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October/November IVF

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Langpants · 02/10/2018 13:31

Hi ladies!

Round 2 down regulation has just started. Embryo transfer should be 1/2 November. Going for 2 embryos this time.

Anyone else just starting a round? x

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orangefolly · 26/11/2018 11:12

Oh and welcome @runchunkrun

TinyPaws · 26/11/2018 11:39

@runchunkrun Welcome and good luck!

@orangefolly How many days post transfer are you now? How many left to go until you test?

I called the clinic today ahead of my provisional transfer to confirm there was something to transfer - they didn't have the full details but they confirmed that I can proceed with single blastocyst transfer this afternoon and that they are freezing a second blastocyst (the lady on the phone thought this one is a 5BB but couldn't be sure without looking at my notes, which are in the lab). So, not amazing quality but considering we had 4 fertilise I'm bloody delighted! Very proud of Hubble and Bubble!

runchunkrun · 26/11/2018 12:49

Thanks for the warm welcome from you all. I'm back at work today and it's help focus my mind so much better. Although obvs not completely 😂

The tww is definitely the hardest part of the whole process. Trying to stay positive but the doubt won't leave me alone. Roll on Saturday 🤞🏼

orangefolly · 26/11/2018 14:38

I'm now 6dp6dt and test day is on Thursday... if I can hold out....

@tinypaws 5BB is good! The one I got pregnant from before was 3BB and the one I have on board now is 4BB - my consultant said they don't see much difference in outcomes from A and B. Is your transfer today?

TinyPaws · 26/11/2018 19:28

@orangefolly Thanks for the reassurance!

Transfer went smoothly today. Of the 4 day 2 embryos, 3 became blastocysts but one was not good enough to freeze. There was little to choose between the 2 best embryos, so I have one 5BB- on board and another of the same grade frozen. The only thing was, while we were having the transfer the song on the radio was Michael Jackson’s Billie Jean - a bit inappropriate given that we have used donor sperm!

runchunkrun · 26/11/2018 21:42

Rooting for you tinypaws.

I'm 10dp3dt why is my otd so far away 😱although I don't think I'm ready for my hope to come to an end yet so I'm waiting patiently.

BlueSarah · 27/11/2018 16:56

AF arrived this morning. I can't stop crying. I had to mumble some excuse and run out of work. The clinic said to test again once the bleeding stops - as if there's still any hope! TBH I've been waiting for this to happen ever since I got a BFP, just don't think I'm meant to be pregnant.

TinyPaws · 27/11/2018 17:07

@BlueSarah I'm so so so sorry. Really horrible news. I hope your little bean is somehow hanging in there. I hope you're taking really good care of yourself (and being taken care of) - are you getting signed off work?

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FingersXssd83 · 27/11/2018 18:24

Hi again @BlueSarah I'm sorry I didn't read your full message before posting. People can bleed all the way through pregnancy, hope this brings you some comfort. Take care xxxx

runchunkrun · 27/11/2018 18:39

Aw @TinyPaws just relax and take it easy for a few days. I've got everything crossed for you xxx

runchunkrun · 27/11/2018 18:41

Oops sorry raged the wrong name. (I'm brand new at this. Sorry xx @BlueSarah

orangefolly · 27/11/2018 19:03

Oh no @BlueSarah how awful, you poor thing. I hope it's implantation bleeding, but also understand that sometimes if you know, you know. Take care of yourself. Sending lots of love Flowers

RedPandaFluff · 27/11/2018 19:25

Thinking of you, @BlueSarah - I so hope it's just random bleeding x

twodogsonecatnobaby · 27/11/2018 20:01

@BlueSarah I'm so sorry, what a shitty thing to happen. I believe you're meant to be pregnant, I believe we all are.

orangefolly · 28/11/2018 06:59

I have a confession to make: I cracked and tested a day early. Got up really early and just couldn't resist the tempation. And it's a BFP!!!!

I am acutely aware there are lots of things that can go wrong, especially after last time, but I'm cautiously excited, relieved, really bloody pleased Smile

TinyPaws · 28/11/2018 07:06

@orangefolly Congratulations!!

twodogsonecatnobaby · 28/11/2018 09:07

Fantastic news @orangefolly! congrats x

runchunkrun · 28/11/2018 22:48

@orangefolly that's fab news. Congratulations Smile

Catren · 28/11/2018 23:31

So sorry bluesarah, its so shitty. I had this on our first transfer and it was so disappointing. Take care of yourself and cry all you need to. It's a cruel world sometimes.

orangefolly · 29/11/2018 14:51

Spotting today and it's really freaking me out Sad Can't stop thinking about my previous miscarriage. I know I need to calm down and just wait...

orangefolly · 29/11/2018 14:52

How are you doing @bluesarah?

runchunkrun · 29/11/2018 18:19

@orangefolly try and rest and relax. This could be a good sign. Try not to panic 🍀🤞🏼

runchunkrun · 30/11/2018 10:46

@orangefolly how are you doing?

orangefolly · 30/11/2018 10:57

Hanging in there thanks. Did another test today and still positive / slightly darker, but still spotting a little.

How are you getting on @runchunkrun? You must be nearly at test day? Any symptoms?

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