Would you hire a male escort?

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Have you ever considered hiring a male escort...? If you want uncomplicated, no strings attached fun? Surely it's safer than seeking a one night stand in a club or bar somewhere?

Exactly this.

I’m married but sex is a distant memory at the moment and even when we were still having regular sex it was never fulfilling, DH has always been selfish in bed.

In all honesty I have fantasised about hiring a male escort - only if I became single again, I’m not a cheat - but don’t know if I would ever actually go through with it. I’m also not unattractive and still get male attention, so I would want to explore meeting someone the normal way on my own first before resorting to using an escort for sex.

No for many reasons, not least that I am happily married.

However, ethics aside, I can that having sex as a consumer would side step all the female socialisation around sex being centred around male pleasure and culminating in the male orgasm. I doubt our philanthropic tinder shagger upthread would be amused if his 'clients' demanded he go down on them then thanked him and left, leaving his dick ignored and untouched in his pants. Or maybe that's exactly what he's into...

God yes I would if I still wanted sex. I find most men rather dull company and not many are attractive to me. So a physically well maintained, clean and mostly silent man, focussing entirely on my physical satisfaction then going away, sounds fine to me.

There are millions of men on OLD sites, hook up sites and just standing around in pubs interested in casual sex, I'm sure very few women would have to pay for sex, most men aren't as choosy as women when it comes to casual sex.

No I can't do that, my emotions are attached to my sexual needs and I can't separate the two.
I'd always be thinking that he would be thinking, God as soon as I do this fat, old woman I can leave.
I can only have sex with somebody who actually loves me.

No, aside from not believing you can buy consent it takes me a long time to feel anything like sexual attraction, I was friends with DH for 2 years before dating, with our physical relationship starting after 6 months of that.

No thank you.

The exchanging of money/goods/favours in return for the sex is what makes it prostitution, or escorting if we're being euphemistic. The money is the only difference that matters. It's not the way you speak to each other or the video calling beforehand or what kind of sex you have or anything else that marks the difference between casual sex and prostitution; the difference is purely down to whether money changes hands.

What you're doing is just having one night stands with like-minded women you're attracted to and discussing boundaries beforehand. Which is fine, but a weird thing to bring up on a completely unrelated thread.

To answer the OP, no I wouldn't consider it. Consent cannot be bought and nobody is entitled to sex.

@Somersetdad1981 do you know Brian from Hull?

I wouldn't pay for sex. Surely swinging is the answer? Lots of clubs/events/ sites dedicated to sex were there are verifications to show you they are real and not a complete nut. Also it feels more like its for your pleasure then Mr Tinder who probably wham bams.

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Maybe Somersetdad1981 is having yoni fun too?

I offer sexual services via Tinder, but don’t charge.

😂😂😂😂😂 like 85% of men on Tinder then

The easiest thing in the world is for a woman to get sex. Men really aren't offering a scarce resource.

No, because I want someone to want me because they find me attractive and want me. Not because I'm paying them, so grim.

Fucking LOL at our altruistic sex volunteer upthread. Truly a noble pursuit.

Philanthropy to inspire us all.

Well said! Servicing all those desperate women free of charge. Like it’s a special gift.

😂😂😂

For a truly dedicated professional, nay artist, perhaps. He would have to be at the very top of his game however, in every way 😉

No. I wouldn't enjoy sex with someone who I knew wasn't genuinely attracted to me.

Male escorts do exist, in relatively small numbers, as do transsexual escorts, but in the real world the overwhelming majority of their clients are men. Straight women hardly ever pay for sex, because in the age of dating apps, they don’t need to.

It would be about as sexy as going to the dentist. Why would I want some vain, spray tanned stranger with bleached white teeth? Anyway, sex is a massively overrated experience. I’d rather have a hot bath, a glass of wine and a good book.

No because that’s seedy, unethical and a total turn off. If DH wasn’t alive I’d buy a nice vibrator, the one with the rabbit ears maybe

If you have to pay for it, then it's not 'fun' for them. They don't want you - they want the cash. Clients are completely deluded.

Exactly! Who tf does he think he is?? Gods fucking gift?? Zero difference to all the other sleazy shag-abouts on tinder looking for casual hook ups.