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2ww cycle buddies November 2016

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H2016 · 11/11/2016 17:48

Has anyone recently started a cycle. I had a fet on Tuesday 8/11/16 and had spotting prior to this and then today a gush of bleeding. Has anyone else experienced this ? It's now completely gone. I'm so confused. I'm hoping its implantation bleeding but after my last fet failed and first fresh attempt resulted in early misscarriage I'm so scared this time has failed as well.

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H2016 · 17/11/2016 12:46

I know I need to know regardless but I'm not sure I can take much more heartache right now x

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Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 12:51

You have to do it when you feel ready or course. Keeping everything crossed for you x

Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 12:53

Same here Hun hope it's POSITIVE 😊X

H2016 · 17/11/2016 12:57

Thanks girls. :) do u think if I did it later it would be OK by now or best to do early morning ? X

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Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 13:02

It will show up anytime today Hun xx

Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 13:03

Excited for ya 😊Xx

H2016 · 17/11/2016 13:05

Don't wanna test coz I'm petrified it's the same as last time. 😔 My hubby is saying do it later but I'm scared xx

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Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 13:09

Get ya husband to do it with you Hun x

Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 13:31

Yer maybe wait for DH if you're scared? Thinking of you xx

Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 13:35

I am too Hun x

H2016 · 17/11/2016 13:55

It's negative I just done it. I can't deal with this again

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Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 14:03

Aw I'm so so so sorry. Wish there was something I could say to make you feel better but I know there isn't. Life is so shit and cruel sometimes. I really am so sorry xxx

H2016 · 17/11/2016 14:07

I just can't deal with this anymore. I seriously just wish I wouldn't wake up to end this torture good luck to you girls I really hope u get all u are dreaming of. Take care X

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Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 14:30

I'm really sorry Hun will you try again x

H2016 · 17/11/2016 15:13

Just spoken to the clinic. I have to test sat Incase of late implantation. But it's def not gonna be the case. I knew deep down and have said it all along. So going in for a consultation on Wednesday to start a fresh cycle. My other option is my sister in law said she will carry one for me using my eggs etc. So i don't know what to do for the best. I'm sat here with a large vodka crying in front of a packed pub. Sounds pathetic don't it X

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Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 15:22

Don't sound pathetic at all Hun no I'm sorry that's lovely thought ya sis in law carry a baby for you it's worth a try x

Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 15:52

Aw I'm so sorry. It really is nothing but absolute shit. Life can be an absolute Bitch sometimes. Be upset today and for a few days and then focus on the next steps and look forward to the future. Find out what the clinic would do differently next time. And then go from there.
That's amazing your SIL is prepared to do that for you. Always good to know what all your options are so you can prepare for every eventuality. It's not the end of the road for you. Lots of love

Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 16:10

Don't know what to say as I been there twice before and the feeling is shit x

kezmarie · 17/11/2016 16:14

Hello ladies.
Welcome Julie.
H I am so sorry to read your news. Take care of yourself.

I am all packed and ready for the big apple now!
Alarm is set for 2am!
Lolly & Julie best of luck for test days!

I'm currently 5dp3dt and surprisingly feeling okay - I land on November 26th which is test day!
I will face whatever I need to when I'm home...

Ciao for now ladies xxx

Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 16:26

Have a fantastic time Kez!!! Good Luck for test day when you get back. Let us know how you get on!! xxx

H2016 · 17/11/2016 17:24

I'm heartbroken. 3rd time. I just don't think I'm ever going to be a mum. X

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H2016 · 17/11/2016 17:25

Have a lovely holiday kez. I wish all of you luck. I prob won't be on here now as I'm just too upset and can't deal with seein bfp everywhere. I really hope u all get them!!!! Baby dust to all. Take care x

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Lolly2803 · 17/11/2016 17:26

H3026, you will be a mum. It's not the end of the road for you. Just because it hasn't worked now doesn't mean it won't work. Sending you a big hug xx

Julie2908 · 17/11/2016 17:52

I had 2 failed so please don't give up hope, thanks kez best of luck to u too xx

Lolly2803 · 18/11/2016 10:57

I've got a really upset tummy today and AF type cramps. Really thinking it hasn't worked. So upset.