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Fledglings prepare to fly their lockdown nests and jump into July - join us for the July FlyLady thread

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KTCluck · 30/06/2020 21:50

Welcome all fledglings, newbies and lurkers to the July 2020 flylady thread, where we try and follow flylady’s system to keep our homes in order and our lives organised. We are a friendly bunch and like a bit of a natter, amongst posting our ‘To Do’ lists for accountability and celebrating our ‘Ta Da’ lists no matter how long or short. No fledgling is left behind, just jump in and join us wherever you are at - whether you are a lazy slattern living in chaos or a fully certified domestic goddess wanting to keep up the motivation. Most of us flit between the two depending on the day. The threads tends to be a supportive corner of MN, and we readily provide listening ears for woes and rants when needed.

Flylady is a system based around morning and evening routines, with babysteps to get you started and a daily focus, such as planning and family fun day. There’s a weekly home blessing (or ‘bleurgh’ as we prefer) which is a basic clean to keep the house ticking over, with short bursts of decluttering or deeper cleaning in weekly zones once you are ready. Flylady also suggests short missions each day. Feel free to adapt the system to make it fit in with your life.

Link to the launchpad is here (I hope) and the baby steps are here. From the launchpad I like the ‘flight plan’ for a reminder of the routines, and ‘sneak peek of the week’ for a list of the week‘a missions. You can sign up for emails, but be warned, you will need to regularly declutter your inbox!

As thread leader for July I have taken possession of the thread pointy stick —> for anyone in need of a sharp prod of motivation, but I’ve also set up a chilled quiet naughty corner, complete with comfortable day beds, a gentle sea breeze, and unlimited fruit platters, ice creams and cocktails to any fledgling who is in need of rest and recuperation or is just on strike. No partners or children allowed.

I’ll also try and keep the ‘keep calm corner’ (KCC) going. Originally introduced by our lovely SC, it’s a little daily dose of respite we’ve been using to help us get through these strange times.

I’ll do my best to keep us all motivated and flying throughout July. On work days I may appear with the larks, or not crawl in until the end of the day so apologies in advance if I’m late with links.

We start tomorrow in zone 1 (hall, porch, dining room). Here’s the missions. Habit of the month is ‘swish and swipe’ which is a daily 2 minute wipe of our toilets and sinks. Tomorrow is anti-procrastination day where we tackle those tasks we’ve been putting off.

Anyway, enough waffle, July we are coming for you! shortly, I’m just checking the naughty corner is ready

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LittlemissAWOL · 28/07/2020 10:45

Glad you are feeling a little better bower.

How old are the children your DD is babysitting hazel?

I have done sod all so far. Child free so woke up naturally at about 9am. Stayed in bed and read some of my book and played games on my phone until about 10 minutes ago. Made a coffee and just sat enjoying the silence.

Only need to S&S, LOL & ironing before I walk along to get them. Think I'll make some crumpets and a cup of tea before I start. I feel like a lady of leisure this morning 😂

👋 to KT, Lane, zoo, meg, SC, merry, that, lisette, mummy, foxes, Marta, stressey, Mrs tidy and chic.

Hope I haven't missed anyone, hope everyone had a lovely day 😊

Stilllivinginazoo · 28/07/2020 12:52

Well i had a 90 minute nap
Still tired tho...

martakeithy · 28/07/2020 13:01

Afternoon,
Awol oo lovely morning for you. Do you feel recharged? Smile
Bower jam making is quite labour intensive, good for you for powering through. It will be worth it when you have that delicious jam. Yum
I have had a couple of rough nights, but that's babies for you.
I did the 4 habits quiz at 3am Grin. I am a questioner, apparently, which seems about the size of it really. I am quite nosey and annoying. Smile
I am a very resentful, obliger. I just don't see why I should be clearing up mess for an able bodied person (with very low standards Grin ) Hmm
Am currently watching the babby. She is thinking. She just learnt how to flop from her tummy onto her back. I think she just realised that she could get over to the cat's, smelly toy and give it a lick, if she....rolls...not actually done it, but...
I dont have a dining room as such, but do have 2, cluttered tables, so spent 15 minutes starting the declutter with them
A lot of storage to go through in sitting room!
Swished kitchen and washing up done
Put on wash
Strip beds and new on
Inline Bank payment s
Update Amazon deets
Ebay something if time
Bookbug
Yoga baby
Yoga self
Ow being hit by flailing babby
Going for now
Waves to all mwahDaffodil

LittlemissAWOL · 28/07/2020 13:10

Glad you got a nap zoo.

