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EscapeFrom · 26/07/2007 23:14

They're all bloody married!!

"I have no affection in my 35 year marriage - seeking keep fit fanatic aged betwen 18 and 23 - for discreet hotel fun"

Tossers.

OP posts:
Girly · 09/08/2007 16:04

Yes agree with you about the younger men, they have a certain appeal if you get my drift, am sure lou will agree with that too

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:05

oh, posted too quick, just arrange a lunch, a whole afternoon might be too much to start with esp if you dont like him.

lou33 · 09/08/2007 16:15

hi fives girly

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:18

right back at you lou

ooh forgot too say, my young friend has been in touch, missing me, does not want to lose me etc etc, not sure what to do as he does keep me topped up if you know what I mean. Oh that sounds awful but true.

lou33 · 09/08/2007 16:30

means to an end girly, take what you need on your terms is what i say

lou33 · 09/08/2007 16:32

oh man im having a heavy talk with the landscape gardener i saw last weekend

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:41

how heavy lou? I am having a funny chat with a monkey.

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:46

lol, just seen you means to an end post! yes that does just about sum it up!

lou33 · 09/08/2007 16:48

he wants to see me on a serious level

i have some concerns and have told him why

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 16:53

is that the man who looked at your phone and said you couldn't see anyone else?

I am studying horticulture full time from next month at the agricultural college does this mean possibilities of hunky men?

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:53

is this the one you snogged and then checked your phone?

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:55

X posts zippi!!

I would think there would be a fair few snogging candidates at college

lou33 · 09/08/2007 16:57

ah well i found out the phone thing i was wrong about

Girly · 09/08/2007 16:58

Are you attracted to him lou? Would this mean no other fishing?

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:02

i have 3 dates lined up on 17/19 and 21st aug

one of htem i am not so bothered about but i'd like to meet the other 2

i have said to him that IF i agreed to see him again it would be slowly slowly and i wouldnt be told who i could and couldnt see

he said he was just being cheeky, but i explaineed to him that based on my life with my exh i wasnt going to be taking any chances, and if he had a problem with my life and my male friends then he was better off looking elsewhere

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:03

also i told him that if i agreed to let him get involved with me he would ahve to take on board that i have 4 kids and an ex h and a lot of baggage, and he would have to do the running back and forth to me

amazingly he still seems to want to give it a go

Girly · 09/08/2007 17:04

good god woman, you certainly don't mince your words and it obviously works for you i am very at your 3 dates!

zippitippitoes · 09/08/2007 17:05

lou do you give lessons?

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:06

girly i see no point in faffing about, he , or anyone, has to understand what i will or will not tolerate, and what my life entails

i'm not going to pretend i can offer things i cant, or be someone i am not

i'm seriously considering cancelling hte third date as i think he's a bit too arrogant

Girly · 09/08/2007 17:06

you should do a how to attract men and keep them on their toes lou, bet you'd make a fortune

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:06

lol @ lessons

i could do with some cash actually!

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:07

attracting them is one thing, finding any worthwhile is another, and i'm not so good at that

Girly · 09/08/2007 17:07

lol, I think you have a great attitude, can you pass some my way please?

lou33 · 09/08/2007 17:11

lol thanks

i'm just saying as it is really

it's silly to pretend i am anything else

Girly · 09/08/2007 17:12

I seem to attract the ugly ones, or the ones that only want one thing! I have just met someone on POF who is very funny, not sure about his looks, and he is a bit hairy, but he does make me laugh and is quite cheeky so who knows...

I do think you are doing it the right way lou, best to lay it on the line from the start then you are both singing from the same hym sheet.