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Sept IVF/FET

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Lemongrass1 · 28/07/2020 14:10

I can’t see a Sept cycle up yet so thought I’d start one. Currently TTC #2. Our March FET was postponed due to Covid and we had a FET in July which sadly resulted in a BFN last week. Had our follow up last night and to our surprise we can try again straight away so signing consents next week and starting down reg in 2.5 weeks. Told the cycle went perfectly and must have been an embryo issue so we aren’t changing protocol but going for double embryo transfer this time. Anyone else looking to cycle/ transfer in Sept? Or am I a bit early/ keen 😂

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Eggling · 06/09/2020 17:55

Thanks everyone - had a good cry and snuggled with the cat and on a more even keel again now, though feeling a bit less positive than I have been recently.

@79andnotout congratulations on the transfer! Sorry it was so uncomfortable. I hope you have your feet up now!

@Sian7919 to second @ivfjourney5 my egg collection was 36 hours after trigger. I was in the clinic for 8 and out by lunchtime but at least an hour and a half of that was hanging around waiting to see after the procedure - they wanted to check all was in order but despite chugging back water it was ages until I managed to go!

79andnotout · 06/09/2020 17:58

@Sian7919 my trigger was 10.30 and the egg collection was at 9.30 ish, I was out of the clinic by midday.

@Tarsette I have a mountain of work and have exams next week too so I will be distracted at least.

I'd bloody love to go for a run to take my mind off things. I'm really missing proper exercise. Walking the dogs doesn't cut it.

UnicornPuff · 06/09/2020 19:12

I am struggling to stay calm for tomorrow. The last update we had was on Friday when the embryos were doing as they should. I am dreading the update tomorrow and just don't think I am going to get any sleep. On our first cycle it all went wrong when we got to day 5. DH can't get out of work so I will be on my own. I keep trying to tell myself that I have been taking every supplement under the sun since the last cycle and they managed to use slow sperm but I just feel nauseous with the thought of tomorrow. Sorry we haven't told anyone this time and I dont want to make DH feel any more guilty than he already does because he can't be there, so you guys are my sounding board!

Alexm06 · 06/09/2020 20:45

@UnicornPuff I have my scan tomorrow before EC so I’m stressing a bit as well. I mean I don’t have any previous experience from it so I can’t help with that matter but I can help and stress with you! Even though we won’t have anything to worry about. Good luck tomorrow

Lemongrass1 · 06/09/2020 20:52

@UnicornPuff @Alexm06 I don’t have any magic words to make the stress go away but I have my fingers tightly crossed for a good result for you both tomorrow 🤞🤞🤞

Good luck to anyone else having scans/ EC/ embryo updates tomorrow!

And congrats @79andnotout on being PUPO! X

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79andnotout · 06/09/2020 21:00

@UnicornPuff - don't stress about being stressed - I think I read that somewhere. It's natural you are panicking after last time. It's shit, and worrying, give in to it. Hopefully all will be ok but at least you'll know soon. Good luck!

I've been pretty sanguine about all of this as I didn't think I had much of a chance but now I'm actually PUPO I'm starting to feel stressed as I now have something to lose. Shit! This is gonna be a long two weeks.

HavingFaith · 06/09/2020 21:20

@UnicornPuff i know there’s nothing I can say to take the stress and anxiety away but like you said you’ve done everything you possibly can and so much of this is outside of our control. I have my fingers crossed everything goes perfectly tomorrow. Will be thinking of you xx

I think a few people have scans etc tomorrow - hope it’s a good day for you all!

Is anyone taking Lubion and cyclogest? I have to take both twice a day but wandering if I should space them out? As in, is it ok to do a Lubion injection immediately followed by a cyclogest pessary?

Sian7919 · 06/09/2020 21:32

Thanks for the info everyone. @UnicornPuff I hope everything goes ok. It really is a nerve racking process. Try and take your mind off things with reading or tv or calling someone maybe. @Alexm06 good luck for the scan.

It’s so hard not to worry. I’m lying here worrying about how many follicles will contain an egg and then how many will fertilize and if so will any make it and if so etc etc and also I’m just waiting tick tick for 11.30 to take the trigger injection, I’m so tired too, I’ve set my alarm incase I fall asleep x

Izniz · 06/09/2020 22:00

Hi ladies! Hope everyone is doing well! Just wanted to say really finding this chain helpful. Had 5dpo fet on friday, and this tww is dreadful. Fingers crossed. Star

JandL2020 · 07/09/2020 07:51

Good luck to everyone today awaiting news, transfers and egg collections - thinking of you all xx

JandL2020 · 07/09/2020 07:51

@Sian7919

Thanks for the info everyone. *@UnicornPuff I hope everything goes ok. It really is a nerve racking process. Try and take your mind off things with reading or tv or calling someone maybe. @Alexm06* good luck for the scan.

