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climb aboard this bus called i was on "dec 11, jan 12, feb 12" etc- hear me now!!

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Mama5isalive · 18/07/2011 23:43

I thought i would just start this thread for all of us who have sadly lost our seats on our previous buses, but still want to talk and share and move on in all different areas!

Please swipe your cards, pay your fare and share!!!!!!!!Wink
all are welcome to the journey ending in "moving on street", "TTC avenue" or "let just wait and see walk "or ", "Its finally happened for me junction"

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Countmyblessings · 09/07/2012 23:48

Moomin-March but trying to get passed my tests first I'm praying all will be well and I have a baby in the right place!!Have to do 48 hour bloods!

Moominsarescary · 10/07/2012 08:36

Fx that everythings ok, let us know how it goes. I'm having a cervical stitch placed between 12-14 weeks so starting to worry about that. Deep breaths and carry on x

puzzletree · 11/07/2012 21:08

Hello everyone.

Wow, congrats Moomins and Count!!!!!! That's brilliant news. Hope these early weeks pass ok for you, without too much stress and anxiety.

And my news is that I'm very excited and pleased to announce the arrival of our new baby Seth! My waters broke on July 3rd, the anniversary of the miscarriage, although he wasn't born until the next day. He's an absolute treasure and we're all in love with him. Feeling so very lucky :) and really really hope that all of you who are still waiting for a successful pregnancy post-miscarriage get to this point too.

Catsy I hope all's still going well for you with baby Zuleika :)
and tumble how are you doing? there can't be long to go for you now...!

What a year it's been ladies, thank you all so much for helping me through x

Catsycat · 17/07/2012 21:17

Moomins and Count what lovely news! Sending lots of good wishes your way!

Puzzle many congratulations on Seth's safe arrival! I'm very happy for you.

Must go as Zuleika is crying, but all is well here. Hope to catch up again soon.

Countmyblessings · 17/07/2012 21:54

Huge Congrats Puzzle- beautiful news and lovely name! It must be so hard to believe you have gotten to the finish line!
I'm so very happy for you and your family xx please keep popping in and updating us all xxx
The journey shared with you guys has been so special and so emotional!
Catsy - nice to hear from you also, crying baby ( I love that sound)
Moomin- how you feeling? I guess you can't believe it also!
Well good results from scan 1 baby in right place, scan 3 weeks to check heartbeat and growth!!!! It's unbelievable to be here again!
4 pregnancies on my mn journey - 1 born but I pray this journey will bring me more joy!!!!

tumblebug · 22/07/2012 22:48

Hi all, so much lovely news!

Count and Moomin - congrats, so exciting, really really hope all goes well for you both. Count scan sounds reassuring - early days of course but the very best start!

Puzzle Wonderful news about little Seth, hope you are all well and happy, and not too tired.

Catsy glad all well with you and your little girl too.

I'll be 36 weeks tomorrow. People keep saying how quickly they think it's gone - it feels like forever to me, probably because I left it as long as possible before I told people. I think being pregnant last year too has made it all blur into one so it seems even longer.

One more week at work, then we're moving house next weekend - not the best timing but with any luck by autumn we'll be in our new house with DS and our new baby.

Like Puzzle said, what a year - having you ladies here to talk it through with has made it all a little bit easier, thanks!

wifey6 · 23/07/2012 10:21

count & moomin....such wonderful news!! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
What wonderful news x

Catsycat · 23/07/2012 20:55

Count so glad it is looking good for you so far!

Not long now tumble. You're right about it all merging into one with being pg last year - that's how I felt too. Hope the move goes well!

Hi wifey, how are you doing?

wifey6 · 23/07/2012 21:22

Hi catsy....not too good this evening but I will be fine. Bear thank you so much for asking. Smile

Catsycat · 26/07/2012 21:04

That's OK wifey. Hope you are feeling a bit better soon - I remember feeling up and down for quite a while afterwards. Sending you a Brew :).

tumblebug · 06/08/2012 10:50

Hi how is everyone getting on? wifey I hope things are getting a little easier.

First day of mat leave so being very lazy - still in bed! So much to do though as moved house last week and things to tie up at work. Will have to go in as no internet yet at home.

Countmyblessings · 07/08/2012 10:38

Oh Tumble - its like training for the Olympics and getting a Gold, I can't wait to get there it just seems so far away! Good luck with
Everything!
Moomin- you must be 12 weeks by now, are you still getting the stitch put in well hope all goes well and your taking 1 day at a time!
Hope all the mums and babies are doing well!
I'm doing well had scan saw baby and strong heartbeat just 4 weeks till
Next scan, it's amazing how the days, weeks just feel like they are dragging I guess finding out early didn't help!
Ms all day, sore boobs is my daily portion - roll on 2nd trimester!

