Anyone Starting IVF? Join Me (4)

[bessie84]

The other thread reached 1000 comments, so having to start a new one.

A puff of Babydust to all

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Ohhh Bessie! Yes those definitely look like positive tests to me! I don't think you should feel too worried with lines like that!! How many tinies did they put back for you?

Thank you catnip just one embie. sorry for been so negative. x

don't apologise! I've got my fingers crossed for you too. Let us know what happens won't you!

Morning girls, 10dp5dt
I definately think its a chemical/miscarriage here, FRER nearly negative now, the line is still there but so faint. i knew deep down that it was. OTD tomorrow. thing is, ive had no symptoms throughtout 2ww and then for a couple of days where i was getting bfps, sore boobs, bloated, cramps. all gone again as fast as they came. woke up in tears so it must have been playing on my mind throguhtout the night.
will update tomorrow with blood results, then im going to concentrate on xmas and do a fet as soon as we're allowed. absolutely gutted doesnt even come close. its silly cos the minute they become embryos, you love them (or was it just me been stupid)
really mortified.
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all this through tears, but still holding onto a tiny bit of hope.

whoever reads this in future - DO NOT EARLY TEST - its more stress than excitement, always wait til OTD.

crikey, feel like i should be sectioned. emotions up and down.

Oh sweetheart. Hang on in there. I don't like the phrase 'emotional rollercoaster' that much because it's become a cliché, but it's also true. See what tomorrow brings. Hugs x

Thanks catnipmouse xxx

Oh Bessie don't give up hope. Fingers crossed for tomorrow. Hugs

Hello all. I'm new here and was referred for IVF by the hospital yesterday. Ive just been having a read through the last couple of pages, and although a lot of it is like a foreign language to me at the moment, I can see its very supportive.

Bessie, I know I dont know you but I really hope things work out for you tomorrow x

My dh and I have been ttc for 3 yrs with 2 chemical pregnancies 2 years ago, and no sniff of a bfp since. I went for my hycosy yesterday and both tubes are clear, blood tests show im ov-ing, dh sperm are fine, so we are in the unexplained infertility bracket. Consultant said next step is IVF, which i know next to nothing about. Thankfully there is a private clinic round the corner from where we live that we can transfer our nhs funding to, and they do free introductory appointments so we are going later today to see if we want to use the clinic and hopefully just find out more about it.

Its will be a few months before we will get going but I hope I can join your lovely supportive group - weve not told anyone irl about our situation.

Wishing you all all the luck in the world x

Thanks miracles x

Thanks Chochang - sorry you have to have ivf. wish you good luck x

im starting to wonder im focusing too much on line colours. this was so light and now its not.

i honestly think im losing the plot. is it tomorrow yet. aarrgghhhhhhhh. after all this, they better bloody give me the results the same day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bessie they don't look light to me. Looks like they are getting darker. Try not to worry. Try to take your mind off it and stay positive.

Bessie step away from the tests! You are pregnant!

Those lines are very dark.

ha, vixx i am, thats it now, bloods will give better answers. Thanks miracles vixx x

Good luck bess x

Good luck for today Bessie. I hope you get the news you want.

Thanks girls, Im back from clinic, they did their version of a urine pregnancy test and the test was more or less negative (faint line) and the consultant said not to believe FRER cos theyre too sensitive and its not looking good.

Surely all effing 8 of my tests arent wrong!!!!!!????

i didnt know weather to cry or slap him!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway, had bloods and we'll see. deflated or what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today is 11dp5dt - the FRER tests are my official BFP from this morning and the purple one is the hospital test from the same urine sample. Dont know what to think. Thing is, they say to trust your gut dont they, i half think the consultant is right. Anyway, in for a few hours wait on blood results now.

Bessie those lines look very positive to me.

My first and only pregnancy I found out at 6 weeks and the line was like that.

Fingers crossed for the bloods. Remember you are very early. I'm really rooting for you.

Bessie what clinic are u going to? Your preg tests are positive you even have a digital one saying preg 1-2 weeks so am struggling with this debate on whether you are or not?! You had transfer and u have now tested positive end of!

Bessie, they look OK to me too. It can take a while for the lines to get nicely dark. A line is a line and all that. Fingers tightly crossed for you that you get a good news phone call soon. In the meantime, FRER are making a few quid out of you at the moment aren't they?! I'm an internet cheapie girl myself, cos I'm stingy!

ChoChang, how did your introductory chat with the clinic go? Did you get a good feeling about them? Great that they will take your NHS funding (and great that you've got NHS funding too!)

ONLY ME - been taking my phone in every room most of day, only time i answer a bloody call, the nurse had rang at same time and left a voicemail, ANYWAY - rang her back - HCG Beta confirms pregnancy - 253. xxxxx

Yay!!!!!

Bessie yay that's fantastic news. Congratulations. What do you have to do now?

Thanks catnip & miracles - have to have more bloods on Monday make sure theyre doubling, everything cross they are. Then not sure. will go from there. x

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!