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Thinking about dumping the new man - advice needed please.

107 replies

BobDowne · 22/01/2009 20:25

Hi all. Been seeing this man for almost 2 months. On sunday i was feeling like i was in love with him after spending a lovely weekend together, but i have no idea how he feels.

He doesn't give much away emotionally and he's really pissed me off over last few days by describing sex with a few of his exes. Am i being prudy or unreasonable that i'd rather not hear about that? I did tell him i didn't want to hear it but he carried on, now i'm stuck with these images in my head!

Now i think maybe he just wants someone to shag on a regular basis. This is shit i hate feeling like this, wish i hadn't bothered dating at all!

OP posts:
lou33 · 26/01/2009 23:28

i just read the bit about younger man older woman

did i say something wrong?

lou33 · 26/01/2009 23:31

noting wrong with a bit of a flingette to boost morale and put a smile on your face, as well as the sex life getting a spring cleaning

i was trying to say that the young men are probably not fussed about the age difference and are in fact no doubt loving it, so they may as well take advantage while they can

i kind of broke my own rule a few months ago, and told a mate of mine (she knows this guy too), and she laughed and said he was only a boy

i told her he was a man now

(i broke it again about a month ago with him too but we will gloss over that)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 26/01/2009 23:40

Hehe!you cheer me up lol!
but if you could only see what's on offer here for me
you so wouldn't want a fling grrr!

lou33 · 26/01/2009 23:51

paper bag job?

you could always do him int he dark from behind and think of someone else?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:02

oh god Lou i so couldnt
not even in dark/with paper bag/thinking of England/someone else

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:03

what about if alcohol was involved, or are they all more than 12 pint jobs?

i cant do it if i dont feel it either really

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:12

not even if i was paralytic tbh
they are a bunch of either old/bald/smaller than me/dullards/or just plain arses
am destined to stay single me thinks!

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:14

you sound liek me!

are you my alterego ?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:19

no its a case of divorced mum of many
been taken for a ride big time
am now cynical and just plainfcukd off
with them all
am expecting to be on my own for ages
PS.do not flame me if i then come on here next week crowing about my latest conquest lol!

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:20

oh...my..god.....you ARE me!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:21

we're clones lol!!

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:22

in which case how come you are not on the grotty man thread?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:33

which ones that?
dont get me started now
think you've heard enough of the ex shit
useless bf
just hope for your sake you don't meet him on POF
thou if i think the fucker nogood is a lurkin will feel it my moral duty to out him

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:34

here

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:38

oh lovely!
more reasons to be glad im on my tod lol!
will look when i meet the next one to give myself a reality check
when waxing lyrical about how wonderful he is

lou33 · 27/01/2009 00:42

oh there are some corkers on there

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 00:48

i bet there is

allgonebellyup · 27/01/2009 10:29

i have decided that me and my toy boy are sex buddies.

He did ask me to come in for a roast with his family on sunday (i hope he was joking) and when his dad calls to ask where he is (!!!!!!) he is quite keen to say he is at allgonebellyup s house!!

For gods sake why does his dad have to keep calling to ask where he is??!!!!

allgonebellyup · 27/01/2009 10:30

he always phones when we are shagging, lol!!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 10:59

agbu you're obviously taking Lou's advice
glad to hear that you are happy with things and obviously no longer worried about where it's all going

lou33 · 27/01/2009 15:51

i dare you to answer the phone when he rings next time you are in the middle of it

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 17:25

think AGBU would be otherwise engaged Lou!

lou33 · 27/01/2009 17:25

yes thats my point, i bet he wouldnt call again

aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 17:31

or think he had called a 0870 no lol!
and on the subject of paper bags Lou
have just been messaged by a 56 yr old
Oh FFS!!

lou33 · 27/01/2009 17:31

tell him you are not help the aged