staff goodbye and waves goodbye to the children who are staying. They all wave back and say 'goodbye ds3' and he looks at me with a big grin and says 'they're all my friends mummy'.