OMG !!! Guess what I've just found!!!???

[Leigh1980]

I've name changed due to my partner knowing my username hee hee!!

I've just found a very dainty petit diamond ring on the bedside table (his side). We only have one. This also holds my make up and bits 'n bobs.

We've only been together and living together for four months but we both know we ate meant for each other.

What do I do? Do I ask him about it? Wait for him to bring it up? It's basically sitting on top behind my little clock. Do you think it's meant for me? I've no idea when he could have purchased it either. So confused but also so excited. I'm to nervous to bring it up, but maybe he is nervous too and hoping I'd see it and bring it up myself. Aaaahhhh!!! Do you think it's an engagement ring!? We're both so in love with each other!!

Need your wisdom and experience :-)9

I've got a feeling that this wont end well

Why do think there is more to this?

I haven't got friends who visit so there's no way it could've been left there. Oooh I'm so confused!

Hmm.

Sorry I don't understand 500. What did I do wrong?

He sounds a right softie, lol.

Sorry OP but I'm with 500internalerror. Surely you wouldn't take a new engagement ring (or for that matter any gift of jewellery) out of the box it came in. You certainly wouldn't leave it lying on a bedside table without a box. I really hope I'm wrong and you get the question you're hoping for.

Put the man out of his misery! If it has been there for 2 days in plain view, then he might be worried to why you haven't said anything!

not going to say anything negative at this point

I would be suspicious. No box isn't right. I would think OW had left it.

A ring without a box, left partially unseen on a bedside table for 2 days? Like it was left there by accident by someone. Sorry, but my gut feeling isn't good. Even if its meant for the op, why keep it loose instead of in a box or even a bit of tissue paper?

Yeah he's a real softie! He's a chef but also cooks for the homeless as a volunteer!

I'm at Hume 24/7 as I work from home so there would be no way another woman could come in without me noticing lol.

Just ask him! :)

Home not Hume- damn phone

If you've just found it, how do you know it's been there for two days? Sorry if I sound overly suspicious.

Does it look like an engagement ring?! Is it a solitaire?

If its been there for a couple of days hide it and see if he ransacks the house.

cannot be arsed with hint dropping, if leaving the ring is a hint and then you start hinting, then it's lots of hints.. Just bloody ask him. Oooh rant over!

This could go on for days ... Ask him !!

Ask him!! Come on, I have to pop out soon and would like to know when I get back, ok!?!

Just ask him and put yourself out of your misery!!

Just ask him already!!!

I saw it lying there yesterday but didnt think anything of it as its so dainty it looks like a small wire. Only today when I picked it up did I see the diamonds.

Yeah, just ask.