Where have all the men gone? thread 14

[ninah]

it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

lol. he's having it. and no mistake.

(to be fair he's never been flash with his cash etc etc, and i've numerous times said to him I couldn't give a monkeys arse about it- have been on the bread line and below it so really don't care)

yeah too bloody right!!

and can hear RJ getting seriously worked up from far up north too,and believe me she takes no prisoners!!
ooh...tell him to be watching his back...be afraid gb be very afraid{spooky menacing emoticon}

what asbm says

just send him a cool and firm message saying you dont want to see him and would like to stop contact

and this time dont get drawn into a ping pong text session

whats the point in wasting any more emotions on this guy, let him do his thing and you go on and do yours

he's not worth even a fuck off arsewipe text tbh as believe you me he'll get off on it,twats like him always do
if it helps compose then save one to drafts then you can delete in time
please have some self respect here and ignore
don't wish to sound harsh here but even you know that it's going nowhere
you deserve far better than this jerk
come and moan on here instead of wasting your head space on that turd

you both seem stuck in this no mans land and neither of you will quite let it go

one of you needs to be the adult and take things in hand, i reckon that should be you

belle we're here to support you and not to criticise
we've all had shite from his sort before so we're talking from experience and because we all look out for each other on here

yes this is all said because we are trying to help

gawd could do with some stern sensible talk from the lovely RJ or Monty here..our v.own 'say it how it is'girls

think lou and i are running out of suggestions tbh
BUT as always
you have our support!

we all think the same thing

dont make me come round there and lecture you face to face now

lou RJ has got the engine running as we speak
...ohh belle wait til she gives you a bollocking talking to
seriously tho,look back thru this thread if you ever have precious time and you'll see that most if not all of us have met nobbers and needed a talking to by the others

the time has come when you have to get assertive and decide one way or another, belle

i am also dangling my car key in my hand ....

i think belle would have a nervous breakdown if rj and myself pitched up at her place together

let alone gymboil

rofl..and eve if she wasn't feeling shite as she doesn't suffer nobs fools gladly either
scl are you going to give your thoughts here as well?

gymboil!

lol. sorry went and had a swim in the tub. tried to call - mobile is straight to answer phone. twat.

mine is now of. god i'm so pissed off. is it any wonder i've not been sleeping. seriously not impressed at the minute.

re rj - i'm soo not logging into my MSN! lol.

he's on a date isn't he with someone else? god need to vent big time at the mo.

delete his number and all his texts so you have no way of contacting him

come on now you can do it

it's done... now for my FB... if I vent on there he bitches at me - even thou it's my page. hmm... delete I think?!?

come on lady
we're with you all the way and are here to listen always!
on that note i'm offskies as am fit to drop..will check in on you tomorrow..leaving you in lou's capable hands
nn both x

belle - money isn't even a good reason tbh. i actually find that a bad thing after dc dad... dont think i'm only one on this thread either who's left a VERY comfy life to live on the bread line as LP.

just ignore his calls and texts.

i'm still talking to foot doctor and noir guy. and beachbum is being his usual odd self

too busy looking forward to sat night to care tbh.

and yes... give lou the phone )

Evening everyone .

Belle good for you.

Grimboil lol.

RJ - you smooth operator

Eve - feeling any better?

Lou - how's the toy going?

A bit of a balance on here with successes. I'm still sorted with 'Al'.

Couple of new people too hello!

thanks and god knows I need that Malibu at the minute. my emotions are up and down more times than jordens knickers!

rj - hope you have fun on sat night.

glad you're sorted haunty.

Feeling better now thank you all. Went to work today though I should lay off the red if I'm going to make it in tomorrow.

Belle, delete his number and if he is on your fb delete him, also MSN. Then no need to have anymore sleepless nights. It's not good for you, you have your DC(s) and work to put first.

Get back on POF even if you are just hanging around with no intentions of being active.

Hugs btw.

delete him from fb and msn too

the toy, im not convinced so far, will wait and see what lb thinks of it before making a final decision

rj whats the plan on saturday?

missed last page of posts where it all kicked off with belle

belle - pull yourself together woman.

are you 14!!!... no your a grown women. he keeps in contact with you as his emotional crutch. boot him off you like the crusty limpet he is. flick him hard to the sand.

toss pot.

delete his number, block him from facebook completely.

delet delete delete.

and if you still struggle. get back on POF... even just to keep you from thinking about him.

tried and tested method on here. perving at profiles keeps you from working your mind up about him.few of us do it on here. works a treat.

come on

oh... and here's a fairy wand. not halloween without a fairy want