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Calling all lurkers - It’s YOUR week - come and win some prizes!

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 10/02/2020 11:02

Come one, come all for the first Lurkers’ Week of the decade!

“What is Lurkers' Week?” we hear you cry from the shadows…

A lurker is someone who reads threads but is yet to take the plunge and post - if that sounds like you, we'd really like you to step into the light and join us on the boards .

All you have to do is post on this thread to say hello and your name will be added to the Mumsnet top hat where you've got the chance to win your choice of a bottle of Red Velvet Cupcake Baileys or Tanqueray gin AND a legendary Mumsnet Mug - which may or may not be dishwasher safe. Grin

We’ll also be rewarding super helpful regular posters who drop by with words of encouragement for our wet-behind-the-ears newbies.

So come on everyone, don’t be shy and join the thread - post below and tell us what you think about Mumsnet. If you’re not in you can’t win.

Find more information about getting started on Mumsnet here.

Happy posting Smile

MNHQ

Calling all lurkers - It’s YOUR week - come and win some prizes!
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GinnyStrupac · 11/02/2020 10:49

You can keep your tatt mug MNHQ, but did somebody mention gin?!

You did?!

Ah, in that case: I love it when lurkers break cover and post, especially long-time lurkers. If you're a former lurker reading this, apart from on this thread when the motivation is clearly tatt mug accumulation, what motivated you to finally stick your head above the parapet and post?

And on second thoughts, I'd quite like to drink my gin out of a MN mug and it would make a change from a bucket I suppose

AnneKipanki · 11/02/2020 12:21

Grin @Thigh

Speedycat · 11/02/2020 12:52

A definite lurker. Saying hello for the first time. Hello. Lovely the car parking threads. Hours of entertainment.

Speedycat · 11/02/2020 12:53

*loving! Oops

AnneKipanki · 11/02/2020 13:01

I am not a lurker ..well I AM on some threads and do not comment on them.
I have been on a few years now under a couple of names.

Advice ? If posting photos block out identifying features .

nomorenightmares · 11/02/2020 13:02

I'm a long time lurker. I started a thread once about 5 years ago (under a different name I think) when I was going through a tough time and the response wasn't positive, so I've never dared start a thread again. Or comment really (only very minimally).

@EagleVisionSquirrelWork that advice is fantastic and I could have done with that 5 years ago!

Luckily I'm in a much better place now, but still wary of posting...

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 11/02/2020 14:03

@Butterbeeeen

Hi, iv been a lurker for a long long time but may be tempted to post more for a mumsnet mug. In fact there probably isn't much I wouldn't do for a mumsnet mug Blush

Shock Brew

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cornishfae · 11/02/2020 14:49

Hello, I am a newish signed up lurker. New but addicted already, i am here everyday! I have yet to comment, i tend to be the wallflower on forums really, although a few times i have been tempted in Relationships etc when i really admire a poster for their bravery. Love the fun posts as well, so maybe one day soon i will post. x.

p.s. i might like gin...

rhubarb82 · 11/02/2020 15:30

Hello mumsnet! Longtime lurker here...
I enjoy reading AIBU every day and find it fascinating, helpful and funny in equal measure - much to my DH's dismay! I'd pretty much kill for a MN mug so that I could see his face when I gave him his morning coffee in that rather than his usual boring I ran a marathon aren't I very special mug Grin

sunshinegirl28 · 11/02/2020 16:51

I lurk a lot - I love reading all the posts! I occasionally post and I will try to post more!

SnapAndFartAllDayLong · 11/02/2020 17:06

Hey I've been a lurker for about 10 years Shock very rarely post but love to read AIBU daily when I get 10 mins with a cuppa BrewBiscuit

Plainandsimple · 11/02/2020 17:13

Another long time lurker, mostly because I seem to be a thread-killer Sad

LR33 · 11/02/2020 18:28

Hello,
Im lyndsay, long time lurker, just recently have the courage to start posting on threads Smile
Doubt I will get the courage to start a thread ConfusedBlush
Lyndsay xx

YoTheGinPussyOfStMawesOnThigh · 11/02/2020 18:52

I like a good lurk sometimes.
I also like wading in and throwing my two penneth worth in to the fray.
I like gin a lot especially Tangueray.
MNHQ love me, they sent me a shark last year.

Becky, gin please, you know it makes sense.

Malacath · 11/02/2020 18:57

Hello everyone,
I've been lurking here around the time the other website went skewiffy but very rarely post. I often read while one handedly doing things around the house when I could be more productive Blush. I often wonder what's the point in replying, when quite a few other people have already given the same opinion Confused. Quite enjoy being here and reading advice. I do agree with the notion of not giving away too much of your private life by he way!

sunshinesky · 11/02/2020 19:27

I’m a long - time lurker! The Shock cf posts are my favourites. I have commented on a few but rarely feel qualified to give any advice!

NeverTwerkNaked · 11/02/2020 19:34

I remember feeling terrified before I posted for the first time Grin. Take the plunge. But maybe don't start on AIBU Grin

AnneKipanki · 11/02/2020 19:39

Can I just say , Halloween Name Change competition, Tanqueray please . www.google.co.uk/search?q=it+should+have+been+me&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-gb&client=safari

YoTheGinPussyOfStMawesOnThigh · 11/02/2020 20:15

That’s one powerful singing voice you’ve got there AnneKipanki and like the earrings too. Gin is definitely needed to keep those vocal chords in fine fettle.

AnneKipanki · 11/02/2020 20:19

I know.
The earrings are from Next .

AnneKipanki · 11/02/2020 20:32

They have shrunk a bit over the years . I have shrunk and faded too .
Never mind , the gin will rejuvenate me .

Calling all lurkers - It’s YOUR week - come and win some prizes!
CarrieBlue · 11/02/2020 20:53

I’ve occasionally commented but not started a thread - it’s a scary place! Not really, but I promise to lurk less and post more :)

YoTheGinPussyOfStMawesOnThigh · 11/02/2020 21:17

AnneKipanki are you sure you are not really Barbara Dixon? Those curls look familiar.

MamaWeasel · 11/02/2020 22:07

I don't post often, and have never started a thread of my own, but never say never!

Pomeranian · 11/02/2020 22:13

Long time lurker here, just signed up.
Free mug sounds good! 👌🏼
Probably unethical but who doesn't love free stuff😂

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