Would you hire a male escort?

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Have you ever considered hiring a male escort...? If you want uncomplicated, no strings attached fun? Surely it's safer than seeking a one night stand in a club or bar somewhere?

God no. If I want nsa I go on Feeld. I’ve used it multiple times and never found an issue with connecting with guys who just want nsa fun. I think if you want it then you just need to go on the right sites

@Somersetdad1981 if they are friends why not have a relationship. Is this real?

Can't think of anything worse.

I think for a lot of women feeling desirable and desired is part of enjoying sex. Can't think of anything less sexy than having to pay for it :(

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No because l couldn't think of anything worse than meaningless sex. It would leave me cold, but each to their own.

No, I'm against anyone paying for sex for any reason whatsoever.

Nope. Men who want no strings attached sex are ten a penny. Easy to find. Not worth the leccy bill.

I think you'll find that most men would quite happily finger any woman for free let alone for money.

I think DH might have something to say about it 🤣

Not for sex, no, absolutely no way.

But trades people are like hen's teeth around here, they've massively hiked their prices and only take on huge jobs. So, if a male escort knew his way around a drill and basic joinery then I'd absolutely hire him for that reason, yes. If if got my doors planed and my shelves up, I'd pretend it was some kind of weird fetish of mine, that my ultimate fantasy was to drink a brew in the garden thinking about the hot young thing upstairs wrestling with my little carpentry jobs

Yes, for the lolz, and a story.

Seriously though, hiring an escort is between having the energy go into the dating world vs just having your sexual needs met. One night stands with randoms don't apply here. If this is where you feel you are at, then do it. Only you know what you need.

I almost did this once, met an Escort for a quick "meet and greet" he was suppose to only stay and hour, but we had drinks way past that, he was exaclty what he described and probably more.

I didn't call back and book because I dont think I was ready yet. I still have his number though.

A lot of men don't use prostitutes as such but will go for a massage where the woman offers 'extras'. Usually that will mean 'hand relief' and nothing more. Some of them offer this service to women too. I'm sure that many women could enjoy a massage with extras and I'm sure a lot of men would be happy to give it. No viagra required.

No.
I think sex can get very emotionally and psychologically complicated and it’s dangerous to try and shut yourself off and compartmentalise the purely physical side. I don’t think money discharges that debt.

No - I've never been that desperate for sex.

No because it’s extremely easy for me to get sex if I was able to

This is a zombie thread from last summer. I'm sure the OP has made her decision on whether it's a good idea or not by now.

@Somersetdad1981 - shagging women for free since 2020. What a hero🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏

That sounds like an argument against promiscuity not so much an argument against prostitution.

Absolutely no, I don't believe in paid consent. Either someone wants to have sex with me in a relationship with no business involvement (be that a one off or long term and loving or somewhere in between) or they don't.

Ok, I think there may be a more ethical place for services for the long term disabled but for me the priority is the wellbeing of the SW and I just wouldn't be content that they really wanted to be doing such a personal thing. Office work can be mentally damaging enough if it's not going well, never mind having to get this intimate with strangers.

I also would not see the pleasure or attraction in a man sleeping with me for money, however nice he was about it. Whilst I haven't always needed a profound emotional connection prior to DP for sex, i would not be able to separate his motivation from my enjoyment. Without wishing to lean on stereotypes, I'd genuinely prefer him to come and do some tiling in the downstairs loo if any good at it. This seems to be a pretty niche and high demand service round our way.

That reminds me of a Victoria Wood sketch where she plays someone working for a dating agency. She asked the applicant "Is it a serious relationship that you are looking for?". When told 'yes' she said "I have to ask, it's just that some of the women who come here just want the brickwork repointing".

No never and would think less of anyone who would, as other posters have said, consent cannot be bought.

@Somersetdad1981 I believe you meant to post this fantasy to penthouse rather than on here.

Also:

"I am a man, and have been a sort of male escort for about three years. I offer sexual services via Tinder, but don’t charge."

So said you and every other man on tinder.

No. There is no such thing as paid 'consent'. Men see themselves as powerful, being able to rent other humans bodies. Actually its a sign of utter weakness that they need to.

I can see the need if you had a function to attend ( such as work or business ) where people didn't really know you and you felt the need for a companion .
I would want a guaranteed intelligent , witty , easy on the eye , but to end the night with sex , no thanks I'd pay him off and send him away.

No, and no interest in it.

However I once went on a date with a guy who used to be a host in a club in Japan (the clients were female). My god he knew his way around a woman's body. My guess is he was doing more than pouring drinks and giving good chat in his role.