where the hell do u find a good man

[starscream]

where have they all gone

which was also the age exdp was when i met him weird eh

Ah nothing like these young bukko's eh? My current beau/fling? is 27 I swore I wouldn't date under 30 but I make the odd exception.

it's your magic number

i dont see you returning anytime soon tho zippi

it's not so much fun without you on there

27 is the minimum i would consider dating nowadays

the last few have been 30, 36, 35

the friend i have my arrangement with is 33

the date i have next week is 33

36 is the oldest i have dated since i split with my h

I just sent a text to Mr 27 stating that I want sex as soon as possible. God it's great being 40!

ha!

i popped out for a couple of hours last night for the same reason

He preferred to meet tomorrow night as opposed to Sunday night. I said dd is going out tomorrow night, he said Sunday's fine! He would, he's no feckin choice!

lol how long has this been going on?

You say that so knowingly lou!
I've had sex with him on four occasions, so erm four weeks, though dd has just informed me I'm seeing him four and a half weeks so would that be sex on four and a half occasions? hmmmm.

you kept that quiet!

or was i just oblivious, being wrapped up in my own chaotic world?

I did sort of. I don't think anything will come of it. His English (He's French) isn't the Mae West and my grasp of French is not much better. I end up sounding like a French Manuel, Falty Towers style big time. He's straightforward, he does exactly what he says on his tin.

ooh french men

i had a date with a french guy in january

his accent was lovely and he was quite lovely to look at, but there was no way we were going to be able to see each other on any regular basis

actually, now i think of it, he was 27 too!

doubt it was the same one lol, the one i met was really good at speaking english

also i have to go to bed

late night, early morning, matchsticks under eyes etc

night night

Me too night night lou.

i don't know know where it will go but have met a really realy nice fella from plenty of fish so cannot recommend it enough...

it's early days but he makes me laugh like nobody else.

and even before i met him, the majority of emails i recieved were nice ('hello, how are you', kinda thing) and even the rude ones were not that offensive given the it's the internet, so give it a go, you never know what u're gonna get.

Morning all

Have checked pof and have got two messages and one is even from one of the blokes I messaged last night {nervous smile emoticon needed}
His message was short and sweet 'hello babe'.

I hate the word babe, but am trying to not be so picky, so will forget he used it LOL.

Will send message back later tonight I think.

Message withdrawn

well done nutty

i dont care if they say babe surprisingly..i quite like it lol

i never registered that exdp called me hun for 8 years until people started making such a fuss about it on here

i was on pof and soulmates for a while before i met anyone..weeks/months i never thought i would get a date

in fact i never had a date from soulmates tho i talked to lots of people and the ones who did try and date me turned out to be twats

nutty, no time like the present, dont wait til tonight to reply, just say hello back!

pof is the best f the dating sites i have tried, some of the messages i have had on other places have been unbelieveably crude

found mine on plentyoffish.com (free dating site) but kissed a couple of frogs first
Also dated a few really nice guys off that site but no chemistry.
Of course you get lots of weirdos but you get them everywhere. The guys have their horror stories too though. I've made a lot of male friends from there who I still chat too

Oh and a couple of other mates have met nice guys from pof too. And a couple of guy mates met nice women who they're really happy with.
And it's free!!!

Still haven't replied, don't know what to say, as he didn't exactly give much conversation in his reply.

Have also joined Smooch again and someone I know has directed me to the profile of someone they know so might message them, not decided yet.

well is it one you messaged first what does he have on his profile

Not alot lol.

He is a builder, no kids, looking for dating and he is quite into fitness