Tuesday FLY - Hello Ruby Tuesday who could hang a name on you?

[TheMadHouse]

Morning All

I have a really sore throut, neck and a blocked up nose, sat here feeling sorry for myself, as everytime I close my mouth I wake up, as I can not breath

So Mission

I think today should be an homage to the wise old Bird Ruby and Have named it Ruby Tuesday in her honour.

I am still thinking wobmy, whale like sounds and sticky thoughts (although I still have no idea as to why when visualising them, I get the whale noises in the background) cant hurt through EHM can it?

Tort Hope you manage to get a little more done this am - set that time for 15 mins and go for it, bin bag in hand

SO FLY buds, I have taken the tablets, emptied the DW, loaded the WM and am going to try to go back to sleep. If not there may be more Mad ramblings

Ruby Tuesday

Morning gang, thanks for the thread Mad, hope you're feeling better this morning and managed to get some more sleep.

I managed to get everything done yesterday bar my evening hotspot clearance, which is a vast improvement.

Morning
Get up and dressed done
S&S bathroom
Unload dishwasher done
Put washing machine on
Feed and dress DS still asleep!! woohoo
2 min hotspot - kitchen window ledge

Daytime
15 minute cleaning - kitchen/utility room
Mission - scrub worktops
S&S downstairs loo
Sort washing

Evening
Wash nappies & hang to dry
Wipe kitchen
Put bin bag out
Put dishwasher on
2 min hotspot - stairs
S&S ensuite

Morning ladies, thanks for the thread TMH. Hope you managed to get some more sleep.

Have been out of the loop for a couple of days. It was DD's christening on sunday and DH is off work this week so we've been having lots of family time. DH has even been helping out with the flying! Haven't caught up on threads yet so hope you're all okay.

So far this morning....
Get dressed
Breakfast for DD and me Done
Washing in dryer
Second load on
DD dressed
Wash breakfast dishes
Hotspot 2mins Done

Hmm, need to get on with it really!

Morning all and thanks for the thread TMH. I was thinkng last night that we needed a Ruby Tuesday song thread too

I think womby warm thoughts to a heartbeat.

DD1 as mystery aches in her arm this morning, and only ds and I are up so far. Nothing except w/m and packed lunches have been done.

Back after the school run....

Morning All

I have only briefly read through yesterday's thread...

Bianca I'm glad you got to visit your mum and her grave looked so pretty. As you know I lost my mum when I was 14, but I have no idea what the actual date was, and she was scattered...and I have no idea where!
I sometimes mean to ask dad all the details, but TBH as awful as it sounds, I haven't forgiven her enough to want to find out.
(she was an alcoholic...very grim memories )

Oh..bianca I think we might be going to visit new baby on Friday, but we will only be able to stay one night as DH has a rally to Marshall on Sat afternoon. I am not sure, but I think that is what he said. If we are staying long enough, I'll let you know

TMH I can only echo what Ruby has said (and she has said it all very well)
Just big {hugs} for you xx

EHM Big warm womby thoughts for you

Hello to all

Well I have had a mare! About 2pm yesterday I was as sick as a pig
Had to call DH home from work to look after the kids.
I was then sick about 5 times, until about 6pm when I finally stopped!
I feel ok again this morning though...thankfully!

On the plus side...I came down to find DH has done everything!
He made supper for the kids...put them to bed (with a story!)
He has loaded and run the D/W
Tidied the living room
Hung a load of washing on the radiators
Lit a fire
Fed the Guinea Pigs

I didn't think he actually knew how to do all that!!!

I also heard him speaking on the phone (to his mum or his sister I think) telling them that he thinks I do a brilliant job and he doesn't know how I cope!
We know though don't we!

He said it is a mare...you just cook..tidy up...entertain the kids...tidy up...do the washing...tidy up...put kids to bed...tidy up....then you are sooo tired you want to die!

Now he knows!!!

I am not sure he would ever admit it to me, but I am chuffed I heard him saying it anyway

Morning all

You are so much better at me than this and I can never remember what I've read brain is real mush this time

TMH being new on here I've kind of worked out your situation from posts but don't know the full story (I'm not suggesting that I need to in case it sounds like I'm trying to be nosey) but I didn't want to say nothing, it seems to me that you are a very brave lady making a very difficult decision and I'm glad you seem to have the support you need both in rl and on here.

Need to get boys to school, shall finish posting later as have just seen time

Morning all.

DD1 has started waking with the sun so I'm a bit tired. DD2 just gone for a nap which is way too early but she's really tired so now I plan to whizz about for 15 minutes and get lots done!

Morning

I got to sleep at 3 and then up again at 6

Porridge is just cooling, so 5 mins catch up

Morning routine done
TD on

To DO
List of questions e-mailed to DH for consultant
Mums and toddlers
Boys to mums for lunch
Breast Clinic

Dame I done mind nosey - lost one aunty to ovarian cancer, one in remission (she tested positive for the BRACA2 gene mutation), mum tested positive and so did I. Mum had op to remove ovaries in Dec.

