Aw Candlelightnewf that was a lovely kind comment for the OP
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I've read through a bit more if this thread now, and I also detect considerable hurt. I'm not at all offended by any of the comments from anyone though. I've got no need to be, as I'm secure in my own world view, and so have no need to be offended by anyone else's world view. I totally respect everyone's right to their own opinions, and we're all on our own journey.
The more I think about it, pray about it, and meditate on God's word etc; the more I think we've (the church) often massively over complicated things. I increasingly think that the meaning of life is love. Just love. God is love. I used to agonise over certain church teachings, and over things some (by no means all, or even most) representitives of the church say & do. I agonised, as I couldn't discern whether they were godly things or not. Now I think it's probably easy to tell - is there love there? If it's not loving, then to me it just can't be from God. If it is loving, then it probably is from God (to be clear I've met some wonderful delightful atheists & agnostics too - in that last sentence I specifically refer to things ecclesiastical people say & do)
I cringe at some of the things the church has done. I cringe at some of the things I have done (specially when I first became a Christian - I was so embarrassingly zealous back then!
) But more & more I just think... we're all damaged to some extent. We all bring baggage; and all need to cut eachother some slack. It's a journey, and each day we're learning new things, and hopefully becoming more enlightened.
Love to you OP. Love to you all! xxx