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[bellavita]

Hello

Ouch he sounds like he's being an absolute darling bless him

Shiney that dress is really lovely, do you flash your bum when you bend over though?

To be fair, they haven't got it on the furniture and I think the only reason it is on the duvet and pillowcase is because it has rubbed off the boys skin IYSWIM? It has definitely not been "marked" on. DS1 has got the chair and cleaned the ceiling (still a bit there but he has tried). Peace and quiet now as one of the mum's has come to collect them all (unwashed) and taken them into the little market town about 4 miles away from us. I said to DS1 when he wants to come back I will pick up and for him to txt me. He said he has no credit left on his phone - I shrugged my shoulders. He has taken his saved up dinner money, so let's see if he has the nouse to save 20p and use a phone box or if he even thinks about asking one of his mates to use their phone. Either way, I have hoovered all downstairs, everything has been put away and I have also hoovered my car and I am now doing a Shiney and assuming the horizontal on the settee. Also when DS2 is thrown into the mix, that's when it all goes wrong. All four boys together were way quieter than DS2 on his own!

Norma trust you to lower the tone..

oh lordie at the marker pen bella Boys sound like so much hard work. Hope DS isnt too mortified at being sick in front of his mates!

Dress is lovely shiney, and am sure it is still lovely with you wearing it

mini is fine, back to her normal self after a good night's sleep. But, OMG - i am bouncing. I am about to reactivate my normal fb account as ex has pissed me off big time, he is being a total cunt (i hate that word, so apologies if i have offended anyone) but thats the only word for him. I know there is going to be fall out when his family sees, so the odd supportive (if you so desire) word from you lot would be fab

Someone has to Bella

Of course Jet, don't let the bastard get you down! Glad to hear Mini is much better :)

can always rely on you Norma

But, lovely lovely happy news. When i took the girls to dorset a couple of years ago, for our first family holiday, i took loads of photos but thought i had lost the films.

I found then a couple of weeks ago, hidden in a secret bit of the suitcase i forgot about Have just had them developed this morning, and oh - they are just adorable I will see if i can figure out a way to put them on fb - it is such a beautiful place!

Hi jet . So glad mini is back to her normal self and of course I didn't mind you txting me when you were on your way to the hospital.

thanks bella

AM just so fed up, but determined not to be a quivering wreck - and figured if his family dont like the discussion, thats their tough look

He came to pick the girls up this morning for a few hours, actually demanding £20. That would be for the 6 miles each way trip to collect the cpap and clothes etc. I actually suggested that he stay overnight at hospital with her, as that would have been the easiest option (well, i wouldnt have actually left her with him, but i know he wouldnt agree anyway) but he refused that as well. He is just on his way back with them, so i guess i will chuck a tenner at him - am acutally bricking it, as i know he is going to kick off, but i am trying to stand my ground

oh, and fb will be deactivated again, i think it should be ok to pop in and out, but not to leave account open, if that makes sense.

Jet, do not give him any money . NONE!! When I fill my car up just about every two weeks, it costs around £45/50 and I do a 30 mile round trip each day to work, so where he is getting £20 from for 12 miles is beyond me. DO NOT GIVE HIM ANYTHING.

Don't you dare give him a penny Jet, he doesn't deserve it nor should he be asking for it FFS!

well, he has been and dropped them off. He was hovering around for ages, so i just busied myself with the girls looking at the photos. He eventually went and stood by the front door - so i asked if he would close it as it was letting all the heat out (bloody freezing here) so off he went and slammed the door behind him. Without a penny

No doubt i will be hearing about this later - but its not my fault he went off in a huff.

Jem is really upset though, said he sped off in the car with them and wouldnt slow down when she was crying asking him to.

However, in my new, determined to not be a miserable fucker, style - will leave on a positive. I have managed to finally put some songs on ipod - though have deleted shineys in the meantime

YAY JET!!! YOU GO GIRL

Poor Jem

Saw you post Jet, you go girl, poor Junior hope she is OK.

Finally iploaded pictures on facebook.

Well done jet, the fucker doesn't deserve a thing.

My ex h has just been to pick DS up and he has rolled up in a brand new BMW...I have never had a penny maintenance from him HOWEVER, he never, ever asks for a penny in petrol money and if he did I would rip his bloody head off!

Been to get my hair cut and coloured today, and had my eyebrows waxed whilst I was there. Because I know what you lot are like I have taken a before picture and as soon as my eyebrows calm down (and I have cleaned the windows) I shall take an after shot and try to upload my pudding face to MN.

Anyone doing a new thread?

Is it that time already for a new thread? How about you do one Jaq?

OK I shall give it ago...eeek my first one!!!

Hang on!

Oooh yes before and after pics Jaq. I take it you have tried to get maintenance out of him?

new thread

Use this one up first please, or we shall be in trouble!

Will try and fiihs

sorry finish

Love the title Jaq.

Hey Fanny, I like your pics on fb.

DD has been asleep, most unlike her

Thank you Bella, will look better when the grass has grown

Can I squeeze in one more?