What it basically means is 85% lifetime risk of Breast cancer and 60% lifetime risk of ovarian cancer, so I am taking positive action

I will update you all later

Luda Do you think it was your tummy? Nice to be appreicated
IVS Was the chistening good?
Puppy Waves and well done
Jas Great minds - Re the aches DS1 getting in arms and legs - I have told him it is growing pains

I will update you all later

x-posts FGS Clocks change soon, so hopefuly a little darker in the morning

Hello everyone
FGS have you tried blackout blinds? This stopped ds's dawn wakings literally overnight for us.

Ludaloo your DH sounds like he did you proud. They do have their moments don't they!

Todays List

People and animals fed DONE
DS and I washed and dressed
DS to nursery
S&S bathroom
Hoover downstairs
Sort dry washing & put into people piles, take upstairs
Reload w/m
Make FIL's lunch to leave in fridge as I won't be here when he arrives to do DIY jobs

Off to sort no. 2 on list, have a good day all x

hi
i decided yesterday its time to sort my flat out! so i have been following this thread with interest. followed yesterdays mission, am about to feed myself and dc, then do todays.
any advice on sorting myself organised is very welcome

we've had a blind in the garage for the last 2 years waitinbg to be put up .

Morning !

Hope everyone's ok.. esp luda mad and ehm(and welcome dhyl)

Well dh is waved off to the airport, ds is at school, dd is watching razzledazzle so I'll do my list !

to do

Find out what that squeaking sound is
Put away breakfast stuff
Clear out fridge and s/s
Sainsburys delivery
Put away sainsbos delivery

Mop kitchen floor
Clean/sweep wooden floors

Wipe down microwave
Mission

Ironing (I can't ignore it its huge)

Easy dinner
Put away
DS homework

I was going to do a nice long personalised post (Dame - ou have to have the thread ope in two windows so you can check who said what but my friend has just offered me a lift to toddler group so I'm going to go out, and will do lots this afteroon instead.

New people ( and those in need of motivation.....) we are in the Kitchen. Just concentrate on that room this morning, and th reat will come in a while.

Go and put the w/m on and shine your sink before you post!!

Morning! Very sunny here today, thankfully the wind & rain have gone

Right caught up with post yesterday & todays threads.

tortgood luck with the visitor this morning.
FGS fab advice as always to both tort & TMH. You & ruby are most wise..
ruby thanks. First 4 treatment knew when bleeding/af was going to arrive. 5 did'nt & did test on day 10 after transfer. This time I have no clue, which isn't a bad thing
tmhthanks for the thread & great title.Get some rest, I know you are a 'tough nothern bird' but you need to look after yourself.Whaley sounds make me & I agree it can't hurt. 'It ain't over til its over'{llenny kravitz style]
puppy good for you
coffee how was the christening?Enjoy the week with dh around.
dream heartbeat sounds make me go all fuzzy I am sure dd1 is ok, I like TMH idea of saying it's grwoing pains
Ludaglad dh appreciates what you do Thanks for sharing about your mum, that must be hard to talk aboutTo loose her a such any early age can't image what that must like.
dame,minkus & sleepcat hello
Welcome to dylansmum bianca hope you are feeling ok today

Ellie is watching 'Granny Creepy Murray' on "me Too!' oh no she sn't she is drawing all over her dads book!

Be back later.have a great day all..

sage hi, how long is dh away for?
dream enjoy toddlers.

morning all
not a good morning here
not had much sleep at all
because of poor little gecko

not sure what I will manage but stil trying

I have also been back to the docs to ask for areferal for therapy and my ad's again

make bed
put a wash on
fold clean clothes
put away a pile of clean clothes
empty dishwasher
eat something
clear away breakfast things

pick up prescription
keep head together
worry about gecko done

Welcome dylsmum

One of the key things for me with FLYing is the 15 minute idea - if you spend 15 mins a day on decluttering it will soon sort itself out. It's amazing what you can get done in 15 minutes when you really focus. When the decluttering is done, you then spend your 15 minutes on detailed cleaning. As Dream said, this week we are decluttering/cleaning in the kitchen.

trinity Poor You & poor baby. I've read your thread & dances mentioned ear infections, dd has had a few & they so cause similar symptoms. the dr can set your mind at ease.try & get some rest.

Trinity Please dont be sad about the anti'd and the referal. You are getting help and that is what counts.

I can talk about this throught experiance, ahving suffered from depression as a child and also when my dad died and again serve PND after DS2 and subsequent m/c.

I received superb treatment with the local mental health team, 24 hour crisis care, consultant care and also subsequent weekly CBT at home. I am on the upward streach at the moment, looking at reducing my meds over the next year gradually, although my CBT is winding down, I will remain under consultant care rather than GP, as it geives me access to other help should I require it with the cancer issues.

I have an illness, it is being trated and I have the tools to try to prevent it coming back, but also to regognise its symptons and deal with them at an ealier stage.

It has not been easy, but my driving force has been the children. I gre up with a depressive mother and I do not want them to see what I did under any circumstanmces.

feel fry to cat me to discuss anytime. I am not ashamed of my issue, it is an illness just like cancer

ruby Thanks for the you tube clip. Ellie said' whatzz zzzzhat?' & then 'signed' fish