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I lost my baby girl

98 replies

Breevandercamp1750 · 19/09/2011 11:22

I gave birth at 9.51am yesterday to my precious baby girl. I already had her name picked out, Tilly Rose. I feel so empty and lost.

OP posts:
Hulababy · 19/09/2011 20:22

I am so sorry to hear your news.

A beautiful name for a beautiful tiny little girl x

RubyrooUK · 19/09/2011 20:29

Bree, I am so sorry to hear this sad news about your baby daughter Tilly Rose. I too had read some of your other thread on MN and was hoping everything would go well for you now. I don't have any advice but I just wanted to acknowledge the birth of your daughter. So sorry again. X

clam · 19/09/2011 20:47

Oh Bree, nooooooo! I am so sorry.
Tilly Rose - what a perfectly beautiful name.
I wish you love and strength for the days ahead. xx

mamasmissionimpossible · 19/09/2011 20:56

How awful. I'm sorry for the loss of your daughter. You chose a beautiful name. Take it easy on yourself.

munkiii · 19/09/2011 21:18

I am so sorry for your loss Bree.

I had read your other thread, and for this to happen too seems so cruel.

I hope your Mum arrives very soon and that you get all the RL support you need.

Words don't seem adequate, but I hope you can take comfort from all the well wishers here.

Thinking of you, and ALL of your DC tonight.

Much love.

BreevandercampLGJ · 19/09/2011 22:28

This is not me, I have not had time to read it, but it is not me.

Thank you, to the oldtimers who have emailed me, and let me know.

Those of you, who know me, know I only have one child, and that was my lot.

Sympathy to the OP, but as I said folks, it is not me.

BreevandercampLGJ · 19/09/2011 22:33

This is freaking me out, so I am posting again to try and mark my place.

ChippingIn · 19/09/2011 22:38

BreevandercampLGJ - why on earth is this freaking you out? FGS.

Bree - I'm so so sorry. You have been through so much recently :( You didn't do anything wrong, sometimes terrible things happen to lovely people. I hope your Mum will be with you soon x

BreevandercampLGJ · 19/09/2011 22:40

ChippingIn, it is, do you have a problem with that, because I have a problem with with posters thinking it is me.

AnyFucker · 19/09/2011 22:40

LGJ...it's a similar name

No reason for you to be freaked out

Perhaps a bit more sympathy would be in order for the OP

you see, it's not about you Hmm

ColdSancerre · 19/09/2011 22:44

What is going on?

BreevandercampLGJ · 19/09/2011 22:50

I shall retire from this now, I have fielded all my well intentioned sympathy emails from old MN posters, and now I am off to bed.

Good night all.

LittleWhiteWolf · 19/09/2011 22:51

BreeLGJ...how about get over it? Like AnyFucker said, its not actually about you.

AnyFucker · 19/09/2011 22:53

Sleep well, LGJ

We are so glad you cleared this little matter up. Hmm

< somebody hold me back >

lemonsherbet · 19/09/2011 22:54

Just wanted to say how sorry I am. Tilly is a lovely name.

Catsycat · 19/09/2011 23:21

I'm really sorry bree. I hope your mum will be there to offer support soon. Please let your parents take good care of you when they arrive, and don't blame yourself. I hope deep down you know it wasn't your fault, and that you will eventually have some answers to help you understand what happened. I'm thinking of you and your lovely little Tilly Rose x.

UrsulaWoleffay · 19/09/2011 23:23

I'm very sorry for your loss of Tilly.

Anyone with any issues of their own can shove off.

Charleymouse · 19/09/2011 23:42

So sorry Bree, take care of yourself.

Yirkmum · 19/09/2011 23:49

AF - it is clear reading through the thread that some posters have confused the two Bree posters and that is difficult and potentially troubling for them both.

SANDS website for anybody needing support after the death of a baby.

AnyFucker · 19/09/2011 23:54

yes, it is perfectly clear, Yirkmum

but the second bree could just have emailed those who contacted her, to reassure them about the mistaken identity

it was completely un-necessary to come charging onto this terribly sensitive thread to bleat about how a genuine mistake was "freaking her out"

utterly insensitive

UrsulaWoleffay · 19/09/2011 23:56

I agree, not the place. We have the PM function now we don't need to be so flouncy.

I'm embarrassed a thread like this has gone off topic.

Yirkmum · 19/09/2011 23:59

Oh yes I agree - just thought that we should be clear there is genuine confusion here. If for no other reason than so the confuddled posters become less so fuddled.

ColdSancerre · 20/09/2011 00:00

I mixed them up but it matters not, Bree is going through an awful time and I'm happy to give her my support. Can I just remind people this is the miscarriage/pregnancy loss board?

Bree I hope your mum is with you and you are getting some rest.

ChippingIn · 20/09/2011 00:01

AF - beyond belief isn't it how someone can make something all about them Hmm

BreeLGJ - Yes, I do have a problem with that actually. People confused the two of you, so what? You have similar posting names - there is nothing to 'freak out' about FGS grow up and show a little compassion for a fellow human being. You have turned someone elses very sad thread into a thread about you. Get over yourself.

ZhenXiang · 20/09/2011 00:05

Bree - I am so sorry for your loss, Tilly Rose is a lovely name.

I read your other thread, what a terrible blow on top of everything else.

Please ignore any insensitive and out of order posts.

I hope your mum will be with you soon.

I just want to give you a big unmumsnetty hug.

Please be gentle on yourself, none of this is your fault x