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IVF Cycle Buddies August/September?

952 replies

meadowlark3 · 02/08/2017 19:21

Anyone starting a cycle this month? I know there's a July/August thread, but seems that they've mostly all started on their cycles. I'm due to start DR tomorrow and if all goes well will have EC at the beginning of September.

Have not shared our IVF journey with too many people in IRL so would love to have a bit of company here. This will be our first go at IVF, so quite nervous at the mo!

xx

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BeHereNow31 · 13/02/2018 18:04

With my husband cooking, I wish I could just order a pizza! Will be waiting ages 😂 xx

Fox23 · 13/02/2018 18:18

@BeHereNow31 think soft cloudy and mushy food. I know- last thing you want is soup or porridge after everything you’ve gone through, but please don’t repeat mine or Janes mistake- not worth it. It’s beyond words painful!
How was anaesthetic? I remember it being the best ever feeling! Apparently that’s what Michael Jackson used to sleep (according to anaesthesiologist) oh, and kept proclaiming my love for all nurses after I woke up 😂😂😂😁😲

BeHereNow31 · 13/02/2018 18:27

Was a good sleep tbh! Last ec I woke up a bit during, and was awake as soon as it was over. This time, slept all the way through, and it took me quite a while to wake back up. I’m more sore than last time though. Luckily I can just lie in my bed. 🙂

Oh, I can see it being addictive if you have easy access to it! Xx

Janefx40 · 13/02/2018 23:52

@Fox23 ah that was you!!! How funny. Wish I'd read that post before I ate that pizza!

@BeHereNow31 hope DH's culinary delights arrived eventually. Hope that call brings good news

Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 08:10

I was ok after eating. I was starving! Lol. Still sore today, but going to try get up a move about a bit.
Thanks. Nervous for this phone call xx

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 12:10

Only 2 have made it to embryo stage, so feeling pretty stressed out right now. Will speak to them tomorrow to find out when transfer will be x

Janefx40 · 14/02/2018 12:10

@BeHereNow31 have you heard from them yet? (No pressure to tell us news of course if you don't feel ready to).

Keep drinking the water. Flush flush flush your system

Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 12:14

See above post jane. We must have messaged at the same time xx

Janefx40 · 14/02/2018 12:19

@BeHereNow31 ah I'm so sorry to hear that. You know what I'm going to say...you only need 1! I realise that doesn't make you feel better tho and I know how stressful it is tho especially when you produced so many eggs.

Did you do IVF or ICSI?

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 12:21

I know...
ICSI. Last time 4 made it (only could use 2 in the end though). Transfer day could be tomorrow... but could also be day 5. I’m going to be crazy stressed!!!

How’s things with you? X

Janefx40 · 14/02/2018 13:34

@BeHereNow31 ah it's really tough. You just have to have faith in your clinic and those two little seedlings but it's not easy.

I'm ok. I was super stressed when my hcg went up to 80 - my period had started so I couldn't really hope for a miracle baby so was worried about later miscarriages and ectopic. But hcg went down again to 51 so we are going in the right direction.

Now that is resolved, I'm just feeling sad again that it hasn't worked. I did another home test yesterday just because I wanted to see a positive before it was all over in case I never get another one. How sad is that? But then it's weird that the only positive home tests I've ever had, have been when I've known for certain I wasn't having a baby. Life eh?!

But I'm ok really all things considered

Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 13:41

That’s awful Jane ☹️ It’s so hard to stay positive.
Will you be doing FET? Xx

Janefx40 · 14/02/2018 14:07

@BeHereNow31 it's ok. It is sad but this is further than we have ever got before - have to hold onto that.

We only have one frostie so will be doing stims again - probably in April. I have to decide whether to do immunes in the meantime. I also have my NHS appt next week. Not sure if they'll offer me anything at 41 and also whether I would do it there anyway. Yes I would love to save money but no sure I'd want to change clinics.

It's cheering me up to think about your little seedlings growing in their Petri dish!

Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 14:09

Thank you. I just hope they’re doing ok. But really anxious about it all.

I’m happy to hear that you have a frostie to try. ❤️ Xx

Fox23 · 14/02/2018 20:44

@BeHereNow31 so, it’s not what you expected but you can’t be upset that you have 2 little embryos waiting to try! Be positive and happy for them 😁💕💕💕 please let us know when your transfer day is!!!! And water, water, water....
@Janefx40 it’s good news 😊 maybe bit sad, but you can start planning next steps now! I’m sure little frosty is desperate to get out of the freezer 😊
Had my last day at work and am in holiday mode already! Off to Hastings tomorrow! Dingy, cold rainy and... super quiet holiday! Sooo relaxing! Then on Friday will hop on the train, into London and have my two Frosties transfered 🤞🤞🤞🤞then back again to Hastings- so excited!

BeHereNow31 · 14/02/2018 20:48

Thanks fox. Just need to get to transfer day. Could be tomorrow...

I just want to keep eating! My belly is sooo full and bloated. But I can’t stop. I do need to drink more tho.

A few days away sounds lovely. Enjoy every min xx

BeHereNow31 · 15/02/2018 11:00

Transfer is tomorrow. Same day as you fox 😲 I cant go away this weekend.... maybe try something midweek 🤞
All the best xx

Janefx40 · 15/02/2018 11:05

Tomorrow!! Yay. Then we just have to wait and hope xxx

Janefx40 · 15/02/2018 14:02

@Fox23 how are you feeling about tomorrow? Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 15/02/2018 14:14

Went out for a huge lunch 😵😵 and suffering now. It was worth it though!
Hope you’re still feeling excited and positive fox

Janefx40 · 15/02/2018 20:46

Thinking of you both for tomorrow. Sleep tight

Xxx

BeHereNow31 · 15/02/2018 20:54

Thank you. Feeling sore, so I hope they still go ahead with it. Think I done too much today.

Good luck fox

Janefx40 · 16/02/2018 09:08

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼that looks like 3 chicken dinners but is meant to be 3 crossed fingers

Xxxx

Fox23 · 16/02/2018 10:04

Hi girls,
On my way to hospital now transfer at 11.30. Yesterday went for a long walk, and then fell asleep at 6!!!!! That was it- woke up this morning 12 hours later 🤭🤭🤭
@BeHereNow31 what time is your transfer! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
Thank you @Janefx40, I’m so so hoping it works this time!!! Will let you know if few hours

BeHereNow31 · 16/02/2018 10:56

Wishing you lots of love and luck fox that sleep will have done you good!
Mine’s is 12:15. I’m trying to drink lots of water.. with a sore tummy 🙄

Hope it all goes smoothly. I need the gas and air for mine! Lol xx