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OMG !!! Guess what I've just found!!!???

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Leigh1980 · 13/07/2013 18:14

I've name changed due to my partner knowing my username hee hee!!

I've just found a very dainty petit diamond ring on the bedside table (his side). We only have one. This also holds my make up and bits 'n bobs.

We've only been together and living together for four months but we both know we ate meant for each other.

What do I do? Do I ask him about it? Wait for him to bring it up? It's basically sitting on top behind my little clock. Do you think it's meant for me? I've no idea when he could have purchased it either. So confused but also so excited. I'm to nervous to bring it up, but maybe he is nervous too and hoping I'd see it and bring it up myself. Aaaahhhh!!! Do you think it's an engagement ring!? We're both so in love with each other!!

Need your wisdom and experience :-)9

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Strokethefurrywall · 14/07/2013 14:15

Too much for my hungover self...

ZingWidge · 14/07/2013 14:20

reality? check

DiaryOfAWimpyMum · 14/07/2013 14:27

Oh okay... I waited 16 years and didn't get an eternity ring...

So what does it mean then?

He loves you but you are still married?

ProphetOfDoom · 14/07/2013 14:33

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gaggiagirl · 14/07/2013 14:36

Boak
PMSL
Boaked again.

Maryz · 14/07/2013 14:38

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CheerfulYank · 14/07/2013 14:40

I saw DH cry once for a real actual reason!

perplexedpirate · 14/07/2013 14:41

Um.

OK...?

DiaryOfAWimpyMum · 14/07/2013 14:44

Oh I think I have it, you love each other so much, you dumped partners, moved in together and have just skipped the engagement and marriage and gone onto the Eternity thing?

What's next funeral plan?

K8Middleton · 14/07/2013 14:49

I reckon it must be like living in a Richard Curtis film chez Leigh with all the earnest speeches about love. And all that crying must be a bit wearing; all the snotting would put me right off. Why aren't they just shagging loads like normal people?

I like my men continent of both bladder and emotion.

HystericalParoxysm · 14/07/2013 14:51

Bahahahahahaha!
Erm, I wish you and your Angel a very long and happy life together.
Boak.

SusuwatariToes · 14/07/2013 14:53

I had an ex like that once. He cried "because I was so beautiful"... I was a bit Hmm but he wasn't British so put it down to cultural differences.

As the relationship progressed he became more over-bearing and controlling and his "sensitivity" became manipulative and emotionally blackmailing.

Just be careful.

PeanutPatty · 14/07/2013 15:02

That would have me running for the hills.

Portofino · 14/07/2013 15:20

It worries me that op never goes out on her own. He sounds a bit creepy! I can't believe he came to stay and you calmly threw your dp of 10 years out. Have you no shame?

MissStrawberry · 14/07/2013 15:21

OP, who and what else do you have in your life?

Did your boyfriend say why the ring wasn't in a box?

potatofactory · 14/07/2013 15:27

Run awaaaaaaaaaaaaay!

Ewwwwwww -

And also >

garlicsmutty · 14/07/2013 15:28

It wasn't in a box because his fiancée sent it back to him in a Jiffy bag from Serbia Wink

garlicsmutty · 14/07/2013 15:29

Is there a reason why you stay in the house unless DP is with you, OP?

Just wondering if there might be a disability or something.

InTheRedCorner · 14/07/2013 15:31

Where did he get the ring from?

Inclusionist · 14/07/2013 15:34

I think this guy will become emotionally controlling and jealous.

Surely nobody that emotional can be stable?

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Leigh1980 · 14/07/2013 15:35

I can understand everybody's point of views. For what it's worth I will elaborate. My ex and I grew apart, it was a mutual agreement to split, hence why we are still the best of friends.

It may seem a lot to have an emotional man but believe me we've both been through relationships of hell. We are in love, I can go and do whatever I want but I choose to spend my time with him. I have hobbies such as fitness training etc as does he. During our free time there is nothing that makes me happier than spending that time with him.

People may vomit of the thought of true love and it may seem uncomprehendable that in these times fairy takes exist but that's because choose to live in my world and neither if us confirm to humanity. For instance we climbed a tree the other day and had a picnic up there lol.

Why choose to live in a world like it is today when you can make your own world.

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Leigh1980 · 14/07/2013 15:39

And for what it's worth I'm dancing around like a madman in my lounge listening to old school tunes! Why? Cause I can!!

PS please forgive my grammatical errors, iPhone has a mind of its own! :-)). I live to make the world a happy place. We both have the same values, that's why he volunteers to help homeless people and cook for them and I help animals!

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Sparklysilversequins · 14/07/2013 15:39

I don't think people are vomiting at True Love itself tbh. I think it's the way you're writing about it that's increasing the up chuck factor.

MissStrawberry · 14/07/2013 15:41

Neither of you conform to humanity?

WTF do you mean by that?

I am happy you are so happy with your beau but making out everyone else isn't as amazing as you isn't going to make you any friends on here and you might regret that should things go tits up and you want support.

HenWithAttitude · 14/07/2013 15:42

Grin Sparkly, that's right...break it gently