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My 40th today & no-one has remembered

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pho3be · 09/01/2017 09:59

Sad feeling sorry for myself Sad
Anyone else had a lonely birthday?

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neolara · 09/01/2017 23:35

Happy birthday. Go and do something lovely tomorrow to celebrate.

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Cooloraction · 09/01/2017 23:27

That sounds like a great plan. I turn 40 this year and hadn't thought of doing that but it's a great idea

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pho3be · 09/01/2017 22:38

Thank you again lovely people Star
Im generally ok but birthdays are crap. I did plan to get a tattoo as its something I've never done & i thought would mark it in an empowering way but I've absolutely no idea how to go about getting one!

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Cooloraction · 09/01/2017 21:17

I find birthdays one of the hardest things as a lp. Hope you've had a good day though and treated yourself to something xx

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Thattimeofyearagain · 09/01/2017 20:56

Happy Birthday 🎂 Smile

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Bokky · 09/01/2017 20:56

Happy birthday xx

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isthatmorelego · 09/01/2017 20:54

Happy Birthday FlowersCake

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chickensarethebest · 09/01/2017 20:54

My 40th was the worst birthday ever - my ex- got is so wrong that it revealed all the cracks in the relationship and actually broke something. My 50th as a LP was brilliant - for the first time, I chose what I wanted to do, got those people I love the most involved and had a brilliant weekend of it.
So - Happy Birthday for today! It will get better. Think about what would make you most happy and make it happen. You could have a 40th birthday party in 6 months time!

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Stonewash · 09/01/2017 20:51

Happy birthday! Smile

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TaylorP1234 · 09/01/2017 20:50

Ahh that's horrible. Happy birthday to you

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WetNovemberDay · 09/01/2017 20:40

Happy Birthday Pho3be🎁🎀🍹🍾🎂🍰

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Alexthekid · 09/01/2017 20:37

Happy 40th OP! Cake
Hope your DM is better and out of hospital soon. Then you should book a meal and treat yourself.
As for tonight, hope you've got some treat food and a nice bottle of wine xx

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uncoolnn · 09/01/2017 20:36

Happy birthday! WineCakeFlowers

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purplepandas · 09/01/2017 20:34

Happy birthday Pho3be, hope your day improved. Mine is very soon too. It's a hard time to have a birthday, particularly a special one.

Lots of Cake, Wine and Flowers from me.

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moogletea · 09/01/2017 20:33

Happy 40th SmileWineCake

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shakeyospeare · 09/01/2017 20:32

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Flowers

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moonchild77 · 09/01/2017 20:30

Happy birthday to you. Hope you've made today a good day. 💖❤

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Lillibetm · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy birthday. Flowers

I have my 40th this week too and I just know that my four siblings will forget, just as they have for the last twenty years.

I hope your day turned out to be a lovely one. Smile

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girlelephant · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy birthday from me! 🎉💖CakeWineBrewFlowers

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TrustySnail · 09/01/2017 20:25

Happy 40th! Cake

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refusetobeasheep · 09/01/2017 20:22

Happy Birthday! Treat yourself to something - e.g. A spa day and make sure all at spa know is a bday treat!

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colouringinagain · 09/01/2017 20:20

Wishing you a happy mumsnet birthday Smile hope you can treat yourself. And i agree with poster upthread who said advertise lots Wink

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Lazybeans50 · 09/01/2017 20:16

Happy 40th Birthday Flowers Cake

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Chaotica · 09/01/2017 20:09

Happy Birthday! Wine Cake Flowers

If it's any consolation, I had supposedly loving DP when I turned 40 and had to buy my own cake. A man won't necessarily sort your birthday out -- best to make your own plans. Smile

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pho3be · 09/01/2017 20:02

Thank you all Star dad phoned tonight so that's something.
Yes i would love to change it to June or July! Even i like to party in summer Grin
Yes you are right i am strong normally & don't even want a man, i would like you lovely MNers as friends though. I moved away 15 years ago & found it very hard making friends here Confused

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