It’s so hard not to worry. I’m lying here worrying about how many follicles will contain an egg and then how many will fertilize and if so will any make it and if so etc etc and also I’m just waiting tick tick for 11.30 to take the trigger injection, I’m so tired too, I’ve set my alarm incase I fall asleep x

Hope you woke up I’m sure you did 😊 best of luck today xx
JandL2020 · 07/09/2020 07:52

@Izniz

Hi ladies! Hope everyone is doing well! Just wanted to say really finding this chain helpful. Had 5dpo fet on friday, and this tww is dreadful. Fingers crossed. Star
Best of luck xx
UnicornPuff · 07/09/2020 08:43

My appointment is at 9 but just had the embryologist call. We are having a single transfer this time and one being popped in the freezer. We have an early blast they will keep watching which if it catches up will be freezable. I have had a little cry so must look brilliant to the rest of the people waiting to go in! I am so happy its ridiculous!

JandL2020 · 07/09/2020 08:51

@UnicornPuff

My appointment is at 9 but just had the embryologist call. We are having a single transfer this time and one being popped in the freezer. We have an early blast they will keep watching which if it catches up will be freezable. I have had a little cry so must look brilliant to the rest of the people waiting to go in! I am so happy its ridiculous!
That’s great news!! Fingers crossed the other one catches up too. Xx
HavingFaith · 07/09/2020 08:51

@UnicornPuff amazing news!!! Hope transfer goes well.

Good luck to everyone with scans/collections/transfers today xx

thefishthatcouldwish · 07/09/2020 09:14

@UnicornPuff super news. 🤞 for you.

@Izniz 🤞 for you.

Good luck to all having scans etc today.

On route to Egg Collection.

Trying to relax but I am one of life’s stress heads.

Eggling · 07/09/2020 09:25

@UnicornPuff great news!

@thefishthatcouldwish good luck, you will be absolutely fine.

ivfjourney5 · 07/09/2020 09:48

Good luck everyone 🍀

zebra80 · 07/09/2020 09:51

@Eggling @unknownscot sorry you had a tough weekend - a good cry is sometimes the best option. I had one yesterday too, I am a big believer in 'feeling the feelings' and just letting it happen when it needs to x

@UnicornPuff great news! Hope it goes smoothly today.

@thefishthatcouldwish good luck!

@79andnotout sorry to hear the transfer was grim but congratulations on getting to this stage - hope the 2ww goes fairly swiftly and you get a good balance of relaxing and being kept distracted x

I'm heading in for my first scan & bloods this morning (day 8 of stims), feeling a bit nervous - as long as I can get to the next stage I'll be relieved. Had a bit of a tough weekend as I'm in Glasgow where we have extra restrictions, so really having not much social contact at all, and so paranoid about going out & about even to a coffee shop on my own in case I get a Test & Protect call. Feeling less wobbly this morning.

Good luck to all xx

Alexm06 · 07/09/2020 10:10

Just had my my scan. Said I’m ready to go so will be triggering tomorrow night ready to go in at 8.30 Thursday! All getting a bit to real now and starting to freak out a little bit.

Hope all the other scans went well today

LKSF · 07/09/2020 10:31

Morning All, I took a break last week so I’ve just spent about half an hour catching up reading through all your comments....this thread moves soooo fast🙈
Sending lots of luck to everyone having scans, egg collections and Transfers this week 🤞🏼 x

ChicaXS · 07/09/2020 12:08

Morning ladies! First of all good luck to those having their EC today and recieved their scans!

@JandL2020 best of luck doll for the TWW stay focused and happy. Praying for you!

I had my first scan today and the nurse said I’m a slow grower. The biggest follicle I had was 9mm on day 7 of stims. She said I may need to have more injections and don’t want to up my dose due to the OHSS risk. I asked how many follicles I had and she said 23 but said it was ‘ok’ ... she didn’t seem too impressed lol. I think 23 is good no? lol their still AFC size however and just not growing which sucks. Has this happened to anyone here? X

UnicornPuff · 07/09/2020 12:15

@Alexm06 that's really good news for your scan. Its so close now!

@79andnotout how are you dealing with the stress? I find that immediately after I get the info I want from scans, ec, etc I feel quite calm and happy and then about a day later I start to work myself up again until I get to the next bit! When is your test day?

@Sian7919 hope your trigger went well. A day injection free! Enjoy.

@Izniz when is your test date?

@thefishthatcouldwish good luck today. Hope it goes well and you get home to rest nice and quickly. I would love to say the stress will go but it just seems to get worse at every time!

@zebra80 hope your scan goes well. I hope your stims go nice and quickly so you won't have to stay quite so isolated. Keep to the precautions and only do what you are comfortable with. Until ec I self isolated because 2 weeks in seems better than losing money with a cancelled cycle!

Thank you to everyone yesterday after my wobble. And good luck to everyone!

HavingFaith · 07/09/2020 12:52

@UnicornPuff how did it go? When’s your test date?xx

thefishthatcouldwish · 07/09/2020 12:57

@zebra80 good luck with scan. 🙃

@ChicaXS that sounds stressful!

My EC went ok. 9 eggs collected which was more than they thought.

I have never felt so nervous to be honest.

Weird whilst waiting for EC mine and DH song came on the radio which was a sign I recon.