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Today's the FIRST and we still have each other :)

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MummyMcKT · 01/06/2010 14:07

A thread for all of us who were due in 2010 and who've bonded through the last few weeks.

It doesn't matter where your head/heart's at on this journey at the moment just as long as you want some company....

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Loopymumsy · 04/10/2010 16:24

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Velvetcu · 05/10/2010 22:36

Hi all just checking in. Glad to hear some good news from you Pink.

Good to see things are uneventful for you too loopy, apart from feeling shite!

fordypops · 06/10/2010 17:48

Hello!!

Hey loopy, at least having symptoms is a positive, although I am sorry you feel pants.

Your weekned sounds fab yrmotb, I have had a couple of weeks off and soent most of last week doing stuff, This week I am trying to chill a bit more as dp is in brussels for work.

PInk, glad you have got someone to talk to, it must be helping a little x

hello to everyone else!!

ok, I am off to get a cup of tea and eat my massive cherry bakewell xx

Velvetcu · 06/10/2010 22:05

Mmmmmmm cherry bakewell

fordypops · 06/10/2010 22:20

it was particularly yummy!!! Wink

Loopymumsy · 07/10/2010 08:17

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McKTastic · 10/10/2010 16:35

Hey all :)
Have had mad couple of weeks - started new job (fab!) but have been feeling pretty crap (physically) for last week or so - dreaded lurgi and def NOT good timing. Anyway am still here and have been reading posts so will catch up properly when I'm out from under the duvet!
Thinking of you all but esp Loopy for Wed and Pink for 14th xx

Velvetcu · 11/10/2010 22:13

Hi McKT hope you are feeling better. How's the job going?

How is everyone else? Still bleed free Loopy??

Loopymumsy · 13/10/2010 12:01

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Velvetcu · 13/10/2010 17:40

Good to hear it Loopy :)

McKTastic · 13/10/2010 18:24

Am glad all well Loopy :)

Job good - busy busy = shattered but happy :)

Been thinking of you lots Pink. Big (((())))s esp for tmrw xxx

Pinkchampagne · 13/10/2010 23:29

Pleased to hear it, Loopy.Smile

Thank you both for thinking of me. Have had quite a cry already today. Hoping I can get through tomorrow without spoiling DP's birthday too much.

Loopymumsy · 14/10/2010 06:16

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Velvetcu · 14/10/2010 17:38

Hope you are ok Pink. toy xx

youremindmeofthebat · 17/10/2010 19:35

xx pink ((hugs))

Loopymumsy · 21/10/2010 19:51

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fordypops · 21/10/2010 22:06

we are arent we loopy, I'm not in a great place at the mo..feeling very sad and down. I'm sure its a dip and will pass.

I hope everyones ok???

McKTastic · 22/10/2010 10:43

Hey girls
I still look here most days although as Loopy and Fordy say it's gone pretty quiet. I'll admit to being a lurker on other threads so keep up with Loopy, YRMOTB and Velvet's news there :)

Heading up to lots more significant dates now which is difficult but trying to focus firmly on the future :)

Thinking of you all. Hope you're all doing ok in your own wee ways xx

Pinkchampagne · 22/10/2010 16:10

Sorry I haven't posted for a while. Don't always get much time with the boys running me ragged!

Thank you all for thinking of me last Thursday. I actually got through the actual due date itself with no tears, but had cried & cried the evening before.
On the day, I just went into normal Thursday mode at work, and then later was busy with DP's birthday, so didn't have much time to dwell on things. Really amazed myself actually!

Had been lots better over last week or so, but we got into a discussion on Wed night, which ended up with me getting tearful, then DP saying how he must get home, leading to me getting cross because I felt he was running away from me, him getting frustrated & me getting hysterical & having another very sleepless night. I can't believe how drastically this MC has changed how I operate as a person. I used to be pretty strong.Sad

Velvetcu · 23/10/2010 11:03

Well done pink for getting through Thursday. Mine is 15th December and I'm starting to stress about it already.

How is everyone? I haven't been on much coz work gas been soooo busy this week. Half term now tho and I had a few too many vodkas last night so I haven't got out of bed yet!

youremindmeofthebat · 24/10/2010 20:38

I'm not looking forward to mine either velvet, it's the 28th November. Probably the day we have ds's bday party too[hhmm] When is your date, mckt? loopy is early November, yes?

fordy you've had a lot on recently. A lot of trauma to deal with, really a bit of a dip is to be expected, even unavoidable. But i am sure it will pass.

Watching xfactor. My life is a bloody cycle of xfactor.

Loopymumsy · 25/10/2010 08:08

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McKTastic · 25/10/2010 12:46

Twins were due 1st Dec but more than likely would've appeared in Nov - would've def be on mat leave now - back to work today after half term here and focusing on getting home. Love my new job :) but long time till next hols :(

Good to hear from most of you - will catch up properly soon but just popped on to say thinking of you for tmrw Loopy - hope all goes well for you xx

Pinkchampagne · 25/10/2010 13:06

Good luck for tomorrow, Loopy - hope your scan is a reassuring & positive experience. Smile

I have been a lot better over the last couple of days. Spoke to DP at length about how I just need to feel supported & that with that support I will get better quicker. I know it must be hard for him to keep seeing me like this though. Seems worse around my period.
Still, counselling tomorrow. Will see what she says about it all.

Hope everyone else is ok. Smile

youremindmeofthebat · 25/10/2010 13:23

pink Everything seems worse around my period here too, the periods themselves are worse, heavier more pain etc, and I feel much more hormonal! Glad you seem a litt better.

Good luck for tomorrow loopy Thinking of you x