@bloodywhitecat
It saddens me the number of children on the At Risk register whose cases go before the courts but the judge rules they should be returned home yet when it goes horribly wrong SS will be blamed.
This annoys me so much.
SS frequently have their hands tied.
Due to what some of my family and friends do plus the social workers I know who have left I can say this.
For example in a neglect case I was told about different neighbours had to report the mother over 10 times - including a couple a few times each- and my relative had to trap her so she was caught in the act, so SS could intervene.
In my own case with some of my neighbours due to the state paying for their housing only the threat of losing their housing due to their other anti-social behaviour affecting neighbours children allows SS to intervene. Oh and different neighbours have to complain with a least a couple a few times.
In one case because it was presumed I was the only woman who made a complaint - I wasn't I knew some of my other female neighbours who could hear made other complaints - the abusive women started telling at me. Luckily a male neighbour, who is a doctor, heard and told her he was going to report her for her yelling.
Oh and in all cases the parents are offered help but turn it down.