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FET May 2023

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Purtyburty · 27/03/2023 14:26

Hi! I am scheduled for a FET in May and wondered if anybody might want to join who is in a similar position.

I had ICSI in 2020. A fresh transfer resulted in DD being born in 2021. We are doing a FET from an embryo we had of that round of ICSI.

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Rachel2145 · 25/05/2023 10:27

Is it something? Or is it an optical illusion? I have to go again tomorrow same time and compare?

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grcrobbo · 25/05/2023 10:39

@Irisjj - not going well. Had my beta yesterday at 14dp5dt and it was only 114. Clinic says it should be over 200. I can’t believe I am going through this hell again. This was a PGD/PGS tested embryo. We did ERA/EMMA/ALICE. This is my 4th pregnancy and is going to end in my 4th loss. I’m completely distraught

Irisjj · 25/05/2023 11:11

@Rachel2145 if you did not have a hcg trigger before your transfer this is def something!! Congrats 😘

@grcrobbo im so sorry.. its so unfair… did they ever do a pregnancy loss panel? They did with my second loss and I found out I have a blood clotting issue which can form clots in the placenta.. take care I wish you a lot of strength ❤️

grcrobbo · 25/05/2023 11:37

Yeah, I’ve had extensive blood work done - all normal.

my first pregnancy was textbook perfect with no issues whatsoever until our 20w scan. She inherited a lethal genetic condition from me which I had no idea I was a carrier for. We had to TFMR at 23w5d. This is the whole reason why we’re doing IVF.

I can’t cope with anymore loss and pain

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Purtyburty · 25/05/2023 12:27

@grcrobbo really sorry you are going through this.

I haven't tested since 8dp5dt as it was a bfn and I know in my heart it will be a bfn on otd. Also last night had a discussion with DH and the financial aspect is beginning to dawn on us. We don't know how much we will be able to afford and not sure we will be accepted on to a refund program.

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Irisjj · 25/05/2023 12:30

@grcrobbo i am so so sorry, this is so rough and unfair 😭

KiaoraCrow · 25/05/2023 13:08

I can see a line ! 🙏❤️

KiaoraCrow · 25/05/2023 13:09

KiaoraCrow · 25/05/2023 13:08

I can see a line ! 🙏❤️

V new to this, sorry. I was saying this in response to @Rachel2145

KiaoraCrow · 25/05/2023 13:11

@grcrobbo I’m so sorry, what a terribly unfair time you’ve had and so much heartache to deal with

grcrobbo · 25/05/2023 13:36

Thanks everyone. 💗

The pain is just intolerable

MaybeBabyTwo · 25/05/2023 15:55

@grcrobbo I'm so so very sorry. This is such a shit unfair process. We all deserve better than what ivf puts us through!

@Rachel2145 definitely a line. Test again tomorrow!

My transfer went well so now its a waiting game. I'm on holiday from tomorrow until Tuesday so I'll test Wednesday, which is 6dp5dt.

MaybeBabyTwo · 27/05/2023 21:27

How are we all feeling? I'm 2dp5dt today. Nothing exciting to report. Would normally test from 4dp but on holiday until Wed so can't test until 6dp. I know it's going to be negative 😫

NaomiNatNat · 28/05/2023 07:50

I've just done a test at 12dp5dt and it's come back as bfn. Good luck Everyone and lots of baby dust 💙 💗

Yashimommy · 28/05/2023 08:52

Hi Ladies,

I did my FET on May 22,2023. Today I’m 6dp5dt. I’m having cramps and severe nausea all of a sudden. I usually don’t feel nauseous before AF. I’m very worried and need some support.
I tested on 3dp5dt and got bfn. I stopped testing and decided to wait until 5th June. But I’m worried if I should test today and see.

anyone did FET on same day?

Yashimommy · 28/05/2023 09:04

@Rachel2145 I can see a line! Congratulations ❤️❤️

MaybeBabyTwo · 28/05/2023 09:15

So sorry @NaomiNatNat . Lots of support sent your way xx

KiaoraCrow · 28/05/2023 09:51

@Yashimommy I had a fet on the 19th May so a few days ahead of you. Keep us updated on how you’re feeling, I have everything crossed for you x
I’ve tested on day 5 (am), 6 (pm) and 7(am) and all were bfn. Have written this one off but will keep taking my meds until my test date which is Weds just in case but I resent each injection now, whereas before they made me feel positive

Yashimommy · 28/05/2023 10:41

@KiaoraCrow keeping fingers crossed for both of us. I have been reading positive stories even in this thread of BPN on day11 and BFP on day12. So let’s hope🤞 I got some tests today, planning to test on Tuesday 8dp5dt

Yashimommy · 28/05/2023 16:03

Is anyone here ladies?

MaybeBabyTwo · 28/05/2023 22:52

@KiaoraCrow feel that frustration at still having to take your meds so much. It really upset me last month. Keeping hoping for you x

MaybeBabyTwo · 30/05/2023 21:56

I'm testing in the morning. 6dp5dt. I feel a bit 'weird' and sicky but no other symptoms and I know that progesterone mimics all pregnancy symptoms!

How is everyone else doing?

MaybeBabyTwo · 31/05/2023 05:10

There's a very faint second line!!!! I'm 5.5dp5dt....

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KiaoraCrow · 31/05/2023 08:18

@MaybeBabyTwo
congratulations, I can see it!

I’ve got a negative again on day 12 today so have accepted defeat. gutted as this was the only euploid emble I’ve ever had from all my egg collections.

good luck to the rest of you and sending baby dust and hope for sticky babies x x

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Purtyburty · 31/05/2023 08:27

I am officially out. Good luck to all x

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Irisjj · 31/05/2023 11:41

@MaybeBabyTwo congrats!!!! That is definitely a line❤️

@KiaoraCrow @Purtyburty im sorry.. its unfair xx