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Pamela thread 3 - Bile Duct Cancer, off to London!

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WilsonMilson · 05/07/2023 22:51

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hlc123 · 07/07/2023 20:12

I haven't commented much but Pamela, you have been in my thoughts since your thread about pancreatic cancer being a fear and then your diagnosis. I check on your threads multiple times a day because you and your family are all in my thoughts. Sending lots of love x

Fireants · 07/07/2023 20:12

There’s a thing about this site when you feel like you are reading stories. To realise you are here, in London, today, takes all the ‘story’ away. I wish all the best outcomes for the op today and hope this birthday is something you talk about in the future. Love from Farnborough. X

StampOnTheGround · 07/07/2023 20:14

Thank you so much for the update Kerr - keeping you all in my thoughts. You're a wonderful family and you only deserve good things, really rooting for you Pamela x

Tallisimo · 07/07/2023 20:15

Wishing you all the love.
xxxx

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OhDoh · 07/07/2023 20:16

Thank you Kerr for the update. Everything is crossed for your beautiful family. x

anewbook · 07/07/2023 20:18

Happy Birthday Pamela!
Keeping you in my thoughts and wishing things go well for you X

FudgeMcFlurry · 07/07/2023 20:23

Keeping everything crossed here for the surgery today, I really hope they can do something to enable the stent to go ahead on Monday and make you more comfortable in the meantime.

Makemeawinner · 07/07/2023 20:25

Happy Birthday Pamela. I hope and pray all goes so very well. All the love on here is just so heartwarming especially as MN sometimes gets accused of being a ‘nest of vipers’ lol, obviously we are all lovely, kind and thoughtful vipers when it comes to the important things in life like having compassion for a fellow Mnetter in need of a hand hold. I wish you so much good luck.

SlightlyJaded · 07/07/2023 20:26

Thanks for the update Kerr. Your wife sounds amazing and we are all so very much rooting for her.

No pictures of D-Dog today as she was not impressed by the heat, so here are some ducks that were crossing the road on my walk this evening in Richmond Park

Pamela thread 3 - Bile Duct Cancer, off to London!
BrambIeberry · 07/07/2023 20:27

Thank you for the update, Kerr. I'm.glad the operation went ahead, and I hope it really helps.

Love to you all.

Nottogetapenny · 07/07/2023 20:29

Thank you so much for the update Kerr, we really are sending prayers and best wishes for Pamela! You sound are an amazing family! Pamela has touched the hearts of strangers, she had given us an incredible insight of how much love you all have for each other!
Pamela is going through this and it must be so hard to see her suffering!
Hope the procedure today is successful
Really hope dreams and wishes come true for you all. 🙏😘🤞🍀🌸

DollieBantrysPantry · 07/07/2023 20:31

Thankyou for the update Kerr. Pamela, you and all the family are in my thoughts and hope the op is successful 💕

bendy75 · 07/07/2023 20:33

I have everything crossed that this procedure is successful, you have been in my thoughts every bit of today, I must have checked this thread hundreds of times for updates.

Wishing you all the luck in the world, you are truly the bravest lady I know.

🌺“She made broken look beautiful and strong look invincible. She walked with the universe on her shoulders and made it look like a pair of wings.” – Ariana Dancu 🌺

Eve x

deltablue · 07/07/2023 20:36

Thanks for the update, Kerr, we're praying for you all, and that the operation is a turning point for Pamela.

FlamingoQueen · 07/07/2023 20:37

Kerr, I have been thinking of you both today and hope the op goes well. It is really shit that you are all going through this. Flowers

Andywarholswig · 07/07/2023 20:41

Thankyou for the update Kerr - hoping the surgery has gone well and Pamela
is feeling more comfortable - thinking of you both

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 07/07/2023 20:43

Kerr, thank you for updating us. We are all rooting for you all. I hope Pamela's op has gone well, and that she can start to feel more comfortable.
Much love to you, Pamela and Jacob xx

SquirrelSoShiny · 07/07/2023 20:43

WilsonMilson · 07/07/2023 19:33

Hi, it’s Kerr here, Pamela asked me to let you all know about her surgery today so this is a very quick update. Surgery was due to be early afternoon but it went ahead around 6.30pm this evening - the wonderful staff in the hospital were trying their best to reassure us the procedure wouldn’t be cancelled despite it being so late on a Friday afternoon. We’re praying it’s goes well.

Can I also take the opportunity to say how much Pamela (and I) sincerely appreciate every single one of your prayers, your good wishes, your thoughts and your messages - the sense of community spirit, warmth and true human kindness has been overpowering and is an enormous support to Pamela through this incredibly difficult period. If I could thank you individually I would because Pamela is the most wonderful woman, the love of my life. Please keep praying for her.

We're all thinking about Pamela and your family Kerr. Courage 💪

GayPareeee · 07/07/2023 20:46

Sent some prayers up for you all today, on a day trip to Brighton. Hope it goes well, and that the drains aren't too uncomfy and do their job.

Here's some calming sea and sun x x

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mcmooberry · 07/07/2023 20:53

Thank you so much for the update Kerr. I hope at this unfathomable time you can draw comfort from how much your wonderful, articulate and beautiful wife has touched so many. Am sure those posting are only a fraction of those who have you all in their thoughts. Praying for strength for this night and the days to come. XX

Littlemissprosecco · 07/07/2023 20:57

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Soaringhigh · 07/07/2023 21:00

Happy birthday Pamela. Crossing everything for you and sending prayers up 🌺 💐

IMustDoMoreExercise · 07/07/2023 21:00

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loislovesstewie · 07/07/2023 21:01

Thinking of you all, love and hugs from,
Sarah, on the sunny Yorkshire Coast.

Fandabedodgy · 07/07/2023 21:03

Happy Birthday Pamela and thanks for the update Kerr.

Sending you love and best wishes from Fife in Scotland xxx

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