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Ovulation after miscarriage?

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Skl2021 · 31/10/2021 20:36

I had a MMC nearly two weeks ago. Miscarried naturally. Took a pregnancy test today which is negative however my opks is positive. Does this mean I'm ovulating already as theres no HCG now for it to pick up?! I'm also still spotting on and off. Any help would be great.

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Skl2021 · 02/12/2021 09:11

@Doodledeedum it's normal to feel like that tho. I also keep thinking of the oh I should have been this far this week 😩 hopefully it won't hit u too hard. We have to keep going forward 💕 xx

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Doodledeedum · 03/12/2021 10:14

@Skl2021 .... BFN 😞

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 10:19

@Doodledeedum don't count yourself out yet your only 9 dpo! 🤞 It is hard seeing bfn though keep strong ❤️ if it's meant to be it will happen xx

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Doodledeedum · 03/12/2021 11:33

@Skl2021 it's 8 which makes me feel even more silly 😆 off to distract myself from my own nonsense now

Skl2021 · 03/12/2021 13:18

@Doodledeedum oh that's even better! Your still in with a good chance for everything crossed for you 🤞✨ x

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Skl2021 · 05/12/2021 11:08

@Doodledeedum how u doing xx

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Doodledeedum · 05/12/2021 11:27

@Skl2021 still BFN... I think it's an impending AF situation.... plus side I got offered a job today so there's something to celebrate! How you doing?

Skl2021 · 05/12/2021 11:33

@Doodledeedum Wel your not out until she shows 🤞 what will be will be! Congratulations on the new job 🎉 that is something to celebrate!! Everything happens for a reason! I'm doing ok bit of a rollercoaster tbh one day I'm fine the next I'm not. Was very positive about this cycle and now I'm not. Bringing back alot of memories and I don't want to go through miscarriage again so I'm scared to DTD if that makes sense. It's becoming real now 🤦 don't know when ovulation will arrive either which is stressing me 🙈 xx

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Doodledeedum · 05/12/2021 11:41

@Skl2021 I know EXACTLY what you mean .... I'm 'fine' for ages and then something small and insignificant will trigger me and I can feel so so low. And I get the DTD thing.... you want to because you know the good feelings but u know what comes with those new beginnings too.....
I'm really dreading the 14th and how I'm going to feel and I think a period will have all sorts of effects.... hormones.... visuals... what it represents.... and I'm making myself suffer just with the anticipation. ..
il try and celebrate this job. It's short term but it's something- this year has show me you really can't plan ahead.

I'm sure I don't need to remind you that stressing could delay the ovulating.... so do what ever you can to relax .... and DTD for fun where you can... 😉

Skl2021 · 05/12/2021 11:58

@Doodledeedum yes I know I need to do it but it's just scary! Yes I'm trying not to stress but I'm not very good at it 🤪🤣 I hope the 14th isn't too bad for you keep busy and celebrate your new job 🎉 x

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Doodledeedum · 05/12/2021 12:36

@Skl2021 il try... my and OH are grating on each other a bit today lol... good luck 🤞🏼 and keep me posted..x

Doodledeedum · 07/12/2021 06:43

@Skl2021 BFN at 12DPO and due Friday/Saturday
Was spotting pink when wiping yesterday for a few hours so I thought I was coming on but nothing. I don't know how I feel
TBH

Skl2021 · 07/12/2021 08:58

@Doodledeedum don't beat yourself up! If it happens it happens. You went in with that mentality like u said u have other things to celebrate! It will happen when the time is right 🤞✨ go easy on yourself x

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Jayjane79 · 07/12/2021 15:07

I hope you don't mind me jumping on this thread ladies. My miscarriage started 12 days ago, bleeding has stopped the last 2 days. I've had a negative pregnancy test 3 days ago and negative OPK's for the last 3 days also. The hospital told me to wait a cycle but I really don't want to so hoping see a positive opk very soon. But now I'm worried I could of give my self an infection. We dtd 4 days ago because I thought the bleeding had stopped but nope I spotted for another 2 days ish.

Doodledeedum · 07/12/2021 15:56

@Jayjane79 I'm so sorry for your loss. I think i DTD when I thought my bleeding had stopped took about 10 days too and then I think it made it *finish up.... same thing happens when I think AF has finished... I can not bleed for two days and then suddenly there she is again 🙄.....
I've done one cycle both times because I just wanted a mental break and also the first period can be heavy etc.... but if you feel better going for it then do that! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 seems to work for a lot of other women .. so you never know.

Skl2021 · 11/12/2021 16:18

@Doodledeedum how u doing xx

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Doodledeedum · 11/12/2021 17:50

@Skl2021 hey, u have prob noticed from the MC thread not so good, AF came today. I had cramping like it was coming all week and some spotting mid week which all made me think I could get a BFP but tested every day and nothing, so it has made me wonder why if I did the deed all through out my ovulation- it hasn't happened
I've felt awful and still very much dreading next week.

How are you?

Skl2021 · 11/12/2021 18:04

@Doodledeedum I seen alot of notifications but haven't been keeping up on that thread. I'm sorry it's not the result u wanted it isn't nice when af shows her ugly face 😩. Oh if only it was that easy! That's the question we all ask! Your not alone 💞 would be amazing if it worked like that! I'm doing ok thankyou. Got peak ovulation yesterday so should be ovulating today. Glad everything is just working I was scared not to ovulate! So now I will be in the dreaded tww! Period due around Christmas 🤦🤞 I hope next week isn't too hard for you. Go easy on yourself. Are you doing something on that day? X

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Jayjane79 · 12/12/2021 06:17

Ladies im CD17 and got My peak ovulation this morning since my MC. I dtd yesterday and will do it as much as I can over the next 3 days 😂. Wish me luck for my Christmas BFP we didn't want to wait a cycle in between.

Skl2021 · 12/12/2021 11:18

@Jayjane79 good luck we are a day apart I got my peak yesterday! Let's get some Christmas bfps 💞✨ x

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Doodledeedum · 12/12/2021 12:36

@Skl2021 @Jayjane79 good luck ladies 🎄 🎁 🌈 xxxx

Skl2021 · 19/12/2021 15:57

@Doodledeedum what do we think evaps? 🤦

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Doodledeedum · 19/12/2021 16:00

@Skl2021 hey, I had a few like this but always after 5 mins. How long after did you see these?

Skl2021 · 19/12/2021 16:02

@Doodledeedum yes probably after 5 mins as they take so long to dry! Or at least all the pinkness to go 🤦 I don't have high hopes with them anyway 🙈 guess I will keep testing 🙌🙄 xx

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Doodledeedum · 19/12/2021 16:16

@Skl2021 yeah the trouble was the same for me. Taking so long to dry but I had to think back to when I was getting positives and how clear it was before the five min mark something was showing. How long till AF?