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2ww cycle buddies November 2016

320 replies

H2016 · 11/11/2016 17:48

Has anyone recently started a cycle. I had a fet on Tuesday 8/11/16 and had spotting prior to this and then today a gush of bleeding. Has anyone else experienced this ? It's now completely gone. I'm so confused. I'm hoping its implantation bleeding but after my last fet failed and first fresh attempt resulted in early misscarriage I'm so scared this time has failed as well.

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Julie2908 · 18/11/2016 11:32

Stay positive when are you testing in morning xx

Lolly2803 · 18/11/2016 11:32

I'm going in for a blood test first thing then have to wait for a call with the result.

Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 11:00

Good luck today x

H2016 · 19/11/2016 11:12

Good luck lolly hope it's good news. Sorry not been on here I'm not coping well X

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Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 11:25

Hope ur ok Hun did you do another test today hope all goes well next time xx

Lolly2803 · 19/11/2016 12:08

It worked....I can't believe it. The clinic just called!

Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 12:21

Wow fantastic Hun so pleased for you Smile xx

H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:21

Congratulations. X

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H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:22

Ladies take care. I will check one more time for kez result. Wish u all the luck. I'm giving up now x

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H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:22

ans Julie X

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Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 12:30

I got positive Hun, really wish yours had worked x

Lolly2803 · 19/11/2016 12:32

H2016 do not give up! It's not the end of the road yet. I'm sending you a big hug and I really am so sorry xxx

Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 12:34

I felt like giving up after first time then when second time failed again but keep going Hun it really is worth it x

H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:42

Pleased for you Both. Just hate that as usual it's always me that ends up broken hearted. Don't mean u2 but everyone around me etc. I've tried 3 times I can't cope anymore. I'm never going to be a mum and have to face facts I'll be depressed till the day I die. That's it. X

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H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:44

Sorry to sound so negative but I really wish I hadn't woken up the next morning after I got that result and every morning since. It's killed me I'm actually dead on the inside now anyway. So might as well be x

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Lolly2803 · 19/11/2016 12:44

H you will be a mum. What have the clinic said? Have they given you any new ideas or thoughts for next time? Please don't give up. You will absolutely get there xx

H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:51

There's no explanation as to why. I just obviously can't carry. I can't put myself through this torture again. I feel like a prisoner I can't even be friends with people anymore once they have told me they are pregnant I shut them off coz I can't be around anyone. It's mental and emotional torture from the moment I wake up til the day I go to bed I just wish someone up there would just let me die in my sleep to end the pain x

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Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 12:51

Go speak to clinic and take it from there and there's always the offer your sis in law as made keep going Hun xx

Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 12:53

You need speak someone x

H2016 · 19/11/2016 12:58

My brother has to agree and we don't really get on so I doubt he will say yes. I've been having counselling for 7 years. It doesn't help at all. I've spoken to them I have to go in on wed but they said I can't start til Feb so I'm not bothering x

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Lolly2803 · 19/11/2016 13:00

Why not till Feb? What clinic are you at? x

Julie2908 · 19/11/2016 13:02

Wish knew what to say x

H2016 · 19/11/2016 13:14

Coz where it's times with the periods. I'll miss out this month as it will come soon. Decembers will be 2 close to Christmas it's shut til the new year. The agora in hove x

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H2016 · 19/11/2016 13:20

Sorry timed ** so would have to wait til Af in January to start again. Af still not arrived yet but it will come before my app on wed. :(. X

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kezmarie · 28/11/2016 11:42

Hi ladies.

Lolly & Julie massive congrats on your results!!
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H* I'm so sorry to read your news, I hope you're ok?

I landed back in the U.K. Saturday afternoon and couldn't wait to do a test! I used a clear blue digital test & it came up 'pregnant 2-3 weeks'. Couldn't believe it!!
Did a second test yesterday morning and it said the same! I'm in shock!

Just waiting for a call back off the clinic now to find out what happens next.....