I definitely do marta. I could get used to this 🤣
It's cute when they first start rolling. That shocked little look on their face like wow how did that happen. OMG I nearly got broody there for a tiny second then came to my senses 🤣

Ta-da's
🧁 LOL
🧁 got dressed
🧁 S&S
🧁 ironing
🧁 dishes

I did also start filling in an online thing I've been putting off since 1st July. Started, realised it's Tuesday so I can procrastinate if I want and sacked it off 🤣.

I've just had lunch and watching some OITNB because I never get a chance (DH hates it and definitely not one I can watch when the DC are here 😂)

Next lot of to-do's
🖐 wash dishes
🖐 was along for boys
🖐 get them to do some homework I think

martakeithy · 28/07/2020 13:27

Awol. Haha! Yes, snap out of it! No broodiness! Grin
Just think of the nights! Shock
What is OITNB?
(See, I AM a Questioner)

martakeithy · 28/07/2020 13:28

Hangon it's Orange.... got it!Grin

LaneBoy · 28/07/2020 14:43

PO3.2
❗️Move laundry on and get DD1 to strip her bedding and wash it
❗️Put page number footer thingy on book manuscript as author is meant to phone me soon
❗️Talk to DH about the plan for the rest of the day Hmm

xmummy2princesx · 28/07/2020 15:24

Hi all sorry I fell off the theead. Have been doing sum home improvements. I finally did the boys room. Bought sum wallpaper and painted it. Will show a pic of it. Also got a free table and chair off a family member 4 my kitchen. And changed the tiles. Will post sum pics 4 u all!. Will catch up later!

Fledglings prepare to fly their lockdown nests and jump into July - join us for the July FlyLady thread
Fledglings prepare to fly their lockdown nests and jump into July - join us for the July FlyLady thread
Fledglings prepare to fly their lockdown nests and jump into July - join us for the July FlyLady thread
Stilllivinginazoo · 28/07/2020 17:40

You've been busy mummy boys room looks lovely

Ate lunch,fell asleep watching film.still bloody tired.think I'm just having one of those days....

HungryHazelEyes · 28/07/2020 18:13

AWOL the girls are 5/6 and 3/4 really not too sure! But they are very well behaved. They are cousins of my DC cousins if that makes sense.

Marta hopefully your babby doesn't roll enough to lick your cats toy! It's always exciting when they reach another milestone.

zoo I'm glad you were able to take a nap. Hopefully your energy levels rise again soon.

KT I've had 3 cups of coffee already today and relaxed while drinking them. Plus I have a hair appt later today. I hope you have a great day at work.

tidy well done for finding your mojo! It's great when you finally have a routine that works.

lane well done on your power of 3, hopefully you get some me time in there today.

princes very nice decorating.
bower I'm glad you're feeling a bit better today. I've made jam before and choose not to make it again! More power to your DH.

Ta Das:

🦝 Placed grocery pickup order.

🦊 LOL- sheets, just got done in dryer.

🦝 LOL- towels in washer.

🦊 3 cups of coffee!

🦝 hair and makeup done.

🦊 made DH breakfast (1st thing this morning)

🦝 shredded more cheese & cooked more sausage (for DH breakfasts)

It's just after 11am, been awake since just before 7am. I feel like today is going a lot smoother than I thought it was going to.

HungryHazelEyes · 28/07/2020 18:17

AWOL the girls are 5/6 and 3/4 really not too sure! But they are very well behaved. They are cousins of my DC cousins if that makes sense.

Marta hopefully your babby doesn't roll enough to lick your cats toy! It's always exciting when they reach another milestone.

zoo I'm glad you were able to take a nap. Hopefully your energy levels rise again soon.

KT I've had 3 cups of coffee already today and relaxed while drinking them. Plus I have a hair appt later today. I hope you have a great day at work.

tidy well done for finding your mojo! It's great when you finally have a routine that works.

lane well done on your power of 3, hopefully you get some me time in there today.

princes very nice decorating.
bower I'm glad you're feeling a bit better today. I've made jam before and choose not to make it again! More power to your DH.

Ta Das:

🦝 Placed grocery pickup order.

🦊 LOL- sheets, just got done in dryer.

🦝 LOL- towels in washer.

🦊 3 cups of coffee!

🦝 hair and makeup done.

🦊 made DH breakfast (1st thing this morning)

🦝 shredded more cheese & cooked more sausage (for DH breakfasts)

It's just after 11am, been awake since just before 7am. I feel like today is going a lot smoother than I thought it was going to.

HungryHazelEyes · 28/07/2020 18:18

Oops sorry, didn't mean to post twice!

