Okay so everyone with a nearly 3 year old plus who is nowhere near potty trained please let me know I am not alone.

[bobbybob]

Ds will be 3 at the end of Feb 06 and deep down I know that it is fine that he has no concept of what is required. But when everyone I know in RL has done it, I just want to know that in the much more sensible and probably more honest world of mumsnet that I am not alone.

A lot of it is that I just can't be arsed and am waiting for ds to decide to do it himself. We go out a lot to places like the zoo with 2 toilets about 2km apart, and I bike or walk to places rather than take the car.

I am rather tempted to send him to preschool for the whole week and let them sort it out.

We have a family problem on both sides of bed wetting so it never bothered me although during the day we seemed to manage fine with all of them. I was talking to the twins in bed about it last night because this time last year when they'd just turned 7 we were still worried about wet beds. Their brother had to go to a bed wetting clinic. I wet the bed until I was 8 or 9 and I think their father did too. One of their sisters was the "best" and she was about 5. But now we have no problems. I knew it would sort out but having an extra 4 years of wet sheets wasn't fun.