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My 40th today & no-one has remembered

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pho3be · 09/01/2017 09:59

Sad feeling sorry for myself Sad
Anyone else had a lonely birthday?

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OllyBJolly · 09/01/2017 11:14

Happy Birthday!

When I was a lone parent, I'd plan my own birthday treat - meant I was never disappointed! Usually involved a nice meal out with the DCs where we would all dress up in our best clothes.

No one remembered my 40th (January birthday too - think people actively try to forget January birthdays!) and DD1 remembers it as the first time she had melon and parma ham!

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squeak10 · 09/01/2017 17:02

Happy birthday xx

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joangray38 · 09/01/2017 17:04

Happy birthday

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FannyWisdom · 09/01/2017 17:06

Happy Birthday Cocker Grin It gets easier.
Wine

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Aftertheraincomesthesun · 09/01/2017 17:07

Happy birthday OP. Make sure you buy yourself a birthday cake at least so that you and your children can blow out some candles tonight.

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Roomba · 09/01/2017 17:54

Happy Birthday Flowers Wine

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Frazzled2207 · 09/01/2017 18:00

Happy Birthday CakeFlowers! Do treat yourself to something nice, and maybe a day or meal out with the kids this weekend?

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clippityclock · 09/01/2017 18:01

Happy birthday x

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Paddingtonthebear · 09/01/2017 18:03

Happy birthday! Sorry no one remembered. Takeaway and treat yourself to a bottle of something nice?

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LineyReborn · 09/01/2017 18:06

I used to plan my own, very simple, ask the DCs to make me a card and give them extra pocket money to buy us all a tub of sweets.

Happy birthday. Star

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Catzpyjamas · 09/01/2017 18:09

Happy Birthday!

My 40th today & no-one has remembered
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NC1nightstand · 09/01/2017 18:14

Happy Birthday! It's tough being a January baby but Capricorns are good at the tough stuff. We have our birthdays at the start of the year because other signs couldn't handle it!Grin
The great thing about being 40 and single is you can truly call the shots for yourself and answer to no one. Why don't you pick a date you like in the summer and have your half birthday. Get planning and saving for something you would love to do. For yourself! Really celebrate.

Sorry about your dm being ill.Flowers

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pho3be · 09/01/2017 20:02

Thank you all Star dad phoned tonight so that's something.
Yes i would love to change it to June or July! Even i like to party in summer Grin
Yes you are right i am strong normally & don't even want a man, i would like you lovely MNers as friends though. I moved away 15 years ago & found it very hard making friends here Confused

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Chaotica · 09/01/2017 20:09

Happy Birthday! Wine Cake Flowers

If it's any consolation, I had supposedly loving DP when I turned 40 and had to buy my own cake. A man won't necessarily sort your birthday out -- best to make your own plans. Smile

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Lazybeans50 · 09/01/2017 20:16

Happy 40th Birthday Flowers Cake

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colouringinagain · 09/01/2017 20:20

Wishing you a happy mumsnet birthday Smile hope you can treat yourself. And i agree with poster upthread who said advertise lots Wink

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refusetobeasheep · 09/01/2017 20:22

Happy Birthday! Treat yourself to something - e.g. A spa day and make sure all at spa know is a bday treat!

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TrustySnail · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy 40th! Cake

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girlelephant · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy birthday from me! 🎉💖CakeWineBrewFlowers

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Lillibetm · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy birthday. Flowers

I have my 40th this week too and I just know that my four siblings will forget, just as they have for the last twenty years.

I hope your day turned out to be a lovely one. Smile

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moonchild77 · 09/01/2017 20:30

Happy birthday to you. Hope you've made today a good day. 💖❤

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shakeyospeare · 09/01/2017 20:32

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Flowers

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moogletea · 09/01/2017 20:33

Happy 40th SmileWineCake

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purplepandas · 09/01/2017 20:34

Happy birthday Pho3be, hope your day improved. Mine is very soon too. It's a hard time to have a birthday, particularly a special one.

Lots of Cake, Wine and Flowers from me.

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uncoolnn · 09/01/2017 20:36

Happy birthday! WineCakeFlowers

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