@PuffinPippin - I am SO sorry to hear Letrozole didn't work for you.
It didn't for me either. It fudging sucks.
We started IVF in January after a really traumatic (first) pregnancy and then loss on Christmas Eve...
BUT, but but but - we are SO glad we decided to go ahead with IVF.
We were offered it 2 years ago and I declined as I was only 27 and I couldn't tell my arse from my elbow by that point I was so exhausted and frustrated with the whole infertility experience.
Now, we are soon to have our FET (frozen embryo transfer), and we are really excited.
In fact, during my IVF cycle they discovered my tubes were indeed a mess (after 2 years of being told it was 'unexplained infertility' - Clomid & Letrozole...despite 4 surgeries on my tubes...don't even ask)..
So I got as proper diagnosis, surgery, support and a treatment plan that has transformed my life. I will never ever conceive naturally, and I'm ok with that...now.
I'm sharing this and telling you this because IVF was daunting for me too, and I had no idea what to expect but I really really hope you get the experience I have had & I hope you get all the answers and the baby(ies) you have dreamed of.
Without all the failed drugs, perpetual misdiagnosis, major surgeries, the loss and the closed doors...I would not have arrived here, with IVF - feeling like this is the easiest bloody bit - just surrendering to medicine and science and hoping for the best.
I am thinking of you, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world
H x
(P.S Puffin's are my favourite animals, I literally have a puffin tattoo)