Moominsarescary · 07/08/2012 21:42

Congratulation puzzle ! I know it's a bit late xx

catsy hope you and zuleika are well

tumble we moved a couple of months ago, hope all is going well. I hate moving

count glad scans have gone well and they seem to be keeping an eye on you. Yes I'm 12+6, had scan yesterday and everything looks fine. I'm booked in for the stitch next weds. I also have ms all day long, it's really draining!

tumblebug · 07/08/2012 23:13

count and moomin great scan news, sorry about the sickness and tiredness but it's a good sign and it will stop eventually!

count I found out really early too, feel like I've been pregnant forever. I still can't relax - still so worried about something going wrong, much more so than when I had ds. It got easier when I started feeling movements - I hope that you feel your little one really early, then you can stop waiting for the next scan or appointment just for some reassurance.

moomins have you settled into your new house? Really hard moving while pregnant, but so glad we did - love the house, and it's done now.
Good luck with the stitch next week.

Catsycat · 09/08/2012 15:06

Count and Moomin great news on your scans! I had my first at about 7 weeks with Zuleika, and still panicked all the time I'm afraid! It did get a bit better once I could feel movements, like tumble said, but I still worried even then!

How are things wifey?

tumble glad you like your new house! Enjoy mat leave. Hope you are enjoying your new place too moomin.

How are things going puzzle? All going OK here, just really busy...

Countmyblessings · 12/08/2012 15:14

Tumble - yes thanks for that I still a nervous although all day ms, pering every 5 mins and sore painful boobs ate all letting me know all is going well! Last scan I had saw perfect formed and beating heart!
And waiting till end of August for 12 weeks scan!
How's everyone doing?
Moomin how's it all? I've had some pain which my gp said it maybe the start of spd!!!!!!! I was like what at 9 weeks!!!!! Physio being rushed for me
Catsy - how's you???? Big wave to everyone!!!!

tumblebug · 14/08/2012 23:24

Count aren't scans amazing?! To see a tiny heartbeat is incredible, so much hope and possibility. Really hope that everything continues to go well for you. SPD this early not good though...

Catsy glad all OK, can imagine you're busy, have no idea how I'll manage with 'just' 2! DS currently very high maintenance and won't do what he's told. STill pretty cute though.

Still waiting, 39+1.

Hope everyone else OK.

Countmyblessings · 15/08/2012 12:26

Ohhhh Tumble - my last ds came a week early and all I had was a bloody show which my MW dismissed as she felt my belly and said babies heads not engaged Ha! Went home and a few hours later after my nap calmly told my DH feeling something's happening and call the hospital 1 hour after I arrived and 35 mins from waters going my son was born! Still emotional as it happened so quickly!!!
I wish I could buy my own scanner so every time I need reassurance I just pop in and see!!!!! Not long but feels long if that makes sense and so scared!!!!!!!! Will be holding my breath with eyes closed until I'm told good news!!!!!!!
Big hi to everyone else!!!!

tumblebug · 23/08/2012 22:38

My gorgeous baby girl, Sophie Rachel, 7lb 12, was born early this morning. Still in hospital, typing one handed while feeding! She has lots of really dark hair (ds is very fair!).

Hope everyone else is ok? Moomin did you have your stitch ok? count your
12 week scam must be soon now - really hope everything ok!

Countmyblessings · 24/08/2012 02:07

Congrats tumble - welcome to the world Sophie Rachel - your family and your MN friends have been waiting for you! And well done in the weight!!!!
Enjoy and take care of your precious beautiful girlx

tumblebug · 25/08/2012 23:23

Thanks count, back home and enjoying milky cuddles! Ds also seems to have taken to his baby sister, so far at least. Hope you're ok -you were up very late....

Moominsarescary · 27/08/2012 21:49

Congrats tumble yes I had the stitch nearly 2 weeks ago now, all fine so far 15+5 weeks x

Countmyblessings · 29/08/2012 12:57

Yeh on being 15+5 that great!
I'm now 12 weeks and I'm due for scan on Friday! I'm so scared but have a great mw who wants me to try home birth! So def considering it!
But that seems so far away!
Take care for now!!!!

Moominsarescary · 29/08/2012 17:13

Let us know how fri goes count I'm back with the consultant mon, hopefully to be prescribed progesterone fx.

tumble the move went well all settled. I have a lovely friend who heLped out so I didn't have to do much how's Sophie?

tumblebug · 31/08/2012 00:24

hope all goes well tomorrow count, and on Monday Moomin.

we had loads of help moving too, but still boxws evertwhere (mostly hidden in cupboards soT'm not woeeying too much).

Sophie is gorgeous thamks, just in middle of cluster feed so typing 1 handed!! (explains typos = sorry!) hope we can go to sleep soon though...