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Anyone doing IVF at 40+ pt 2

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lucymills1234 · 20/08/2021 09:29

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Bryterlayter1 · 09/03/2022 19:30

Oops sorry meant to respond to @Hopeful199 to say, still early days for me 4dp5dt so a while yet to OTD. I learned the hardway that I wouldn't test before OTD, if it is a negative best to have to only see/hear the results once.

Bryterlayter1 · 09/03/2022 19:41

@Pinklady81 some of my follicles were slow growers most caught up by EC. Good that they are scanning regularly, that way you get a good amount of updates and a better grasp on how the lovely follicles are developing.

Bryterlayter1 · 12/03/2022 16:24

This tww wait is driving me crazy. I'm not hopeful and feel like I just want to know. I made my OH a promise I wouldn't test until the bloods are taken on OTD which is Tuesday. I'm sure I make it but the wait sucks.

Pinklady81 · 14/03/2022 19:57

So third scan today 10 follicles and 2 are leading the way 15mm others still trailing behind so on day 8 of stims so far the nurse rang said stick with what you are doing will see you Wednesday and then said 1-2 eggs looking likely ...: I don't know whether to cry or is that a good sign?

Bryterlayter1 · 14/03/2022 20:56

@Pinklady81 I had similar my last cycle where one was way ahead. Most others caught up by EC. Hopefully there will be good progress on Wednesday.

Pinklady81 · 14/03/2022 20:59

@Bryterlayter1 thank you they didn't think the smaller ones would My leading ones have grown loads over the weekend though....

Bryterlayter1 · 16/03/2022 17:53

@Pinklady81 how did the scan go today?

Pinklady81 · 16/03/2022 18:15

Positive news at last I have one at 17mm and 26mm and a few behind so looking at egg collection over the weekend. Got to go for another scan tomorrow over in Manchester

Bryterlayter1 · 16/03/2022 21:43

@pinklady81 sounds very promising! Hope a few more keep growing to EC.

Pinklady81 · 16/03/2022 21:44

@Bryterlayter1 I didn't mean 26 I meant 16mm back in the morning again for a scan I'm going every 48 hours for scans work aren't best pleased at the moment !!

Bryterlayter1 · 17/03/2022 16:27

@Pinklady81 Ah! Good, I did think not triggering when you had a 26mm seemed odd, but that makes much more sense. Hope the scan went well today!

News from me. I've got a BFP had a beta HCG on Tuesday and then again today and HCG rates are doubling (currently at 260ish). Happy days! Long may they continue.

Pinklady81 · 17/03/2022 16:30

@Bryterlayter1 woohoo massive congratulations amazing news yes scan went well 2 now at 19mm so scan again tomorrow this really is some appointments I'm having scan every day egg collection over the weekend will know more tomorrow

Lulu106 · 17/03/2022 17:12

Huge congratulations @Bryterlayter1 you are giving us all hope. Can you remind us of your story and situation? It would be good to hear of what works. Stepping into our next cycle too and it feels so scary now I know what's coming.

Bryterlayter1 · 17/03/2022 17:23

@Lulu106 of course. I'm 41 in a same sex partnership, so using donor sperm. This is my second IVF cycle. I did cycle 1 in August when I was 40, double embryo transfer but a BFN.

This cycle stimmed with Meriofert (300 ui for 7 days, then 375ui for 4 days) had Ovitrell as a trigger. 10 eggs collected, 5 fertilised, resulting in a 4AA blast and an early blast which couldn't yet be graded, both were transferred.

I really didn';t want to do this cycle, I was convinced it would fail, but some how it worked. I honestly think some of this is probably luck. One odd thing, they tested my progesterone the day of transfer and it was bizarrely high (over 300nmol) today the nurse said she had a feeling it might work this time because my lining was soooo thick due to the high progesterone. No idea why it was so high, I was taking 2 cyclogest as most women do, so must have been some odd extra hormone production in my body.

LuckyNovember · 17/03/2022 19:21

Wowwwww congrats @Bryterlayter1 What fab news, im sure you're both delighted!!! really happy for you, (and LOVE the success stories form reminding us all how quick it can all turn around ☘️)

LuckyNovember · 17/03/2022 19:23

PHEWWW @Pinklady81 when I read 26mm I didn't have the heart to react, I thought they'd let you overcook 🤦🏻‍♀️ Very happy to read the typo 😂

LuckyNovember · 17/03/2022 19:25

I'm back on stimms, had my CD5 scan today... I didn't get a number of follicles, but it all looked a bit more lively than my first cycle, so I'm optimistic 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 EC should be mid next week...

Lulu106 · 17/03/2022 20:02

@Bryterlayter1 thanks for sharing. It so nice to be reminded that this is possible. Genuinely happy for you.

@LuckyNovember good luck 🤞🏼

Pinklady81 · 17/03/2022 20:10

How was egg collection for everyone I'm starting to panic about it all now it's the cannula bit that frightens me the most

LuckyNovember · 17/03/2022 20:21

@Pinklady81 I'm no expert, I've only done it once before, but mine was really fine... I was under anesthetic, so obvs the procedure itself didn't hurt! I didn't feel anything after, was just a bit tired the day of, but totally fine afterwards. The doc rang me that afternoon to tell me how many eggs, and the clinic called me the following morning to tell me they fertilised. The transfer was a bit more nerve wracking, but even that was pretty smooth. Good luck!!

LuckyNovember · 17/03/2022 20:22

Thanks @Lulu106 😊

Hopeful199 · 17/03/2022 20:39

Ahh @Bryterlayter1that is great news! Congratulations!! ❤️

@Pinklady81great to hear you are progressing to EC. 2 good quality ones is a good outcome. Try not to worry! Fingers crossed all goes ahead this weekend. Are you still banking them or going to do a fresh?

I had started the pills for an FET.
I bled before OTD last time so convinced my prof levels are not good. I have asked for lubion this time which they agreed to… fingers crossed it makes the difference!!!

Pinklady81 · 17/03/2022 20:56

@Hopeful199 I'm doing 3 frozen rounds banking them all and then going on down regs due to endo.... so feels like a very long road but I'm on that road now . I've had a wobble today and can't stop crying

Hopeful199 · 17/03/2022 22:09

@Pinklady81 why the wobble?

It is not an easy road, but it is great you have started the process. Lots of hope and chances ahead of you!

Pinklady81 · 18/03/2022 07:07

@Hopeful199 egg collection is worrying me and I think I've had 5 scans this weeks it's been an intense week not knowing whether I would get to this stage

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