I can understand that. We have only told people that we can absolutely trust not to ask how its going and want updates! There are a few other people who know in a general way that we're doing IVF, but don't know any details. And my sister knows all about it, because we have a 7yo ds, and she looks after him when we have treatment.
We had our first trip to CZ a couple of weeks ago, where we discussed our history (I gave them a full set of notes from our cycles last year), had a few extra tests and a very detailed physical examination. We emailed them with our first three choices of donor (they have a database with just the basis details of the donor: age, height, weight, blood group, hair and eye colour) and our first choice said yes, so now I'm on the pill until our donor gets AF, then I stop in the hope that I get AF at the same time and then it's like a frozen cycle. Because we have to synchronise cycles the clinic has to work out timings as we go to a certain extent, but we're expecting it to be about mid-March.
We've been ttc for 5 1/2 years, I had two chemical pregnancies and a miscarriage at 8-10 weeks in 2011, surgery to unblock my tubes (caused by c-section when ds was born) and a year of IVF, so it's been a long old road, and we're excited to be trying with donor eggs! I'm 42 and we've decided that if I'm not pregnant by the middle of this year, we'll draw a line under it, so this is our last big effort.
How are you feeling about the IVF? I was very nervous about our first attempt....it was something I went into quite reluctantly, but actually it was fine.