Gio, never had IKEA deliver, but I think they charge extra 15% if they build it. We've got tonnes of IKEA stuff, bookshelves weren't that difficult, though I would definitely get thm to do a kitchen, or the wardrobe if we did it again (I have fond memories of being heavily pregnant and immobilised while watching DH build our wardrobe, and cursing the whole of Sweden in the process)
Marslady, we have a pool, but it's one of those frame ones and only 15 feet across, does that merit a visit I'm just outside Rome, if Delgirl is here and we can get Gio out from Rome then we could have a mini-meet-up of 4.