Pamela - Bile Duct Cancer, thread 4, London has given me a chance!

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New thread as I see the old one is about the run out.

Dear Pamela
I keep thinking of you and sending you support. Well done for leaving the hospital, I’m sure it was hard but seeing the sun is always good for the soul.

Unfortunately I have experience of wheelchairs. The one you are in on your outing looks a jarring ride. Top tips from a reluctant wheelchair user - if you can, choose a chair as narrow as your bottom (ie narrow) as the wider the chair the less comfortable the ride. Purchase from Amazon (job for your lovely husband) a booster cushion for the elderly. I don’t know how to link but look on Amazon at the Homescapes Cream Armchair Booster Cushion for the idea. I cannot tell how much relief this type of cushion can provide when in a standard wheelchair. I know you don’t want to use a wheelchair and so purchasing this may feel like defeat but they are only about £20 and it will give you such comfort (and the ability to leave your hospital).

xx

Sending love and strength. Hope you are having a better day today 💐

Hi Pamela. I hope you had a better night last night. You look amazing and am glad you got outside yesterday. Think your flip flops are probably the same as mine . Have the same colour and literally live in them .
Hope today is improving and pain relief now kicking in . The slow relief morphine should be now working it’s magic.Xx

You are so brave to not despair and get yourself back out there after horrendous pain. Gracious too, to not slate your medical staff. Each step is a step forward, pain when it comes is awful but remember that it will pass. I hope your mum and son will bring you joy today.

I hope you had a better night last night. That photo of you in the park is amazing.

Lovely photo, so pleased you managed to get out for some fresh air. I hope your pain isn’t too bad today and you are able to eat a little.
You really are doing incredibly well, and are a true inspiration. We’re all rooting for you xx

What a lovely picture and you have such a beautiful smile despite all of the pain. Hope they are able to get your pain better controlled but I’m sure seeing Jacob and your Mum will boost you up a bit. You are an inspiration xx

I hope you had a better night. So lovely to see you’ve been out, you’re amazing. Thinking about you all, sending love and prayers xx

Sending love from South London! I hope you are finding some relief and able to enjoy this beautiful day.

Regents Park ! You're doing so much more than you thought you could do . I really admire you and hope you had a better night 🤗

I hope the change of painkiller and fresh air helped you to rest well last night xx

You look beautiful. Sending courage and fingers crossed for better sleep tonight 💐

Been to Carlisle Cathedral today and lit a candle for you. As a family we pray for your family.

Hope so much that today is a good one for you x

Lovely pic of you in the park
Despite everything, you still have a lovely smile
I truly hope your slow release Morphine gave you some relief from your awful pain
Pamela, you are truly amazing
Such strength and spirit
Much love to you and Kerr
Judith in Wiltshire

Hello Pamela

I hope you had a better night.

what an amazing achievement!
you are going to beat this x

Good afternoon Pamela, I hope you had a much more restful sleep, I was keeping my fingers crossed that the slow release morphine would help and enable better rest for you.

I hope you've also been able to see Jacob and your mum too, and if not then hopefully soon 🤞
Their presence will help you keep your focus I'm sure ❤️

Sending you love and hoping for even more positive news in the next update especially r.e the progress of the drains and your pain levels hopefully lowering 🙏 have a little journey out again if you're able, fresh air does so much good when you're stuck in one room for a long time. Thinking of you all
💐

Hope you have a lovely time today seeing your beautiful son and your mum! Thinking of you all and sending very gentle hugs.

We're here for you Pamela, stay strong!

Deep breaths, one day at a time ❣️🌅

Thinking of you Pamela 🥰 sending lots of love and strength your way xx

Thinking of you Pamela x

Thinking of you Pamela, you continue to amaze us all with your fortitude. Sending all the good wishes there are xxx.

Thinking & praying for you and your family. Sending love, faith and hope your way Xx.

Thinking of you ❤