Elsa My friend who has two children said to me that she was of the opinion that she was a better Mother to her children if she had a good nights sleep. When she weaned her children, she used to give them baby rice at night so that they would sleep better.
I've been dreamfeeding the boy, I'm not sure how much difference it makes as he still gets up at 3am and then at 5am. But then again, if I didn't dreamfeed him he'd be three times during the night. 
Anywho, I have spoken with the man in the know at le union and explained what was happening and what man with the big brain had told me. Anyway one vveeerrrryyyyyy long conversation later, he agreed with me and said he would see what he could do. It was very positive and I feel a lot better about it.
I think I mentioned before about DS being very sicky, well we did go to the Doctors and he does have a bit of reflux but they gave me some infant gaviscon which has worked a treat with him. He was sick again today but he managed to miss himself and get it all over me instead.