Would you hire a male escort?

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Have you ever considered hiring a male escort...? If you want uncomplicated, no strings attached fun? Surely it's safer than seeking a one night stand in a club or bar somewhere?

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I am a man, and have been a sort of male escort for about three years. I offer sexual services via Tinder, but don’t charge.

I originally started during Covid lockdown as there seemed to be an increase in interest in my Tinder profile from women only after that one thing. I was only after that one thing too, so just thought I’d come out and say it in the open.

I met my first ‘client’ soon after lockdown ended, and have met around 30 women since then. This is far far more than I expected, and I only actually meet about one in four of those who get in contact (partly due to lack of connection / attraction and partly due to time).

I see no shame in it for either them or me. There is clearly a demand out there. I make sure we have a video call before we meet, to ensure safety on both sides. The first time we meet is always at a venue of her suggestion, and obviously the sex is always safe. I get sex out of it, as does she, and actually several of the women I’ve met have been really lovely. A couple are now proper friends who I see non-sexually.

@Somersetdad1981 you're not an escort. You're just a bloke on tinder having no strings sex with women you find attractive.

What’s the difference, apart from money?

My Tinder profile specifically says that I offer sexual services. It describes my physical attributes and the range of services on offer. The messages I exchange with the women who reply are purely practical. The only difference is that I don’t charge.

No

No. But I would pay one to do life admin for me.

No.

Surely one difference is you get to choose women who you are attracted to?

I always found the idea of male escorts very depressing. Some bloke you have nothing in common with needing viagra or sex toys to get it on with you because he really doesn't fancy you in reality.

No. Much easier to DIY.

No thanks <shudder>. I don’t believe consent can be bought.

Because you only meet 1 in 4 that you also find attractive. That’s the difference.
Male escorts don’t only go with women they also want to have sec with, they provide a service regardless of their preferences.

To answer the OP - I did consider this while single, due to knowing there would be no emotional attachments from either side and you’re kinda more likely to actually get a decent sh*g 🤷🏼‍♀️ but then I just never had the balls to actually go through with it and stuck to pulling people in pubs 😂

I'm not into men, so I wouldn't hire a man, but I wouldn't hire a woman either. I think it's unethical and wrong and I don't think sexual activity and sexual access make for an acceptable subject of a transaction. Sexual activity should only take place with mutual interest.

The above was In response to this 🤦🏼‍♀️

You’ve quoted your own post there.

FS 🤦🏼‍♀️
Mondays don’t treat me well….,

Male escorts don’t only go with women they also want to have sec with, they provide a service regardless of their preferences.

This is not true. I will not be drawn into further discussion on this issue!

(Yes by the way.)

“I want to put my point accross to tell you you are wrong but do NOT ask me to back that up as I do not wish to talk about it any further” 😂😂

Nobody ‘drew’ you in to a discussion on the matter, you literally commented on a post about the ‘issue’ 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

No thanks.

If I wanted to have random sex I wouldn't have to pay for it.

No. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone if I had to pay them to persuade them to do it with me.

No way, I would rather never have sex again if that were my only option. I could not enjoy sex with someone who I didn’t think was attracted to me.

I offer sexual services via Tinder, but don’t charge🤢

l bet you don’t. Ugh.

I don't believe consent can be bought.

This.

Very few women would pay for sex because it's so easy to get at the drop of a hat.

Definitely thought about it due to the complete no strings attached and presumably they'd know their way around the female body but I've never actually committed.

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LOL at the poster who is generously shagging women on Tinder for free 😂

No I wouldn’t pay for an escort, male or female - it’s totally grim buying consent.