I've been an idiot.......again

[nutcracker]

Have slept with xp twice, and now I don't know what to do, about anything.

This is so not like me.

Do you really fancy him Nutty?

Would you like to get back with him, at all?

God no he didn't stay over, I wanted sex, not to have my bed taken over by a farting, snoring old lech , infact he missed the last bus, each time and had to walk rather a long way in the early hours of the morning.

I should do just that LVOC, must save up lol.

I don't fancy him at all no, which I think is what brought me to my senses last night, all be it a bit to late.

i hope you took precautions.

I don't want to get back with him no. I do miss being in a relationship yes, not just for the sex, mainly the other bits that go with it, and he is crap at the other bits.

Oh yes LVOC, definatly.

good!

I am so naive. Is it really possible to get turned on by someone you don't fancy?

[imagines sleeping with ExH and vomits on keyboard.. if-I'm-typing-like-this-again-later-blame-nutty]

Nothing actually wrong with it, though I can see it might give the DCs false hope. Sex with XPs is fun because you generally know what they are like in the sack (no fears that they will call you Mother or want to give you an enema all of a sudden). If don't particularly want this one back, though, is there any chance of getting an X from a few relationships ago to become a bonkbuddy? Vibrators are good as well but sometimes one just craves another physical presence in the sack.
Still, good luck

I don't find him replusive or anything, I just don't look and him and think wow, iywim, but then I doubt many people do about their blokes unless they are really lucky.

I definately dont about dh, and take much faffing about with before I can be made to remember that I ever did fancy him

Don't have any other ex's to bonk unfortunatly.

The DC's don't know anything about it by the way, they were all sound asleep well beforehand.

LMAO binkle

hey, i say 'wow' when i look at my dh lol

try and get a f*ckbuddy.

SHinyhappy - just a weeny bit bemused here. If he was your X you must have fancied him at some stage. Did he lose his looks in a bizarre chemical laboratory accident or abandon his personal hygiene?

Oh, and there are probably a few threads on here about fancying the most unlikely people (assorted gimps and monsters with complete sartorial meltdowns or horrifying personal habits) so it's all a bit variable really

in the sort term, before you go electrical, go digital!

LMAO Mb

I suppose i must have fancied him when i met him yeah, but tbh it was more his personality I liked, he was funny, kind etc etc, which obviously wore off after 3 kids, several house moves and no money for years and years.

Oh yes absolutely Madamez, re your latter comment.. I'd quite like to shaf Tony Blair and/or Justin Fletcher..

But NOT my ex!!! I SO could not go there again!! I do not know what I was thinking of. I even married him. I was young, stupid and not even pregnant until ^after the wedding. It's not about looks.. I find the "package" attractive usually. Or not, as in case of x. The more I got to know him, the less I fancied him.

Nooo ! Nutty don't let yourself get into that situation again . Take someone with you to the bedsit, don't let him see you on your own. He may have ditched the bitch but he will see you as easy prey until someone else comes along and who knows what might happen if it turns nasty between you again . Remember the DSS situation ? Go dig out your self respect again please, you don't need him .

Oh i'm not worried about seeing him in the bedsit, he knows I am way too much of a snob to shag in a bedsit lol.

I remember the dss situation well, which is why he walked hom in the early hours of the morning.

Does the thought of where he's been sticking his willy before he stuck it back in you not help to put you off the idea Nutty?

OK so I am not entirely au fait with Nutty's backstory here but _ why is it such a big deal to have an amicable but meaningless bunk up with the X? They are both consenting adults, after all.

Good . Trouble is if anyone finds out ( might he boast ?) you could be seen as living up to their/his opinion that you were just jealous.

anyone fancialble on your course btw . You need a distraction !