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Pamela thread 3 - Bile Duct Cancer, off to London!

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WilsonMilson · 05/07/2023 22:51

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Thisweeksname · 07/07/2023 09:52

Happy Birthday 💕I am hoping and praying that the drains are successful and you have your stent on Monday

JustLurkingAway · 07/07/2023 09:55

Happy birthday Pamela xx

Peridot1 · 07/07/2023 09:57

Wishing you many successful drains for your birthday today Pamela. Will be thinking of you.

@Skinnermarink - I think he did see some scans but given how bad things were handled in Antrim he didn’t much trust things and also Pamela deteriorated quite a lot quite quickly.

valadon68 · 07/07/2023 09:58

Happy birthday, you wonderful, intelligent, beautiful person 💐you have such a gift for writing that I hope you will keep writing bits and pieces for your family for them to read during your surgery & treatment, when they can't sleep at night and so on. I so hope that the drains will do their job this weekend. Will be thinking of you.

JudgeAnderson · 07/07/2023 09:58

Happy birthday Pamela!!!

Vick99 · 07/07/2023 09:59

Thinking of you today Pamela, sending birthday wishes and praying hard for a successful operation. So glad you're being well cared for in London. Thinking of Kerr and your whole family too x

CatkinToadflax · 07/07/2023 10:04

Happy birthday Pamela.

Here’s a photo of our trainee Guide Dog puppy having a snooze at 7 weeks old.

Good luck for the drains today. x

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BarnabyRocks · 07/07/2023 10:08

Happy birthday Pamela xxx Sending love and strength today, just take it one minute at a time. I think you should get your son and Mum and Mum to come to you, just to see them and hold their hands will make you feel so much better. They will want to be close to you too. xxx

PoliticallyIncorrectHitchling · 07/07/2023 10:10

Pamela, Happy Birthday and hope all goes well for you today.
Sending all my love to you.
Hugs xx

herbaceous · 07/07/2023 10:12

Happy birthday Pamela! Hope your draining experience is anything but draining, and you feel some relief afterwards.

You are amazing, and so inspiring.

Whatonearth2021 · 07/07/2023 10:12

Happy birthday Pamela. I hope the drains do their job and wishing you all the strength in the world. You are incredibly brave and an inspiration as so many others have said. My dad was in the HSC back in April and the care there was brilliant. Am sure you are in the best place. Sending you all the good vibes.

Fartughtyred · 07/07/2023 10:12

Happy Birthday Pamela! 🎂

Holding you in prayer that all goes smoothly today and that the Lords' peace, presence and protection will be with you throughout.
"Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark"

Much love and strength to you, Kerr and Jacob and hoping the stent will allow you to celebrate your birthday with cake and champagne very soon xx

tiktokoclock · 07/07/2023 10:13

Happy birthday Pamela, may your day be a positive one and your present be the operation going well.

Thinking of you!

StellaJohanna · 07/07/2023 10:14

Hello Pamela,
I think I would get your Mum and Jacob over, then you know they are there in the flesh with you.
I'm off to church for our prayer group to do your prayer. This is the church where we are doing the prayer. Lots of love.

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WinchSparkle80 · 07/07/2023 10:16

Happy Birthday beautiful Pamela 🥰

zizza · 07/07/2023 10:17

I'm another silent lurker who's been following your messages - wishing you a very happy birthday and I really hope things go well today x

WeeTreat · 07/07/2023 10:17

Happy Birthday Pamela! Hoping all goes well for you today x

Pansypotter123 · 07/07/2023 10:28

Get your mum and son over - they'll be with you all the way then xxxx

Sunnymummy8 · 07/07/2023 10:28

Happy Birthday lovely lady..
wishing you some peace and happiness today with some positive news x

marmaladeslade · 07/07/2023 10:30

My mum when she was young , a long time ago. Whenever I feel bad I look at this. Hope you are feeling ok Pamela

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Twinsmummy1812 · 07/07/2023 10:31

Happy birthday dear Pamela. I hope the drains do their job and you are much more comfortable for the stent. I pray for you and your family and for the surgeon to do his best job. God bless.

x

Threetoedsloth · 07/07/2023 10:31

Happy Birthday lovely Pamela. I hope the procedure brings relief and paves the way for the stent on Monday. You are in my thoughts throughout the day and I am willing you on.

Rockschooldropout · 07/07/2023 10:33

Happy Birthday Pamela - I’m thinking of you today xx

Mummyoflittledragon · 07/07/2023 10:39

Happy birthday Pamela. I also think you should ask your mum and Jacob to come over. They’ll then be one less thing to worry about then as you need all your focus on you. Flowers

overitunderit · 07/07/2023 10:43

Happy birthday.

As someone else has said I would take each second and hour as it comes and try not to think too far ahead.

Get your mum and Jacob over asap to give you a kiss and a cuddle and to all be in the same city at least

Lots of love x

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