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I've been an idiot.......again

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nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:19

Have slept with xp twice, and now I don't know what to do, about anything.

This is so not like me.

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binkleandflip · 17/09/2007 14:19

Was is good?

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:20

Well yes it was actually, but even so LOL

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binkleandflip · 17/09/2007 14:21

Well then, happy memories but FGS DONT DO IT AGAIN!!

Unless you want to LOL

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:21

I did state several times that it didn't change anything, but he's not going to believe that is he.

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nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:22

I know

I need my head testing

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MaryBleedinPoppins · 17/09/2007 14:23

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binkleandflip · 17/09/2007 14:24

the heart wants what the heart wants...

Well, the not the heart in the case but you get my drift...

InMyHumbleOpinion · 17/09/2007 14:24

Oh dear, going through a dry patch?

forgive yourself, and move one

LadyTophamHatt · 17/09/2007 14:24

without going into detail....HOW on earth did you get to that stage??

whats done is done though...

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:25

Oh I know, and yeah I probably was desperate, it had been 15 mths, i'm only human.

It's not that I have had sex with him that bothers me, I mean it was good, I enjoyed it etc etc, it's more that my life seems to have turned into a Jeremy Kyle show really LOL.

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Mercy · 17/09/2007 14:26

I waws wondering about that too, LTH.

Nutty, you're not the first and won't be the last to have done this.

Blandmum · 17/09/2007 14:26

need to get the old electrical alternative!

ShinyHappySchmooo · 17/09/2007 14:27

Oh nutty, why?

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:27

Erm, he stayed for tea last erm wednesday, ad we ended up watching a film (possibly james bond, can't remember) and you know it was just so nice to sit on the sofa watching tv with someone other than myself for a change.

Last time was last night, and i'm not sure I have an excuse, as I pretty much realised we'd end up in bed before he even got here.

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binkleandflip · 17/09/2007 14:27

Does xp have teeth?

Do you wear stonewashed jeans with a skinny vest, no bra and a scrunchie?

IF yes to first question and no to second, you're not up to JK 'guest' status yet LOL

LadyTophamHatt · 17/09/2007 14:28

lol at jeremy kyle show.

well, nutty IF he can accept that its not going to go any further just enjoy it.

I think you'll have ahard job convincing him through.

(whats happen with the tart from up the road)

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:28

Oh I do MB, not really the same after that long though is it LOL

I think what has spooked me, is that I confided in a friend and she said she thinks I want him back, and I'll admit, for a nanosecond the other day, so did I, but I know really that I so don't want him back, I am just bored.

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Mercy · 17/09/2007 14:29

I can understand you feel lonely.

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:30

He told tart from up the road that he wants nothing to do with her (tis true as I was in earshot lol).

I know he will think it is leading somewhere, but I do plan to have a chat with him telling him otherwise.

I am visiting his bedsit on Wednesday with a view to the kids possibly going there on Sat afternoons to watch a dvd or whatever, so will have it out with him then.

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Blandmum · 17/09/2007 14:31

well, if it is just boredom, send the kids out and have a wank next time

Or take up handicrafts

or jam making

just stay away from growing cucumbers or marrows..........

nutcracker · 17/09/2007 14:31

Haven't been on here for days, cos I thought someone might ask me what i've been up to and I didn't want to lie

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LadyVictoriaOfCake · 17/09/2007 14:32

go to anne summers website and get a new toy.

don't do him it again

MaryBleedinPoppins · 17/09/2007 14:32

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