LaneBoy · 28/07/2020 18:48

Did the quiz. Yep. Obliger. 😂 That said I think I have contradictory rebel tendencies too - demands make me really anxious (but then maybe that’s because I take them so seriously that I get stressed over them...)

Bowerbird5 · 28/07/2020 19:27

I missed the quiz link.

Well this morning I woke up feeling better and got up and had tea and cornflakes, almond milk and since about 11:30am I have felt sick all day. DH is scoffing the Moroccan Lamb as we speak and is secretly pleased to eat it again. I have had nothing since the cereal. Just lemon and ginger tea. Put the rest of the black currants in the freezer.
DH had vacuumed so I did the ironing which has sat there for nearly a week. Now I am shattered. Lying on the bed just now and could just drop off.

2princes wow that looks lovely. It takes me back my boys had that colour in their room. Don’t let them sleep there though if you have just painted - the fumes are bad for them. What a great relation to give you that brilliant table and chairs. Good tile job Miss DIY champion😁

Hazel I have made it for years. It is much easier when you have the right equipment. I treated myself to a proper jam pan, thermometer, funnel and spoon a few years ago. Black currant just always takes ages. Raspberry is the quickest and I used to be a dab hand at strawberry which some people find difficult. The berries are free you see I have two very large, overgrown bushes. I used to take the kids to PYO strawberries and raspberries it was a trip out. Then we would make jam and it would keep us going in quick sarnies for the year. Sometimes I have swapped jams with a friend which worked well. We do swap produce a bit around here. Last year I was really disappointed to not get any apples. The new people either kept them all or chopped the tree down. I am planning to give her some black currants and let her know the 30 year tradition.🤣🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏

I haven’t got it Marta.

AWOL seems like a few of us have been ironing today. Glad it is done now. I have to put it away yet.🙈

Waves to all fledglings and leaves a big box of chocolates in the corner.

JigoloHarMegiddo · 28/07/2020 21:15

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xmummy2princesx · 28/07/2020 21:48

Thank u zoo I’m chuffed wiv it and the tables gr8!!

Thank u hazel

I’m sorry ur feeling sick bower❤️ I painted it a couple of days ago the boys have been in wiv me since but r going back in their room now they love it!. Table and chairs are amazing and will b nice cuz now we can have ppl over 4 tea and stuff.

Thank u meg gr8 list!

I hope u all r okay! I am struggling 2 catch up so will just get back in2 it. No flying 2day rly but will start again from 2mo!

martakeithy · 28/07/2020 22:15

Hi all,
I will make this quick because the babby will probably wake up any minute. She hasn’t been to sleep for more han 15 minutes all day. I didn’t even remember to brush my teeth. Mmm nice breath

Bower it’s Orange is the New Black, is that what you meant?
Mmmm, chocolates!
Are you keeping a jar of jam out or freezing all?
I hope you feel a bit less nauseous soon. I find a capful of cider vinegar in a little bit of water helps me? Not for everyone though
Xmummy that looks fab. Did you try out the table yet?
Hungry haha Jam ‘choose not to make it again’.
Zoo some days you just need to take it easy and ignore the heaps. You will probably be feeling refreshed tomorrow
Jigolo thanks for that wing flap! Dried my hair nicely.
Lane the best kind of obligers are rebels. Balances it out. There should have been a runner up tendency as well as the main habit.
Awol did you help with (understand) the homework?
I didnt get much zoney stuff done. Looks around, no actually no zoney stuff. Too much babby work and being tired.
Did swishes and hotspots and badgered DS into changing his bed and doing a bit of washing up. Managed to list a few things on Ebay, so that might count as d cluttering, if any shortsighted, unfashionable person buys my old tat
Oh well better pop off to bed. Grabs toothbrush
Night all. Smile

merryhouse · 28/07/2020 22:27

xmummy very impressed with your decorating!

TaDa
made packed lunch for S2
went to gym - managed half pre-lockdown run plus some tiny-slope walking
shower etc
s&s
made bed
picked and washed very bolted lettuce
hoovered lounge, hall and half of stairs
made lunch
bit of tidying lounge (papers are now in study though not away)
did brief dust (around tv and clavinova)
made beef casserole and jacket potatoes
took phone call about possible ringing for weddings; told over-enthusiastic octogenarian to talk to the vicar before unilaterally deciding what might be feasibly argued to fit within the guidelines...

