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167 replies

Niceguy2 · 12/01/2009 00:38

Hi all

Not sure if I'm welcome here or not...after all, the name is mumsnet! Apologies if I'm not....

How do others cope with being a single parent? I've been a single dad for a while now. My kids are great, my job is great. The only problem I have is how do I meet other people????

Night after night I sit here with nothing but the computer to keep me sane! I need to make new friends but how?? I don't have any babysitters, I can rely on a friend occasionally but I don't like to ask for fear of imposing.

Striking up conversations with other women at school are out. They're all in little cliques and assume you're trying to chat them all up! Blokes just don't understand my position.

I've tried the whole Internet dating thing but it would seem a lot of women are put off by a single dad. Most without children don't want the hassle. Those with children......prefer men without kids. It would seem I can't win!

Surely I'm not doomed yet?? I'm only 33, have a good job, two well behaved kids. I'm surrounded by happy couples everywhere I go! Arrgh!!!

OP posts:
Niceguy2 · 13/01/2009 17:20

LOL Charlotte, thanks for making me feel old! I'm only 33!!!! 33 is the new 21 didn't you know!

As for seriouslyblonde, if you are close i'd be interested in meeting as friends...no idea how to contact people on this site privately though.

OP posts:
aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:21

i was just thinking that too charlotte
and there was me thinking i had a hot date
lined up too
do you think i came on a bit too strong?

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 17:30

I'm on page 9 of my simglewithkids search and have yet to find a bloke who mentions bins.

where am I going wrong paddle?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:30

have no idea tbh
quick help me out with this someone!!??
thou can slip you my mobile no when noone looking lol

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 17:31

plus I seem to live near a lot of ugly feckers

Why are some of them single with no kids though?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:31

hey Helen butt out...lol!!

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 17:32

asbm you need to sign up for CAT, it's a fiver, then you can send pMs.

How do you know niceguy2 isn't a hairy handed trucker though...called Keith

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 17:33

(no offence NG2 - asbm is probably called Kelvin)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:33

hmmm asbm thinks of a way round things...

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 17:34

...and I'm Nigel btw.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:35

oh bugger been found out lol!!
hey there we go niceguy a way round this
i will if you will

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:36

LMAO Nige!!!

Ronaldinhio · 13/01/2009 17:40

is this a dating site now?

Do we need a dating thread?

spookycharlotte121 · 13/01/2009 17:41

Lol sorry didnt mean to make you feel old. I feel old. Most of my friends are out living it up at uni in various places across the coutry having a whale of a time, whilst im at home trying to do uni and chaning pooey. I have also noticed that im beginning to sound increasingly like my mother!!!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:41

what makes you say that?
looks like i'm sorted thank you very much

spookycharlotte121 · 13/01/2009 17:43

oh im marvin btw

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 17:47

oh stop it lol
don't want to put him off..

spookycharlotte121 · 13/01/2009 17:56

tee he he.... i think its too late, perhaps my age comments have upset him!!! Im sorry mr man i was being stupid!!! come bk, asbm loves you!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 18:06

ssshh Charlotte!!
am hoping he's playing the 10 min rule

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 18:11

i think you two might have to snog each other if he has gooorn.

Which might actually be enough to bring him back..

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 18:16

what two men? that def wont!!
no i imagine that niceguy is off doing what i should be doing
i.e. being a parent

Paddlechick666 · 13/01/2009 19:25

talk about going off on a tangerine!

if you want the guys who do bins on SWK you have to look at the forum NOT the dating site!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 19:46

blimey paddle you're quick
what's your secret to the bedtime routine?

HelenBurns · 13/01/2009 19:52

Oh thank goodness! I got a bit lost there.

(fora?)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/01/2009 19:57

so found your bin man yet Helen?