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Help please to understand PayPal - urgent

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Workinghardeveryday · 28/09/2021 12:43

Hi, please could someone tell me is PayPal credit different to PayPal? Also on statement ITunes Store is on there nearly every day all different amounts. What could this be? What could you buy every day that costs between £3-£15?

Apple is listed again daily for same sort of amounts!!

What could the purchase be?

Thanks

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DecorChange · 28/09/2021 15:38

Could it be only fans? Just a thought

Wabola · 28/09/2021 15:40

If there were other cards, minimum payments would be paid, probably from his bank account, is there payments to other loans on his statement

Workinghardeveryday · 28/09/2021 15:43

No, I noticed on a few occasions he has drawn cash out, £20-£90 but not that often. He has no need for cash

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Workinghardeveryday · 28/09/2021 15:43

What is only fans?

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Rainbowshine · 28/09/2021 15:57

@Workinghardeveryday here is an explanation of Onlyfans. The whole site might be useful for you as you need to be more tech savvy or you’re vulnerable to being scammed, hacked etc.

www.internetmatters.org/hub/news-blogs/what-is-onlyfans-what-parents-need-to-know/

Rainbowshine · 28/09/2021 15:58

Sorry to be clearer the Internet Matters site will be useful, not Onlyfans.

TakeYourFinalPosition · 28/09/2021 16:20

I don’t think you can gamble on iTunes but you can use Apple Pay payments on most bookies.

From what you’ve said; it’s mostly apps and gaming, and films/music.. but between that; the loan and his poor financial management overall, I wouldn’t want to be financially linked to him at all, married or not.

CorianderAndCream · 28/09/2021 18:00

@Rainbowshine

Sorry to be clearer the Internet Matters site will be useful, not Onlyfans.
Neither of the payments state OnlyFans though. They say Apple or a gaming site so I don't see why it would be OnlyFans
WildfirePonie · 28/09/2021 19:17

@Workinghardeveryday

Yes, i'd be annoyed.

Sorry, I made the comment without knowing the full situation.

Workinghardeveryday · 28/09/2021 20:24

@WildfirePonie thank you x.

I went on his phone, nothing in iTunes for those amounts that go out every week. He is looking into it.

Caused a huge fall out. Still wasn’t honest about PayPal credit though until I proved it. No apology, defensive and moody.

Jez think this needs moving to relationships. Can’t trust him at all. Let’s just say this is not by any means the first time he has lied.

Caught him trying to delete things from the cloud. Can things be permanently deleted? Don’t know how to even check his cloud.

What a major mess. Got a really important day tomorrow too. What an utter arsehole!!

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VanCleefArpels · 28/09/2021 21:06

If you are at a stage of thinking you need to check someone’s internet history I think that is pretty terminal, sorry OP

SuperstoreFan · 29/09/2021 08:23

Get rid of him.

He's taken out a loan to buy bitcoin, he's putting frivolous purchases on credit and he's not being honest with you.

You have bigger things to worry about than PayPal.

LIZS · 29/09/2021 08:31

If he is deleting stuff from icloud it is probably videos, pictures which he has "acquired" and perhaps imessages. Is there a Recently Deleted folder? Honestly if trust has gone is he really worth it?

Workinghardeveryday · 29/09/2021 22:33

I will try and look into recently deleted, thank you.

Threw everything he owned in bags tonight and told him to do one!

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SuperstoreFan · 29/09/2021 23:15

Fantastic, the tosser needs his head checking.

MyOtherProfile · 30/09/2021 05:00

Well done OP. Hope you've secured all your online accounts now.

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