Tuesday FLY - Hello Ruby Tuesday who could hang a name on you?

[TheMadHouse]

Morning All

I have a really sore throut, neck and a blocked up nose, sat here feeling sorry for myself, as everytime I close my mouth I wake up, as I can not breath

So Mission

I think today should be an homage to the wise old Bird Ruby and Have named it Ruby Tuesday in her honour.

I am still thinking wobmy, whale like sounds and sticky thoughts (although I still have no idea as to why when visualising them, I get the whale noises in the background) cant hurt through EHM can it?

Tort Hope you manage to get a little more done this am - set that time for 15 mins and go for it, bin bag in hand

SO FLY buds, I have taken the tablets, emptied the DW, loaded the WM and am going to try to go back to sleep. If not there may be more Mad ramblings

Hi all,

Trinity - concentrate on gecko. the housework can wait. has your cleaner started yet?

I didnt even realise we were in the kitchen this week .

have hoovered though anfd played Guess Whoo with DD1 for the last 30 mins

thankyou so much TMHi can't cat but may decide to pay for it soon

you sound like you have more reason to be having trouble than me

I feel that my kids have already suffered because of me

that is what made me go to the docs yesterday to start to get it sorted.

fgs[shocked] you didn't know it was kitchen time makes me feel better that its not just me then

one of my best friends has just dumped me
her controlling boyfriend has finally won

fuck this a bad day

trinity,
thats harsh sorry that this has hapened.
hopefully soon she will come to see him as he is, and come looking for a good friend

trinity {{{{hugs}}}}

puppydogtails
thank you have just spent 15mins decluttering the kitchen sides, so much clutter had built up on them
they look loads better now tho. have washed all the sides down now i have found them.
off to hoover rest of rooms now, and dust
should tackle ironing at some point, but dc have tummy bugs so will see how that goes

Hello All and a big Grouchy welcome to the raft of newbies here.

Done

Up and washed
Bathroom S&S
Down with crockery
Start making 'Mummy's magic porridge'
Pack Ed's bag for the day
Empty DW
Clear draining board
Put away
Serve breakfast (Ed gives some to Teddy)
Tidy away
Get dressed
S&S Ed
Teeth cleaning
Help Ed dress (pulling teeth this one. I threatened to take him to school in whatever he was wearing at 8:30...
Take him to school
Home
Hang wet washing out
Vac front room
Clean front room window
Clean glass in front room
Clean Ed's bedroom window (hed scrubbed toothpaste on the inside and outside [grrrh]
Clean our bedroom window

Legs are letting me down so I will have to sit down and take it very steady. I'm working tomorrow afternoon and I don't want to miss it by being ill.

trinity -= her problem not yours. You need to focus on yourself. Doc appointment is the best start. Cleaner also good. Take everything in babysteps, (not just the housework) and it will all come good.

trinity

Was going to post stuff but have done nothing so need to shift myself, tired as was up too much of the night with ds3 who was awake for no apparent reason but sad and now I've been told on the school run how tired I look by people I feel like sitting in the corner and not moving but will try and finish my morning routine then check in.

Bianca have replied to email

*Trinity your feeling blue. Sorry your friend has done that to you.

I also battle with depression and anxiety. Mental health issues seem to run in my family and I know the damage it can do to those around the sufferer. Good on you for going to sort it out. TMH is right, it is an illness like anything else

Hi

Have managed to sort the house out (not that much needed doing really!)

Bianca I have been chatting to DH, we might go and visit SIL next weekend instead, give her time to get over the cesarean, and give us a bit more time to organise ourselves. The kids all break up next Thursday for the 2 week easter break, so we wouldn't be in a hurry to come back, I could maybe come over with the kids and say hello
Will have to chat with SIL and see what she thinks, and when is convenient for her.

Trinity I agree with TMH, don't be sad, we all need a little help along the way Glad little Gecko is ok now...I read your thread, it must have been very traumatic. My DS gets very high temps for no specific reason, and is very prone to febrile convultions, which make us all panick! I hope gecko isn't too poorly with it.

Ruby ooooooh my sincerest sympathies for your DD2 being sick is grim
Hope she recovers soon.

Welcome to dylsmum
I agree, decluttering is the best place to start...get rid of all the clutter and then you can focus on tidying.

gosh I spent so long writing that out, there are loads of posts!

Trinity oh dear....that is horrid, but just remember it isn't anything you have done, it is her problem not yours, so concentrate on you not her.

thankyou evereyone, you are being sao kind
I'm sorry, I'm not sure whether I hsould post this kind of stuff on the fly thread
kind of mucks up the positiveness of it

I had to tell someone thiough

I'm really struggling today, keep holding gecko tight to me
keep crying

Trinity ...FLY is not just here for housework, we're here for support too.

Mail me at [email protected] I'll be online until about 12:30

ahh Ruby thanks, I'll get through it, just have to take it easy

As my postie says. 'Steady Away'

Nah, he's a scooter riding tattooed friendly chap.

Nice thing about being a SAHM, you get to know the people who do things - Postie, Window Cleaner, street sweeper etc etc

lol I'm not the only person to chat to anyone i see then Grouchy
lol my friends laugh at me cos i chatto street cleaners, window cleaners, the lady in the co-op even if she not in the co-op etc.
(not because of their jobs, just because i don't know them)

lol ruby sorry trying to ignore it, not cos I'm rude but i don't want nightmares!
shudder shudder

Tort keep forgetting to say...the fairy costume arrived safe and well...THANK YOU! DD2 loves it (of course she had to put it on immediately!
Many thanks