Where have all the men gone? thread 14

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it won't accept any more messages ladies. As you can see I decided it was time to get less picky.
Lou, I hope you didn't leave your phillips

ha ha Janos im sure u are! we all like a good rant now and then tho dont we

both janos

lb is shattered , finally gone home from work, i dont know how he does it

aside from huge amounts of stamina

hey all just checking in am alive marking my bit until I can catch up properly once DS is in bed b4 xfactor - oh the joy of my life!

hope everyone's ok thou & not too swept away witht eh winds.

Hi SB I'll be doing the same. But prob a good thing after two nights on the razz!!

All football cx due to weather so very relaxing weekend all in all.

Had great night last night with a few girlfriends round plus dcs who amuse themselves.

Just watched a romcom on Sky - Last Chance Harvey - quite touching.

nowt wrong with the x factor shall be watching it too
glad you're having a nice relaxing one scl,i'm home alone this w/e and have done absolutely bugger all despite my best intentions
belle how are you getting on with your tabs?i imagine that they will really help you alot once that hideous initial fatigue wears off
so who's off out on dates then this w/e?
juicy i strongly suspect, tho maybe shes still buried underneath all her coursework?

if i go to see lb it wont be decided til late tomorrow afternoon, tho with this weather, driving on 4 motorways and 2 a roads, to park my car right by the seafront overnight does not sound appealing (even if it is to see him), so i am not sure what will happen yet

Blondie they're kicking in big time which is helping me (plus a full 10 hours sleep) was even laughing today - novel thing lol.

got the x factor on, me tin of choccy's at the ready so we're off..... lets see what my twinnies do today

betty - ooh fireman huh - I have a thing for the forces lot bad I know but they're so much easier to work with - already house trained! lol.

janos - thanks for the pep talk - and yes have kicked him into touch fully - (well 95% still can't quite give it up yet) he's been asking thou who i'm going out with & if there's guys there - erm this is his business how??!?

so what's everyone else doing then?

it's only his business if you allow it to be belle

i'm not allowing it to be lou. he's been saying things like 'are there guys there, or with guys.' or what are u up to today... going out..... what shopping... no with friends... guys....

me changing the subject.

no belle you miss my point

i mean by continuing to have any kind of interaction with him is giving him permission to be involved in your life

he doesnt deserve it, i have no idea why you even talk to him, unless you think he may suddenly come round to the idea of you and your ds

but its not gonna happen and even if it did, he wouldnt deserve a second/3rd/100th chance anyway

i dont get what it is about him that makes you want to still know him, on any level

a reply is a reply, negative or not, you are encouraging his contact

I've had a text off someone whom I don't want in my life at all so ignored it. Any response would make him think I was interested.

Had a quiet night in tonight watching x factor too.

My late night friend from last night has expresssed an interest in meeting up again. Might do if he makes a effort.

i watched some of it, the rest of it was taken up by talking to lb

belle i know it's hard right now for you but give those tabs time to kick in and i know you'll get stronger and will find ways to deal with him,i've benefitted alot from my AD's so i understand completely where you're coming from
eve don't speak in riddles do spill...!
lou it's not car journey weather for sure but here's hoping for you

well its all died down and dried out here, but that doesnt clinch it

he has to have his son tomorrow and fit in work, and he has a feeling his exw will be wanting a serious conversation again

hes a bit down, overtired and stressed, so it may well be better if i dont go , to give him some time to just veg out

like i said we are going to talk about it tomorrow afternoon

asbm i just saw kelly jones on tv advertising the new album

phwoar!

ohh jesus he's one helluva fit fella{horny emoticon}
but lou there's that height difference despite the poss.positions

ok i could try i guess,maybe i could manage...

He's be OK for me I'm only 5ft 2!

Meant late night friend from last week. Not last night. ASBM someone who lives a few streets away who I have known for a long time. He's recently single and we've chatted a bit on fb and met out a few times. He came to my house last Saturday night and seems keen to meet up again. Not sure if I will be anything more than friendship. He's OK but I don't fancy the arse of him but will give it a chance. Even if it's just a friendship. Fits some of my criteria though!

asbm, he is shorter than me too, i do not care

way hey eve
yeah and re: kelly i think it would be for purely sex only, ohh and the tunes omg...that voice{mmm..mmm.. emoticon}
tbh i really can't be seen out with a shortarse despite his fitness and sexy sexy voice..hard hard decision(excusing pun)but my lovely sexy 6ft man wins every time,excuse my smugness,but he does..

you can have mine....mind you, he's a git!

yeah I know. have said again y'day that I can't do friends. he said he would be gutted if we lost contact totally but I know his ifs/buts. well yes I do but I can't be friends.

i'm 5'2 - and tbh the shortest i'd go for has/would be gymboy/XP - both were 5'9 XH was 6'3 - a bit too tall. I think 5'9-5'11 is about right for me.

the weather was murder here last night, huge claps of thunder. it's still out there again now thou. Oh and some silly bint did a reverse charge to my house phone at half one this am!! wouldn't mind but didn't even know her!

i'm 5ft 10 so need 6ft min. dc dad was 5ft 11. used to drive me potty that if i wore heels i was taller.

i ended up out with the girls on a limo birthdaynight i crashed. i dont go out with this lot much anymore as i dont really approve of their behaviour. few of them are married and regularly cheat on the oh ... but there was a couple of friends who dont do that sort of thing going so i went along. ended up just me and the serial cheaters... an suprise suprise... the buggered off and disappeared with fellas. that drives me crazy. luckily their fellas were with a big group of guys who were all pretty good guys. they adopted me as an honourary bloke

i swear..... one was the absolute spitting double of colin farrell... blooming gorgeous.

i should have taken picture to prove it.lol.

there was another particularly fit specimen. who was also interesting, and saved me from a fella who was trying to hassle me... this was when they decided i should be adopted.

so in return i adopted this fit specimen.

not sure what i think of him.

shall call him the dishwasher.

never going out with those girls again. i dont approve of that behaviour at all. i know their husbands and see them at special occasions. feel its really awful position to be in.

belle just stop replying to him

belle you know i'm gonna say stop replying and delete him too like i have been

juicy
belle i really don't think that friendship ia an option with gb as let's face it proper friends wouldn't treat you like this