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IVF Cycle Buddies July/August

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BiscuitBill · 04/07/2017 20:17

Hi all! I know there's a June/July thread but I've started this one as I'm so far behind everyone else and wanted to find others at the same stage as me!

We're due to start a FET after a failed fresh cycle in march resulted in a CP. We got 5 Frosties which I'm so pleased with and we're putting two frozen ones back this time.

AF came yesterday, so I'm booked in for scratch on 24th of this month and start DR on 22nd.

I joined a thread on my last cycle and it helped me so much as I am very private with all of this. So I'm hoping to find others to share with again 😊

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BiscuitBill · 20/08/2017 16:56

Oh Lola you poor thing.. Is AF definitely here??? Sending lots of hugs x x x

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ChoChang · 20/08/2017 17:04

Oh no, sorry lola. Is it definitely af? Spotting/bleeding can be common around implantation, so theres always a chance it could be that? Maybe try another test with fmu tomorrow. Hugs xx Flowers

Lola84 · 20/08/2017 17:15

The cramps etc feels like af. Et was 12 days ago so would it not be too late for implantation bleeding?

thegamblersmrs · 20/08/2017 17:15

Aw Lola I really hope it's just spotting. Got everything crossed for you.

Floo glad you're getting to rest and that you've got scan tomorrow. Hopefully that will reassure you.

Biscuit holiday sounds great, let's hope it's a celebration. I'm wanting to do the same but waiting until we know for sure.

Crying that's great news! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

Clinic called, booster at 8.30pm tonight it looks freaking massive can't wait to be done with injections. Nasal spray ended tonight which worries me as that was keeping af away. Ec Tuesday 7.45! Now I've got the next 2 days to worry about that. At least I'll be in work tomorrow, was worried that ec would be Monday and I wouldn't be able to phone in to tell them.

Nowwhyareyoucrying · 20/08/2017 17:15

Oh I'm so sorry Lola! Like Cho said blessing is a fairly common sign of implantation, even if it's slightly prolonged, so don't completely rule it out yet.Flowers

thirtyplusone · 20/08/2017 17:47

Crossing fingers for you Lola 😘

Floof sounds like you're having a tough time 😬 Lots of rest for you. I had a cough too and was getting out of breath easily. Not being able to take deep breaths. Those enormous ovaries crushing everything else I think.

Good luck gamblers! My trigger was enormous too. Eep. Did the trick though!

thegamblersmrs · 20/08/2017 17:53

Do you take the trigger out the fridge before hand or just do it straight from the fridge?

Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 18:45

Aw no Lola I'm so sorry but really hoping it's just spotting from all these drugs messing up ur system! I'm bloody terrible today, infact last 2/3 days all Iv done is cry! The answer to have I tested yet is still no, I honestly just can't bring myself to c the negative yet I'm just going to deal with af appearing either tomo or Tuesday! My DH has depression and I'm too worried this negative is going to make him feel more down and I just can't face it xxx

ChoChang · 20/08/2017 19:03

Aww leanne, why are you so convinced its negative? You might have a lovely surprise!

thegamblersmrs · 20/08/2017 19:07

Aw leanne bless you. You've been very strong. I hope you're proved wrong.
Know how you feel re DH, my OH is the same. I've barely told him anything re how I've been feeling throughout this as I know he'll feel so down as he feels guilty I'm going though it all, not that he should feel guilty at all

Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 19:10

That's exciting exactkybthe same as mine we have been through hell over the last year especially and had a few scary times so I'm terrified! Mine blames himself and hates putting me through it too if only the knew we didn't blame them at all!! I don't know y I'm convinced I just am, had cramp on and off today and twinges in my ovaries which I always get before af xx

Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 19:11

Sorry for the typos ☝🏻 Head up my arse

ChoChang · 20/08/2017 19:23

Aw bless you, well i hope you get an unexpected and happy surprise. When's your test day again?

Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 19:26

Thanks Cho! It's on Tuesday but will probably start spotting tomo xxx

thirtyplusone · 20/08/2017 19:40

Sending hugs Leanne. Tuesday is not far away 🤗

Gamblers mine wasn't a fridge trigger so can't help there I'm afraid 🙁

Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 19:47

Gamblers sorry I should have replied i did mine straight from the fridge xx

ChoChang · 20/08/2017 19:48

Yep I have everything crossed for you leanne.

Mines not a fridge trigger either gamblers so ive no idea x

thegamblersmrs · 20/08/2017 19:53

Cheers leanne!
Aw virtual hugs for you for tomorrow and I really hope you're proved wrong.

BiscuitBill · 20/08/2017 20:01

Did mine straight from fridge as well gamblers! Just feels abit fresh going in lol, no more painful though!
Leanne stay positive Hun, praying for a lovely BFP for you on Tuesday!
Re OH feeling guilty.. I can totally relate with them. I feel awful for putting my OH through all of this 😔 I just hope I can finally give him some happy news this time!

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Leanne1185 · 20/08/2017 20:04

Well biscuit take it from me he does not blame u!!!!!! My DH doesn't listen to me when I say that and it's so frustrating, he let the guilt overcome him it's heartbreaking x

BiscuitBill · 20/08/2017 20:13

Thanks leanne x x

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BiscuitBill · 20/08/2017 20:13

As we're nearly hitting 1k posts I've made a new thread..

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/infertility/3011438-ivf-cycle-buddies-july-august

See you all there 😊

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thegamblersmrs · 20/08/2017 20:14

It's awful isn't it as it makes them come across ignorant at times to what we are going through. I feel my OHs guilt stops him truly supporting me. We have unexplained so neither of us are to 'blame' I still feel it's my fault from all my grief (lost 5 close family members in 2 years) think my eggs are toxic.

Lola84 · 20/08/2017 21:03

@leanne. Keeping my fingers crossed for you for Tuesday

@thegamblersmrs I had mine out fridge for a few hours as was out for a meal that night and the doctors said it would b fine.

Thank you all for the kind words been an emotional night so will see what the morning brings.

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