OMG !!! Guess what I've just found!!!???

[Leigh1980]

I've name changed due to my partner knowing my username hee hee!!

I've just found a very dainty petit diamond ring on the bedside table (his side). We only have one. This also holds my make up and bits 'n bobs.

We've only been together and living together for four months but we both know we ate meant for each other.

What do I do? Do I ask him about it? Wait for him to bring it up? It's basically sitting on top behind my little clock. Do you think it's meant for me? I've no idea when he could have purchased it either. So confused but also so excited. I'm to nervous to bring it up, but maybe he is nervous too and hoping I'd see it and bring it up myself. Aaaahhhh!!! Do you think it's an engagement ring!? We're both so in love with each other!!

Need your wisdom and experience :-)9

You sound very ditsy sweet, and it is nice to be In Lurve (as I vaguely remember!) Hope all goes well for you both, for a long time.

Is he called Jason, OP?

Neither of you conform to humanity? WTF do you mean by that?

They are blackbirds. Hence the picnic up a tree.

Fwiw I am eating laughing cow blue cheese spread triangles straight out of the foil! Why? Because I can!

Give me a break.

Don't perceive things that aren't there MissStrawberry.

It's true what I said though, in the fact that I'm 33 years old and still climb trees! Is that conforming to reality? No, not really cause I don't know anyone my age that still makes stick villages and climbs trees! That's what I mean by conformity. Sure I can't be the only one out there who does childish things but I don't care, I live how I want to live :-)). Best wishes MissStrawberry and hope you understand my reasoning by that phrase and know that I will never hurt a soul.

That's great Sparkly :-))). Hope you're enjoying it. Yummy x

Lol at being blackbirds !!

Thanks Garlicsmutty :-)). Maybe I am ditsy but I love it :-)

Snort.

Where's DP right now? whipping up hummus for the homeless?

Unfortunately, I think you come across naive at best and a bit sad at worst. Whan people say 'I'm a bit crazy, me' I always think there's a bit of a 'I'm aware that I don't fit in and am uncomfortable with it' subtext.

Blimey. You remind of Bjork when she was singing about threading worms on a stri-i-ing and keeping spiders in her pocket. Bonkers but in a harmless and nice way.

it's "incomprehensible" OP, not whatever you wrote.

enjoy being madly in love...but don't expect people to enjoy it with you!

He's at work actually. Creating beautiful plates of food. I know I'm eccentric but why be "normal? ". You know I have homeless people coming up to me and shaking my hand and they say thank you :-). That's the meaning of life. Doing everything to make someone else's life a bit easier/happier!

I don't hate, I hold no resentment and I choose to love people and will do whatever I can to live my my code of life which is the above.

This just cannot be real

Leigh, you sound very 'high' on love. Did you ever really come down from that tree...?

It all just seems a bit ham.

I think you're still in the Honeymoon period.

Whereas most couples spend this time bonking here, there, and everywhere - you and The Chef choose to help animals and make tree houses and collect sticks. Which is all lovely and fine.

But by this time next year, you'll be chucking him out of bed for farting.

So make the most of it.

Thanks for promoting that our Zingwidge, please refer to my earlier comment apologising for my grammatical errors as I'm on my phone. People can enjoy whatever they want in their life. It's their choice to choose what they find enjoyable.

Each to their own.

I am sitting on a toddlers chair because I can and dd is bouncing all over the sofa

Polkadotsrock - oh yes it is very much real xx. As I said I have no intention to bullshit, that would be completely pointless on its own!

There's the spirit Gaggiagirl. Why don't we all do something today that's a little bit out of the norm! Bring our inner child back, that's what I say!!

Whistlingnun lol! I'm high on life !!!

I want to be supportive, I do, but all I can think of is begging you to please tell us when you have had kids and have started going to toddler groups - I want to witness bonkers behaviour.

or start a blog. it would be great entertainment.

sorry, you sound like a loving person, but this just too "sugarcoated honey love bun with icing on top" even for me.

It is SchmaltzingMatilda. Believe me I have had truly bad shit happen to me. But that's why I am here now, as I've chosen to forgive, let go and move on and live life how I want as its my life, I can choose how to live it.

I don't "perceive" anything, OP.

I am very sure of my opinions. I also am very sure you don't know everyone in the world and are quite possibly not the only person to make stick villages and eat food in a tree.

Saying why be normal? Is implying that you are something other than normal, perhaps something special, when actually there is no normal really, just majority.

Good luck.