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The TMI April onward IVF thread

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AliceAbsolum · 09/08/2019 16:10

@hopingforbabyd @pleaseletitbeme @phreedam @westywoo @mouse1234567 @viletta @hoping1 @twiglet2353

A bunch of April IVF ladies onto another round. Graduates and waiters we like hearing from you too.

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Viletta · 28/01/2020 23:07

@Russkispy thank you my Russian friend! I hope your af comes soon and you can start again. In the meantime we have to enjoy and be grateful for what we’ve got.

AliceAbsolum · 29/01/2020 07:01

@Viletta x

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WorriedButterfly · 29/01/2020 07:20

Thanks for checking in @Russkispy. I am hanging in here, had another scan last week, everything looks fine. It is a long slow road but hopefully it will all pay off for us all in the end.

🤞🏼@Viletta, hope you have some happy news x

Wesstywoo · 29/01/2020 07:31

@Russkispy the clinic are not optimistic about my chances even with the drug that Worriedbutterfly had so I'm considering change of clinics and perhaps trying natural modified (if I'm only ever going to get 1 or 2 eggs anyway).

@Viletta 🤞 xx

@russkispy hope AF turns up soon - this is a long, slowand frustrating road (seems forever since we were on the Dec 18 thread!)

Russkispy · 29/01/2020 07:50

@Viletta thank you! Absolutely know what you mean! Hope there's good news for you!

@Wesstywoo I know! It's been 2 years now and the last year I had 5 MCs alone! The worst nightmare ever! Never thought in millions years I'd experience such cruelty! But desire of having another baby is overwhelming and determination is even stronger now. As in, I'm in a completion with bad news and I want to prove that I can best it and win and have my rainbow after all! Hope it makes sense.

@WorriedButterfly glad the scan went well. May it continue that way!

@AliceAbsolum hope you're ok?

maggieT78 · 29/01/2020 07:56

Wishing best of luck to everyone.
I'm absolutely crossing fingers for all of you! I had already three failed IVF attempts in the past. We have decided to change clinic.
Perhaps we will travel abroad.

Viletta · 29/01/2020 07:59

Hi all! Its a BFP!!! First time I see it! No matter what happens next it’s a huge step forward for us! We are so released and happy! Hope you all guys are okay too xxxxx

Wesstywoo · 29/01/2020 08:14

@Viletta congratulations lovely!!! Brilliant news! Xxx

WorriedButterfly · 29/01/2020 08:21

Congratulations! Super news! Smile

AliceAbsolum · 29/01/2020 09:16

Omg so fucking pleased. Well done xxx

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Russkispy · 29/01/2020 09:29

@Viletta Russian to Russian ну просто поздравляю! Оболденная новость! Очень рада за вас!!! Massive Congratulations ! 🎉🍾

AliceAbsolum · 29/01/2020 09:55

@Russkispy
I'm OK in that I'm not so distressed anymore, back to work, living life. But I'm not up for going back for a FET. I am running, drinking coffee, planning mountain climbing trips, enjoying hobbies with DH....We are thinking of doing a year travelling and working on the road.
Last weekend I was with a friend, felt a slight twinge in my lower stomach - totally normal, probably wind, but my brain instantly went "ARGH Baby!" Then swiftly followed by remembering there is no baby, I wasn't sad, I was totally relieved that I didn't have to worry. I cannot face that anxiety again at the moment. I just cant. Maybe in 2021.

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Viletta · 29/01/2020 10:08

@Russkispy спасибо! Мы счастливы!!

@AliceAbsolum thank you! sounds like you got a good plan and enjoying life.

Thank you all for your warm words and support! I still can’t quite believe it, but happy to finally enjoy myself and plan for the future. Thrilled and don’t think about anything negative until I need to (hopefully not). Maybe ERA worked for me as I was late 2h for my test and the test came back receptive so my personalized implantation window and transfer was shifted by 2h subsequently.

AliceAbsolum · 29/01/2020 10:18

@viletta I feel like it's putting off the inevitable. Not sure it's a good plan. Not sure I'm enjoying life.
Sorry I'm not in the best place.

You look after yourself and your bfp! Very happy it's worked this time xx

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Russkispy · 29/01/2020 15:56

@Viletta try to take it easy and keep in mind that today you are pregnant!

@AliceAbsolum I hear you! Do what you need to do to keep yourself sane! Look after yourself and we're still here for you x

Hopingforbabyd · 29/01/2020 17:42

@Viletta this is the best news! Congratulations so pleased for you! Heres to a positive 9 months ahead of you 💋 xx

Viletta · 29/01/2020 20:13

Early heart scan costs less than my 1minute endometrium scan in the same private ultrasound scan. This doesn’t make much sense beyond milking money from people who have to do IVF privately.

Viletta · 29/01/2020 20:14

@Hopingforbabyd thank you! Feeling positive 😊

Hoping1 · 29/01/2020 21:53

Congratulation @Viletta . Hopefully be all of us one day ladies xxxx

Russkispy · 29/01/2020 23:59

@Hoping1 it will happen for us too! I'm absolutely convinced! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻💪🏻

Hoping1 · 04/02/2020 19:13

Well had me phone call today start treatment march. Egg collection 13th of April . Dont know how to feel about it all . Feel like there lots to take in dont want to get anything wrong xxx

Viletta · 04/02/2020 19:42

@Hoping1 great news! Are you planning to take vitamins? I find it's therapeutic to take a pill a day, makes me feel like I'm doing something.

Hoping1 · 04/02/2020 19:56

On fertility vitams at the min xxxxxx

Russkispy · 05/02/2020 22:35

AF finally arrived on Monday, it was a 33 day cycle 🤬🤬🤬 but anyway, starting Bemfola on Friday cd5 through to cd9 and having scan with my doc as flew to home/clinic today. Hopefully will get a definite day for transfer 🤞🏻🤞🏻

WorriedButterfly · 06/02/2020 15:32

Pleased you're moving again @Russkispy - that was a loooong cycle! Hope transfer day comes round quickly for you! X