TaDint
report
laundry

ToMorrow
report, dammit
wash towels etc
weights at gym
make Massive Shopping List

LaneBoy · 28/07/2020 22:48

Here ya go bower sorry you feel sick x

quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

ta da
🚁bedding stripped
🚁LOL and got Caglets doing their bedding during the day
🚁hung out bedding for a bit
🚁finished a short FL course
🚁poked DD1 through maths AKA torture
🚁made salad for lunch
🚁arranged therapy for Caglets as the charity phoned
🚁finally printed DD1’s report from said charity
🚁poked everyone through bath/shower/hair
🚁80 min editing on phone call from author
🚁workout
🚁DLMS although I could have at DH, both DDs and the author at various points through the day. I’ll collect the medals tomorrow, cheers.
🚁just finishing tesco order amendment

I. Am. So. Tired. 🤬😰🥱

KT I had volunteered for August and still happy to do that. What was the verdict on links etc? Would people be happy with some links in the OP and then just reminders rather than links most of the time? I get the feeling most of us don’t need the links and we could post them if newbies needed them?

TooStressyTooMessy · 28/07/2020 23:21

Just fluttering in to say hello. Lane, I’m happy without links each day. I think it’s nice to have them in the OP but then very happy to look at the OP again if I actually wanted to see them. I rarely look at them anyway Blush. Just trying to get through the day these days Grin. Happy to go with whaevwr people want though.

HungryHazelEyes · 29/07/2020 01:00

More ta das:

🍋 2 more LOLs.

🍋 Hair cut and roots done, DD got blue, purple and green in hers, like a peacock. It's very pretty!

🍋 Lemon and blueberry loaf made (keto friendly of course)

🍋 Paid for annual registration of 2 of our vehicles (a month early for one - that never happens!)

🍋 Waiting outside for DD- she's having a job interview right now, already been told she's pretty much got the job as 2 of her friends work there. We'll see how it goes.

I'm losing motivation to make dinner - this isn't good as it's my day off.

KTCluck · 29/07/2020 06:14

Morning!

I’ve come out as an upholder on the quiz, which I agree with as I am absolutely a rule follower Grin.

That sounds good to me Lane. I’ve been posting the links regularly just in case anyone needed it (see, upholder Grin), but don’t need them myself. Are you happy to start a new thread a bit early if we run out of room here? I can easily start a second one to keep us going if not.

Day off today, and have upstairs home bleurgh to do. I’m not planning much else though as I’d like to spend plenty of time having been away on Saturday. Zone 5 can wait until downstairs bleurgh on Saturday morning.

Mummy you have the house looking lovely! Bet the boys are pleased with their room.

Star for organisation Hazel. Hope DD got the job.

Waves to Meg, Stressy, Marta, Merry, Bower, Lisette, Tidy, ED, AWOL, Foxes, That, Zoo and SC*. DD has just woken up so need to drag myself out of bed and get going. I’ll check in later

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THATscurryfungeBITCH · 29/07/2020 06:35

I don't look at the links ever. I always say i will start doing it. But i don't. Its clearly the rebel in me. E.g your all working on the living room this week and i am in my kitchen 🤣 I am a proper fraud fledgling!

princes i love that wall paper! Its so hard to decorate with small ones so hats off to you! My little two are 10 months and 3 years.

This week i have FINALLY filed all the home school shit. Also ordered some storage boxes so it can go in the loft.

Tried to order DD (7) some vests for winter but couldn't get any in her size (8-9) so ordered crop tops. She is confused as to how these will keep her warm and would like me to sew some additional material on so they cover her stomach 😑

Oh and i did my student finance application wrong so i had to redo it (this is my third year so how i did it wrong i do not know)

Stilllivinginazoo · 29/07/2020 07:01

that I shouldn't laugh but be asked add extra material did make me chuckle.dont you just love that assumption you've time for such faffing?

I was up 11-230 with acute panic attack by dd2.i already ready for bed,but brains buzzing...

Tada

Cats fed
Wash on
Sorted meds crate on top bookcase,discarding out date stuff,noting what needs topping up,what needs repeat script ordering
Wash up last night's dinner stuff
Sweep lower floors
Clean out fridge
Tidy freezer

I really should take TV unit down and tidy behind it today.was hunting batteries yesterday and phone torch saw lot ditritus and spiderwebs....

THATscurryfungeBITCH · 29/07/2020 07:54

She clearly feels i have too much time on my hands zoo! I will keep an eye out for proper vests in her size but if i cannot find any i will NOT be sewing extra bloody material on to the crop tops Hmm

Ta da
💙 washer on
💛 dryer on
💚 baby up fed changed dressed and now back asleep
💜 found a scientific calculator on amazon with the all important fractions button (£6 if anyone needs one!)
🧡 browsed argos for present ideas for dc4 and 5 who both have birthday in the next couple of months
❤ added bits to Asda order