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Miscarriage/pregnancy loss

Find support and share your experiences on our Miscarriage forum. See also legal rights and support after baby loss.

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I lost my baby girl

98 replies

Breevandercamp1750 · 19/09/2011 11:22

I gave birth at 9.51am yesterday to my precious baby girl. I already had her name picked out, Tilly Rose. I feel so empty and lost.

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NoMoreWasabi · 20/09/2011 08:46

Oh Bree I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Tilly Rose - what a lovely name.

I'd been wondering how you'd been getting on after your thread about your husband and I'm so desperately sorry that this is how it has worked out.

farfallarocks · 20/09/2011 09:44

bree I am so so sorry, I hope you have some support in RL, I was lurking on your other thread as well.

Other bree, I have no words, literally.

Tiredtrout · 20/09/2011 12:53

Bree I'm so sorry, I read some of your other thread, Tilly was so wanted. Please be gentle with yourself and I hope your mum is with you soon

LittleWhiteWolf · 20/09/2011 21:11

Bree, I've been thinking of you today. I hope your mum is there with you or at least closer and that you're getting the love and support you need x

Moominsarescary · 22/09/2011 17:36

I'm so sorry, I am in hospital at the moment waiting for my ds to be born, I'm 19 weeks and started dilating tues, they put a stitch in but had to take it out today as it wasn't working, I'm so scared

GwendolineMaryLacey · 22/09/2011 17:37

Moomin :( :( Is there nothing else they can do?

Moominsarescary · 22/09/2011 17:54

No they tried all the could, stitching the cervix , drugs to stop contractions but they didn't work and my waters have broken

LoveInAColdClimate · 22/09/2011 18:03

Oh no, Moomin - I am so terribly sorry. Oh god. You poor thing .

Bluetinkerbell · 22/09/2011 18:05

Moomin big hugs for you! If you have any questions about giving birth at that stage, please do ask! I gave birth to our little girl at 20+4 weeks back in June

boohoohoo · 22/09/2011 18:09

Moomin, hold on in there, will be sending very positive vibes to you xx

Bree, so so sorry, hoping your mum will be with you soon and wrapping you in her arms. Tilly Rose is such a beautiful name. Much love xx

bigcathy · 22/09/2011 19:44

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Catsycat · 22/09/2011 19:46

Sorry Moomin, that's just awful. Hope they are taking the best care of you that they can.

BecauseImWorthIt · 22/09/2011 19:47

I'm so, so sorry. I read your earlier posts about your DH, so am aware of your story.

peeriebear · 22/09/2011 19:53

Another lurker on your other thread here. So so sorry for your loss Bree :( How wanted Tilly was. I love her name. You are being thought of by many people now all over the country/world. xxxx

NotQuiteSoDesperate · 22/09/2011 21:16

So very, very sorry for your loss Bree. I followed your other thread and am so sorry that you have to deal with so much. Lean on your Mum, she will want you to.

Squiglettsmummy2bx · 23/09/2011 05:45

Moomin I am so sorry to see your post, thinking of you xxx

ColdSancerre · 23/09/2011 08:03

Moomin I'm so sorry

NoMoreWasabi · 23/09/2011 08:10

Moomin I'm so very sorry to hear what is happening to you. You'll be in my thoughts.

Moominsarescary · 23/09/2011 11:48

Thankyou everyone, no change here. Dilation has stopped but there is no fluid around the baby and the risk of us both getting an infection is high so we have to just take one day at a time

Thinking of you bree hope you now have your mum with you x

NoMoreWasabi · 23/09/2011 15:32

Moomin ? I know it is a horrendous time for you but keep on buggering on as best you can. I know from experience that PPROM is horrendous but it doesn?t end badly in all cases. If you look here for example you?ll see a few ladies posting who had it even earlier than you whose managed to keep going with their babies delivered much later:

www.inspire.com/groups/preemie/discussion/18-weeks-pprom-would-love-to-hear-some-some-hopeful-stories/

Keep posting if it helps. All the best

porcamiseria · 26/09/2011 21:36

sending you love and wishing tilly well, wherever she is. so sad, and no H which makes it harder. XXXXXX

griphook · 01/10/2011 22:51

thinking of you bree, I'm really sorry for your loss.

Tilly Rose is a beautiful name. x

Dozer · 02/10/2011 18:12

So, so sorry bree.

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